Ungayifaka njani i-alimony? Imibuzo neempendulo.

Uthando luza kwaye luhamba, kwaye kunye nokudlula kwakhe, ulonwabo lwentsapho luyabhubha. Umama, Ukhohlo wedwa, akakho nako ukubonelela abantwana babo konke okuyimfuneko. Kwaye ke kufuneka into enqunywe isigqibo malunga nokuphila kwemali yabantwana. Umbuzo uvela malunga nendlela yokufakela i-alimony. Makhe siqwalasele ezinye zezinto eziqhelekileyo malunga ne-alimony kwaye uzame ukunika iimpendulo ezicacileyo kubo.

Umbuzo 1. Indlela yokufaka isicelo se-alimony ?

Phendula. Ewe, ndifuna ukuthetha ukuba indlela efanelekileyo yokulungisa le ngxaki ukuza kwisivumelwano ngokuthula. Musa ukwenza nantoni ngobubi. Ufanele uhlaziye iimvakalelo zakho kwaye uxoxe ngokuzinzileyo malunga nokuba luphi na umyalelo oya kuhlawulwa kubantwana phambi kwenani labo. Kodwa, hayi, ngokunyanisekileyo, ngale ndlela ingxaki ixazululwa kuphela yincinci encinane yezibini ezitshatileyo. Isisombululo sombuzo sele sasihluke. Kufuneka ukuba ufake ifom yebango.

Kukho enye inketho yokubuyisela i-alimony. Ukuba awuzange uqhawule umtshato, ngoko xa ufaka isicelo sokuqhawula umtshato, kuya kufuneka ucele ukufunyanwa kwe-alimony kubantwana kwisicengululo kwinxalenye yesitatimende sesibango .

Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba xa usenokutshata ngokusemthethweni, usenelungelo lokumelana, njengokuba bobabini abazali kufuneka bahlanganyele ekugcinweni kwabantwana abangaphantsi kwezinto, kungakhathaliseki ukuba batshatile okanye hayi.

Umbuzo 2. Indlela yokufaka isicelo se-alimony ?

Phendula. Isicelo kufuneka sihambisane nesiqinisekiso somtshato, izatifikethi zokuzalwa zabo bonke abantwana, isicatshulwa kwincwadi yendlu kunye neirisithi eqinisekisa ukuhlawulwa komsebenzi karhulumente.

Ummangali wokuxhasa umntwana kufuneka abhalisele kwisicelo. Ukuba ngenxa yesizathu esithile umbuyiseli akakwazi ukwenza oku, ke kufuneka umqulu utywinwe ngummeli wakhe, onamandla okutyhalwa kwegqwetha.

Umbuzo 3. Ungayifaka njani i-alimony ? Ndingayifaka phi na amaxwebhu?

Ingxelo yesibango kufuneka ifakwe enkundleni kwindawo yokuhlala yowesibini iqabane. Ukuba umbuyiseli akaqapheli lo mbandela kwaye ummangali uyafihla ulwazi malunga nokuba uhlalaphi, ummangali angafaka isicelo kwindawo yokubhalisa.

Ukuba awuyazi apho umyeni wakho osebenza ngaphambili, ungadikibala. Kufuneka usebenzise izicelo kubaxhasi. Kukho iimeko xa bengathandi ukuqonda le ngxaki: ingaba akufumani ixesha lakho, okanye unqabe konke. Kule meko, qhagamshelana nommeli wakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukunceda: okanye uqokelele yonke ingcaciso malunga nommangalelwa ngokwakhe, okanye unyanzele ukuba abaxhasi basebenze, kuba lo msebenzi wabo othe ngqo.

Umbuzo 4. Ngokuqhelekileyo ummangalelwa wokuqokelela i-alimony ngumyeni wangaphambili, kodwa ungayifaka njani i-alimony kumfazi wakhe?

Phendula. Ewe, nangona kungenjalo, kodwa kukho imeko xa ukukhuliswa kwabantwana kuwela kumagxa omntu. Kwaye ngoku, amadoda ayazibuza nokuba angayifaka njani i-alimony kuyise. Ngaba banelungelo lokwenza oku? Ngokuqhelekileyo, amadoda anelungelo elifanayo njengabasetyhini, ukuba emva koqhawulo-mtshato bahlanganyela ekukhulisweni kwabantwana. Bakhona banelungelo lokufumana iintlawulo zenyanga nge-25% yomvuzo womntwana omnye, enye yesithathu kubini, kunye ne-50% yomvuzo wabantwana abathathu okanye ngaphezulu.

Musa ukwethuka, igqwetha liya kunceda ukuba ulinganise.