Ukufunyanwa yesondlo. Into ekufuneka uyazi?

Ngokutsho manani, ukusukela kwisiqingatha sesibini senkulungwane lokugqibela inani baqhawule umtshato ngonyaka ngamnye eRashiya ngabantu angaphezulu oyintsobi yalowo 140 lamawaka. Noko ke, uqhawulo-mtshato, maxa wambi kuvela - hayi ngxaki inkulu. Divorce and isondlo kwiqabane ukuya isandla ngesandla. Ngoko ke, kufuneka ukwazi ngalo kangangoko kunokwenzeka.

Isondlo - sisixa semali, ngokutsho enkundleni, kufuneka ahlawule emva komtshato iqabane enye ukuya kwenye - omnye lowo wayengumntwana minor (okanye abantwana ngaphezulu). Oko kukuthi, ukuba le ntsapho babeyigqobhozile ngexesha xa abantwana engama-18 ubudala, isondlo - mbuzo apho engekho phantsi ngokutsha.

Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuba imali ilungiselelwe kuba abantwana, abazali, kunye nabo bahlala. Ukongeza, umntu omdala umntwana eyomeleleyo kuya kufuneka ukuba enze iintlawulo uyise abakhubazekileyo kunye nonina.

Ukufunyanwa yesondlo ezinkundleni

Ngokubanzi, zemali unikeze abantwana emva komtshato kungaba ngokuzithandela. Kulo mzekelo, isondlo kunokwenziwa kucacisiwe kwincoko lobuqu. Noko ke, xa elinye iqabane arhoxise ilungelo lakhe lokufuna uxanduva lwakhe ngqo, lo mbuzo kwaye kufuneka kusonjululwa ziinkundla. Yintoni ekufuneka ndiyazi? Nazi iingongoma ezibalulekileyo:

• isicelo isondlo uyakuba nelungelo omnye wabalingane, kwakunye amanye amalungu entsapho (abantu zidweliswe kwi-Code Family);
• inkundla iya kuqwalasela zonke iimeko (ingaphelanga inyanga enye ukususela kumhla lwesicelo) kwaye isebenzisa ukuba benze isigqibo;
• ngokuba umntwana nye inika isixa esilingana ikota kwingeniso kommangalelwa. Kuba ezimbini - esithathwini, ezintathu okanye ngaphezulu - isiqingatha. Xa oku kuthathelwa ingqalelo kuphela ingeniso ngqo umhlawuli, kodwa enye ingeniso yayo;
• kulo mzekelo, xa ingeniso ummangalelwa yeyona ngaphantsi ummangali, inkundla ingenza isigqibo ityala siyamkela kuqala, okanye abele isabelo, kakhulu incinane ngaphezu kokuba bekumele ukuba kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo;
• into yokuba ummangali okanye ummangalelwa (okanye zombini) are abantwana. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, xa iingxoxo kufuneka inxaxheba abameli esemthethweni amaqabane;
• isondlo ngummiselo ukulinganiselwa akanayo. Oko kukuthi, oko kuthatha elininzi ixesha ukususela umtshato phambi kokuba isicelo omnye wabalingane enkundleni (kakade, oku kufuneka kwenzeke de abantwana babe abantu abadala);
• isondlo ngabantu abangaphantsi kweminyaka eli-18 ubudala. Nangona kunjalo, umthetho ubonelela intlawulo kunye abadala abangengabo nako ukusebenza;
• iindleko ezinxulumene ukwenza ushishino, kwakunye bentlawulo yobhaliso lithweswe ngokupheleleyo bamagxa yommangalelwa. Ummangali akahlawuli nto;
• ukuba umba kwakhona alementov ummangali wazama ukucombulula ngokusebenzisa uxolo, kwaye ummangalelwa zabaleka, emva kokuya enkundleni angacela sokudibanisa seminyaka emithathu ngaphambi;
• kulo mzekelo, ukuba awazi na kanti ummangalelwa (kunye data efunekayo kwisicelo), uxwebhu kufuneka ibonise kuwe kwidilesi eyaziwayo yokugqibela, apho wayehlala khona.

Wazi amalungelo akho kunye namalungelo abantwana babo kwaye ungoyiki kubakhusela ngaphezulu!