Ndisawula ukuba usana: nokubuyekezwa oogqirha

Ukuzaliswa kwintsapho kuyonwabile. Ukwamkela umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa, ufumana ulwandle lwentsibano, ububele kunye nokumxelisa. Le ncongolo encinci ayinakunceda, ndifuna ukubambelela kum kwaye ndingayivumeli ukuba ihambe ngomzuzu. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba athathe umntwana usuku lonke. Emva koko, umama omncinci unemisebenzi eminingi yasemakhaya engenakuyilinda. Kwimeko enje, yenzelwe ukuveliswa okukhulu - isalathiso kwintsana. Iingxelo zithi le nto iyimfuneko. Into ephambili kukuba ulungiselele umntwana ngokukhululekile, njengokungathi kusezandleni zomama, kwaye unokuhamba ngokukhuselekileyo uhamba, uthengise kwaye uthathe ukucoca.

Iingcali

Ngomama kamama, umntwana wayesebenze ixesha elide ephihliweyo. Ngoko ke, ezinyangeni ezimbalwa zokuqala iimvumba zithatha i-pose evamile, i-back back is by arc. Usana lukhululekile, lufudumele kwaye lubaluleke kakhulu, ukunxibelelana nonina luqhubeka. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntu omncinci aziva ukufudumala komama.

Umbuzo ovame ukufunwa rhoqo: ngaba izityana ezisanda kuzalwa ziyingozi? Iingcamango zoogqirha ziphantse zidibene. Izikhanyiso zamachiza zikholelwa ukuba akukho nzakalo kwimpilo yeziqhekeza ezi zixhobo. Kodwa inzuzo ikhoyo. Ngokukodwa kwiintsana ezingaphambi kwexesha, kufuneka zihlale ziqhagamshelana nomama kwaye zondliwe ngokufunwa. Le ndlela yokuncedisa inceda ukuphuhliswa okukhawulezileyo kokutya. Emva koko, kwiinyanga zokuqala kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba unina unobisi obaneleyo wokuncelisa. Emva koko umntwana uya kukhulula ngokukhawuleza aze abe namandla.

Ngaphambili ulwalamano

Kunzima kakhulu ukubuyisela umzimba emva kokubeletha. Isibalo sitshintsha ngaphaya kokuqaphela, kwaye ixesha lokuqeqeshwa koomama abaselula alanele. Indlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokuphuma kwimeko i-sling-scarf for the newborns. Ukuphononongwa ngokukhawuleza kumama okwakhiwa ngokumangalisayo kumangalisa. Bathi banxibe umntwana kwishilo ngeeyure eziliqela ngosuku, bawusondeza ngeenxa zonke. Oku kwadala umphumo webhanki. Ukongezelela, ukugqoka umntwana kule fowuni kunciphisa umthwalo ukusuka okhalweni, umlenze wesibeletho. Umama uhamba ngokuthe tye, nangamahlombe. Ukuqukulwa kwesiqhekeza-ebomvu kusebenza ngokungafihliyo, le bhanki isekela ngokugqibeleleyo izihlunu ezinobuthakathaka, ukubuyisela kwakhona.

Ukuba ibhinqa elibelekayo lifuna ukufika kwifomu engcono yomzimba ngokukhawuleza, kuyimfuneko ukuthenga isalathisi kwiintsana ezi-0. Amazwi kaMama athi, xa bebuya esibhedlela, baqala ukusebenzisa ityhiyi ngaloo mini. Ukunyuka ngakumbi, ngokukhawuleza iikhilogram zihamba. Ngoko ke, ngoku unokwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya kunye nosana. Izandla zikaanina zikhululekile, ulungele ukuhamba kunye nomsebenzi olula. Ngenxa yokwabiwa okuchanekileyo komthwalo, i-spin ayidanga.

Xha ga mshelana

Iingcali zengqondo zengqondo zabantwana zicebisa ukuba oomama abaselula bachitha ixesha elininzi xa benxibelelana ngokusondeleyo nomntwana. Ufuna ukuziva ukuchukumisa, ukuva intliziyo yomama, ukuphefumula kunye nezwi. Inkqalo yesidingo esandayo somntwana ekudibanisene nomama uye waqhelana noogqirha. Abaninzi babo bancoma ukuba bafumane ukulungela okunjalo, njengengqungqelo yintsana. Iingxelo zezilwanyana kunye neengqondo zengqondo ziqinisekisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Bacebisa ukuba bahluke ihlabathi lebhokhwe ngokuhamba rhoqo emoyeni omtsha kunye nokunyakaza kwindlu ngokugqoka. Emva kwakho konke, umfanekiso ongenamdla owenziwe ngunyana ohleli kwisihlalo sabakhubazekile okanye umbhede awuyi kumnceda. Enye enye into ehamba ngayo kwi-sling. Umntwana uya kujonga ngentshisekelo into eyenzeka malunga naye, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba afune ukufumana izinto ezintsha kwaye angabi nantoni na, kuba unina usekufuphi. Iindlebe zabantu, izandi zezilwanyana, iimbonakalo eziqhakazileyo-iifestile, imithi nezakhiwo - konke oku kufundiswa umntwana. Ngomnyaka wokuqala wobomi kufuneka abone kwaye azive kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Konke oku kuchaphazela ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kunye nokulungelelanisa kuluntu.

Umbono we-neurologist

Iingcali ze-neuropathologists ziyavuma ukuba izithandane zizalwe. Ukuphononongwa koogqirha - oku akuyiyo imbono evela kwiforamu yama-housewives. Kufuneka baphulaphule baze bafake izigqibo ezithile. Abantwana abaninzi be -neurologists kunye neengqondo zeengqondo bazama ukuxelela oomama ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukugcina umntwana ezandleni zakhe, ukuba abe naye ekuthintaneni nomzimba, ukuthetha. Emva kwakho konke, oomama abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba umntwana onyaka wokuqala wobomi akaqondi nto kwaye ufuna kuphela ukutya kunye ne-diapers eyomileyo. Le mpazamo enzulu. Ngokukhawuleza emva kokuzalwa, umntwana usuqala ixesha lokuguqulwa ebomini kweli hlabathi likhulu. Yonke into kuye entsha, engaqhelekanga, kwaye xa iqabane lakhe elithembekileyo, uMama, lisondele, aluyikwesaba konke.

Uninzi lwabantwana, bengakhange bafumane ulwalamano olwaneleyo kunye nonina kwiinyanga zokuqala ezisibhozo zobomi, bakhule bexhalabile, bangenasiphelo. Iintlanzi zokulala zingaphula, ayinalo ukuthembela okuyisiseko kwihlabathi. Ngoko ke, zama ukusebenzisa into enjalo njengento yokubethelela iintsana ezisuka ku-0. Ukuvakalisa kwabo baye badlulela ngale ndlela bahle kuphela. Ukubethelela kunceda omama abatsha imihla ngemihla. Abahlali bezindlu bathetha ngentshiseko malunga nendlela ekulungele ukuthenga, ukuhamba epakini kunye ne-crumb. Awunayo ukuhamba nomqhubi omkhulu, izandla zakho zihlala zikhululekile. Unokondla umntwana ngaphandle kokususa kwi sixhobo, uya kuziva ukufudumala komama nokunyamekela.

U lungiso

Ithuba lokuguqulwa komama nomntwana emva kokubeletha aluhlali kuhamba kakuhle. Abasetyhini bahlala bekhulile, bazive bengenakukhathazeka ngokubonakala, baxineke emva kokubeleka. Kukho neemeko xa, ngenxa yamava, oomama benqaba ukunyamekela abantwana. Kwaye abantwana banomdla wokuzihlamba, ukungabi nantoni, uxolo kunye nokulala kwazo ziphazamiseka, ezinye iintlanzi ziyakunqaba nokutya. Indlela efanelekileyo yokudibanisa phakathi koomama kunye nosana iyababethelela iintsana. Amazwi oogqirha kunye nalabo basebenzise le fowuni bazaliswa ngokuthokoza. Kulula kakhulu ukuba ugqoke kwaye uyisuse, nangona uyenze udoti, ungakwazi ukufaka lula kwisibhedlele. Ukutshintsha indawo yentsana inokuhamba, ekulungele ukuhamba ngexesha elide lokuhamba. Kodwa into ebalulekileyo kukuba umntwana usoloko edibana nomama wakhe, uzive ekhuselwe.

Ukwenza ukhetho

Umbuzo othandwayo kakhulu ngoku: ukubethelela kubalulekile kwiintsana? Ukuphononongwa kuthetha ukuba kuyimfuneko. Kodwa indlela yokwenza okulungileyo kwaye ungenzi iphutha? Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ezinye iinkqubo:

• Ukuba imodeli yokulinganisa ibonisa ukuba kukho iindandatho, kungcono ukuba zibe zinyithi. Iiplastiki kunye neenkuni ziyakwazi ukugqithisa kumthwalo oqinileyo okanye kwiqabunga elinzima. Ubungakanani bendandatho buxhomekeke kuhlobo lwengubo yemveliso. Kwiimveliso zelineni, ububanzi bendandatho kufuneka ibe ngamasentimitha asixhenxe. Kodwa ukuthungela ukudibanisa akukwazi ukugqithisa ama-centimitha amahlanu.
• Nika ingqwalasela ekhethekileyo kwintsimbi. Kungcono ukhethe i-cotton slings kwiintsana. Amazwi kaMama asitshela ukuba ukunyamekela into enjalo kukuzonwabisa. Kodwa into eyona nto ayiyona nto, kodwa umgangatho wengubo. Indwangu yomgubo, i-coarse calico iyamnandi emzimbeni, ihlala ipholile. Usana luya kukhululeka, kwaye ukulungiswa kwesimbolo kulula kakhulu, ngaphandle kokususa umntwana kuyo. Indwangu yokongezwa kwezinto zokwenziwa komsebenzi ifanelekile kwiimvumba ezikhulayo, kodwa kusenokubangela ukuba i-reaction response.
• Oomama abancinane abafake imfashini, abaqulunqi bezakhiwo baqulunqa izitya zokutshiza izithandane. Ukuphonononga umama kudlula konke okulindelekileyo. Bayavuya ngokuzeleyo kwezi zinto ezincinci. Ukugqoka kuhlotshiswe ngamapokotshi, i-bejes, i-edging, i-lace, iprints ecacileyo. Emva kwakho konke, abafazi bafuna ukuhlala bekhangeleka kakuhle, fumana ukubethelwa kwabanye. Ngako oko, iimveliso ezinjalo ezifashiniweyo zihlakazeka kwieshefu zentengiso.

Ngenye indlela

Ukuthwala ama- kangaroo ixesha elide liyaziwa kuwo wonke umhlaba. Kodwa oogqirha abacebisi ukuba bayisebenzise iintsana ezisandula. Isikhundla se-crumb kule fowuni ayilunganga nonke, isisindo sisasazwa ngokungafaniyo. Umntwana uxhoma kwi-crotch, kwaye emva komama emva kokuhamba kwi-kangaroo ibuhlungu kakhulu. Iingcali ziye zenza enye inketho kulabo bahlazekayo ukusebenzisa i-sling okanye kungekho konke abakwazi ukuyikhupha. Indlela yokuphuma i-Meyi-sling for the newborns. Impendulo evela kubahlengikazi malunga neli fowuni yinto enhle. Oogqirha bathi ikhuselekile ngokupheleleyo kwimpilo yeemvuthu, kodwa kufuneka uqale ukuyisebenzisa kuphela emva kokuba umntwana ekhulile. Oku kuninzi emva kweenyanga ezine, kodwa umntwana ngamnye ukhula ngamnye.

Ukuzonwabisa kunye neSitayela

Ukubukeka okunokubonakalayo Kwangathi ukubethelela iintsana. Ukuphonononga umama nompop odibeneyo. Ingxenye yabo ithi le nto yinto elula kakhulu, umva womntwana uxhaswa ngumda omanzi, ngokungafani nekhwele. Kodwa enye inxalenye yabaphendulayo ayikwazanga ukuvumelanisa nale fowuni. Umama onamaqabane asebenzayo athetha ukuba xa abantwana bejikeleza, sebenze ngemilenze, kukho ithuba lokuwela kwi-sling. Akayithembeki njengento ethe tye. Ngamana ukuthungca ingxande okanye isikwere sombumba onamaqabunga nge-rab i-Foam, ityunyiwe kwiindawo ezincinci eziphezulu, ezantsi kunye ezantsi. Olu hlobo luholele umama emva kwakhe kwaye luqine ngokukhawuleza, kwaye eziphezulu ziphonswa kuqala phezu kwamagxa omama, kwaye ke umntwana usulele. I-crumb imele ifakwe ngokukhawuleza kumama ukuze iphephe umthwalo kwi-back back and fall.

Oogqirha abanakucingi ukuba banxibe abantwana abangaphezu kweenyanga ezintlanu ngoMeyi, kodwa into ephambili kukuba ukhethe okulungileyo. Ukuqwalasela ububanzi beengcongolo, kufuneka kufinyelele kwiisentimitha ezilishumi elinesine. Iimbopho kufuneka zibe ne-foam ezininzi. Uluhlu olunjalo lubonisa kuphela indawo emele yomntwana. Landela iziphakamiso zoogqirha, kwaye umntwana uya kuphila kwaye uyavuya. Ukukhethwa kweendwangu kunye nemibala ihlukeneyo, nantsi ingxaki yendlela yakho. Kodwa kungcono ukukhetha ukotoni.

Isidleko esihle

Njengomntwana omncinci, ukhangeleka njengokuthwala izitya ezisanda kuzalwa. Iingxelo zoogqirha malunga nale ngongoma ebalulekileyo zichanekile. Kodwa kukho enye imeko yokugqoka umntwana kwi-sling efanayo-ukungabikho kwamathambo kunye nezifo kwiimvumba. Ngokukodwa i-dysplasia yezihlanganisi ze-hip, iingxaki zokuphefumla. Kubonakala ngathi oku kutshintshela kwiminkini ecocekileyo, apho umntwana elele aze avuke ngenduduzo. Unako ukuhlala kuyo kwindawo echanekileyo, ngokukodwa kulungele abantwana babo kwiinyanga ezintathu zokuqala zokuphila, abalala kakhulu. Ukuthwala kufana nesibhobho esincinane, apho kufakwe izikhonkwane ezincinci. Baziphosa emagxeni abo baze bazilungiselele. Umntwana usempilweni ekhululekile, uzive esondele kumfudumala womzimba womama kwaye uzive engummangaliso wokuthandana.

Kunzima ukuphendula umbuzo: yiyiphi i-sling eyona nto ingcono kwiintsana? Iingxelo zithi ukuthwala kuyinto engenakwenzeka, ekubeni umntwana unokuphela kuphela kwindawo ephakamileyo. Ngokukhawuleza xa esenamandla ngakumbi, akafuni ukuthetha amanga aze abuke esibhakabhakeni. Emva koko kufuneka uthenge enye ityhiyingi, ukuze umntwana akwazi ukuyihlonela ihlabathi elikujikelezile. Emva koko, unina abaninzi banqwenela ukuthwala abantwana ngokugqoka iminyaka emibili.

Ngaphezulu

Uhlobo lukaTata oluthandwayo luyi-sack-backpack yeintsana. Ukuphononongwa kwabazali abonwabileyo badumisa le fowuni esibhakabhakeni. Kodwa oogqirha malunga nalokhu bacinga ngokungafaniyo. Bacebisa ukuba baqale ukuthwala umntwana kwi-backpack kuphela emva kokufikelela kwiinyanga ezintlanu. Emva koko, umgudu usalubuthakathaka kakhulu, kwaye umntwana usenokuthatha kuphela iifomati ze-anatomical. Ukusuka ekuhambeni e-ergoryukzak kubantwana abangakwaziyo ukuhlala, ukukhutshwa komva kubonakala kungekudala. Oku akukhuthazi uphuhliso olufanelekileyo. Kodwa ngomntwana okhulile kwi-backpack ungenza uhambo olude, yenza ithenga. Umthwalo usasazwa ngokufanayo, ngoko umzali akanakhathala ngumthwalo ozithandayo.

Oogqirha batusa izibonelelo ezintathu ezisemgangathweni zomntwana kwi-backpack:

• Ukujongana nobuso - isikhundla sikhululekile, kodwa kungeyona nto inomdla kumntwana. Ufanele ujike intloko yakhe emacaleni ukuze abone oko kwenzekayo kuye. Ngokukhawuleza uhambe entanyeni yenkwenkwe ihlamba ukuba udinwe, ukuhamba, emva kwayo yonke into phantsi kwentloko akukho nkonzo;
• Ngemuva - indawo ekhululekile kakhulu. Umntwana ubhaptizwa kwi-backpack aze afake iimbopho kumagxa akhe. Ingane iyakwamkela unina, inikwe imbonakalo enhle. Kodwa izandla zikamama zikhululekile;
• Buyela kwisimo sengqondo somama wengane. Wayeyazi malunga nehlabathi elijikelezileyo, ufunda abantu abadlulayo, bebonga imvelo. Kodwa akusiyo yonke imodeli ebonisa isikhundla esinjalo, ngoko xa ukhetha, qiniseka ukuzama ukutshala umntwana onje;
• Kwisitya - esi sikhundla sikulungele kakhulu umama, into ephambili kukuzibophelela ngokuqinisekileyo kwaye uqinile amabhande.

Qiniseka ukuba uphulaphule isiluleko se-orthopedist. Ungasebenzisi i-backpack kungekudala. Vumela umntwana usomeleze ekugqibeleni, kwaye ade ade afinyelele kwiinyanga ezintlanu, sebenzisa isalathisi ngamacongane ezitshatsayo. I-Feedback iya kunceda ukumisela umenzi, umgangatho wento.

Imimangaliso

Ngo-1999, uphawu oluphawulekayo lokuthengisa elithi "Miracle Child" lwavela kwilizwe lethu. Bavelisa iimpahla kumama kunye nabancinci. Iingcali ezigqwesileyo, ubuchwephesha obutsha buye konke ukuphuhlisa iimveliso eziphezulu. Izindwangu ezivela kulo mvelisi zikulungele. Bavumela unina ukuba athabathe ubomi, asebenze, aphathe yonke into. Kodwa into ephambili kukuba uxhumano lomzwelo nomntwana wakho. Ukusebenzisa abathwali, iimpahla zokukhusela, unokuhlala unxibelelana nomntwana.

Ukuzonwabisa kunye namaxabiso kwimveliso yenkampani "Ummangaliso-umntwana", ebaluleke kubazali abatsha. Uyilo olukhanyayo ngokuvisisana nentuthuzelo yintlangano entle kakhulu yokuvavanya imveliso yabantwana. Kodwa ke iingxoxo malunga neengqengqelo zintsana "Imangaliso Yomntwana" ayisoloko iphoqa. Oomama abaninzi baphikisana ukuba umkhiqizo wexabiso awubi kakhulu. Akayithandeki umzimba, ihlulwe, ibonwe kwaye ayivumeli umntwana ukuba athathe indawo ye-anatomical. Ukuthabatha ngamacongesi akulibazisekile, njengokuba abanye abazali bethetha.

Kodwa kukho namagama anomusa adluliselwa kumenzi. Ikhefu lokuhamba nomntwana lafumana amanqaku angcono. Oomatshini noomama bakhuluma ngomgangatho kunye neendleko zekhwaphu - kwizinga eliphezulu. Ukuhamba kwaqala ukuzisa uvuyo, abantwana abanomdla balala kulolu hlobo oluthengayo.

Kuye kwenzeka ukuba kunzima ukukhetha ityling for the newborn. Izimpendulo ngezinye izihlandlo ziphikisana, kodwa kungcono ukuphulaphula uluvo lwagqirha. Ngomntwana, thola i-carry-it apho kuya kukhululeka ukuthetha amanga, kwaye ungagqithisi ngokuma. Yonke into ezayo phambi kwesi sigqeba, musa ukukhawuleza izinto.

Ubomi obutsha

Ngokuzalwa komntwana, i-aura ekhethekileyo enhle isungulwa endlwini. Ukujonga ngaphandle kwentando kunye nolonwabo kulo mqulu akunakwenzeka. Ufuna ukukhuselwa, ukunyamekela, ndifuna ukumnika okulungileyo kweli hlabathi. Kule minyaka, into ebaluleke kakhulu kumntwana ngumama! Ukufudumala kwakhe, kuthinteka ngokukhawuleza, kukugubungela. Indlela efanelekileyo yokunika umntwana ulushushu kunye nokuqwalasela kukuthenga ityhini. Ngoko uya kuhlala ukhona. Ingane iya kuba negalelo, i-colic iyanyamalala, kuba isithuba sokuthi "isisu esiswini" sinobuhle obukhulu.

Oogqirha banxusa abazali ukuba bayeke ii-kangarook, eziphazamisa umzimba omncinci. Abakwazi ukuxhasa ukuma kwe-anatomical, zonke iipads, i-rollers ayinalutho. Umntwana kufuneka athathe umlo ogqithisiweyo, kodwa ungacinezeli i-chin yakho kwisifuba.

Funda i-sling best for the newborns. Iingxelo zoogqirha nabazali ziya kunceda ukuba wenze isigqibo malunga nomenzi kunye nomzekelo. Emva kwakho konke, ukuze wenze ukhetho olufanelekileyo, kufuneka ukwazi ngokucacileyo ngenjongo oyifunayo. Hamba uhambe, hamba ujikeleze indlu, uhambe uhambo? Ngokukhawuleza ukuba uzenzele umsebenzi ocacileyo, ngokukhawuleza uya kufumana oko imfuno yanebhokhwe. Izithambisi zikhetha i-jacquard weave okanye i-diagonal double. Ukuvelisa ngokukhethekileyo injongo enye - ukugqoka abantwana, ngoko ukuthengiswa kwesinqununu esahlukileyo akufunyanwanga. Eli nqaku libizwa ngokuba ngumkhwa.

Ukuze wowusawula xa uthenga isoloko iza myalelo. Landela le mithetho kufuneka uqiniseke. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukusebenzisa imveliso, bahlolisise ngenyameko oko. Eyona nto iphambili ukuba umntwana wathabatha indawo echanekileyo, kungenjalo uyakwazi buhlungu impilo yakhe. Kufuneka ukuba anyamekele unina kunye norhulumente. Okusawula-isikhafu - ukhetho ikhuselekileyo. Umthwalo ngokulinganayo isasazwe, yaye ayikho into esongela impilo zombini. Kodwa wowusawula ubhaka inika umthwalo onzima phezu imilenze iimvuthuluka oyisebenzisayo. Ngoko ke, ukuba umama abe sisifo lwemithambo, eyongeziweyo lobeko Siyanda ngaphandle.

Fumana zokubopha kbavelisi omthembayo. Kungcono overpay imali encinane kwaye uqiniseke umgangatho kwimveliso. Emva kokusebenzisa ixesha elide, ukusindisa kule kuyimfuneko yaye iluncedo izinto akufanele yini. Ngabo bamqondayo ubuhle yesixhobo, nokuba ube imizekelo eziliqela ezahlukeneyo. One - ukusetyenziswa ngemihla ekhaya, kwaye enye - ukuba indawo neehambo ukuya ekliniki.

Thenga ngenkwitshi ukuba kuzalwa. Ukuphonononga omama kunye abazali le okusawula kuphela ezintle. izimvo ezimbi kuphela abo bafunda ukuba sizisebenzise kakuhle. Bona iividiyo yokufundisa, ukufunda imiyalelo ngocoselelo, kwaye akukho zingxaki. Nika umntwana wakho ingqalelo ngakumbi nokhathalelo! Ngapha koko, ubuntwana uhamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye la mathuba ezixabisekileyo ubuhlobo kunye iimvuthuluka abasayi kuphindwa kwakhona.