Umthandazo 'ukuba konke kakuhle. " Ingaba zikhona?

Imithandazo ehlabathini, kuvela, kukho ezininzi ezahlukeneyo. Njengoko bathi, kuba zonke izihlandlo. Ke umthandazo 'ukuba bonke kwalunga kuye, "kakhulu, kakade. Ukuba uthembe nekwakuyinto eyayisenzeka ebomini bakhe amandla athile aphezulu, khumbula ukuba kufuneka sithandaze ngendlela eyiyo. Ngeli xesha, ingqondo yakho kunye nokuziqonda kufuneka ziqokelelwe kwaye uneengxaki. Ukucela nguThixo ukuba abe ngenene, ngentliziyo yam yonke. Ukuba umthandazo wakho "ukuba konke kakuhle ', kufuneka iqulathe amagama alula, wathi kakhulu akufuneki ukuba, ngenxa yokuba" ... hayi iseti yamagama kunye uslyshanie kuxhomekeke benesidima lwengqondo. " Ukongeza, kungekuphela nje amazwi akho, kodwa umphefumlo wakho ukufikelela kuThixo. Ebudeni belo indlela athi umthandazo 'ukuba bonke kwalunga kuye, "ninyanzelekile ukuba nibe ingqalelo amazwi abo, ngenye indlela ukuba uchitha nje ixesha echithwa sakho. St. Grigoriy Nissky uthi umthandazo ukuba ukwenziwa ngokusuka entliziyweni, ngokokuthanda kwakhe, kungekhona ngamandla, njengoko umsebenzi.

Ngaba yonke imithandazo ziyasebenza?

Ngoko ke, ngokuvumelana noko kubhalwe ngasentla, ukuthandaza izakwenziwa ngokunyanisekileyo yaye ngamandla ngokupheleleyo ingqondo nomphefumlo, ukufikelela ezindlebeni uMdali ukuze ndiviwe. Ngoko ke ukuba ufuna umthandazo "ukuba konke kakuhle" - uyakwazi ukuthatha nayiphi na itekisi efanelekileyo, eli akayi kutshintsha. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukutyala nokutyhilwa kwakhe umphefumlo wakhe uphela, ahlambuluke eli xesha neengcinga ezingeyomfuneko. Ufuna ingqondo. Umthandazo ngemini elungileyo kulo mzekelo, kungenzeka ukuba kukunceda ulufikelele iziphumo ezinqwenelekayo.

Yintoni umthandazo kakhulu ngempumelelo?

Yintoni na ke umthandazo ilungileyo ukuba unako ukwenza ubomi bakho ngcono, ukuba ahlangule yakhe ububi? Ngaba umthandazo St. uCyprian utsho. Kuyimfuneko ukuphinda-bhala ephepheni, qiniseka isandla sakho ukuba ufuna ukwenza yona ngendlela eyiyo. itekisi layo likhulu kakhulu, kodwa ke isiphumo ephawulekayo. Imithandazo funda ngokuvakalayo phambi kwe zikhanyiswe amakhandlela ecaweni, likhanyise i icon oyiNgcwele Martyr uCyprian. Njengaye nawuphi na omnye, kufuneka ufunde umthandazo ngononophelo kwaye ngenyameko, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka ngeengcinga nendaba.

Ukuba ukuba umonakalo uyacengeka, ngoko ufunde lo mthandazo yonke imihla xa umntwana - kukuthi kufuneka ibe umntu omdala (ekukhethwa ukuba unina) phezu kwentloko wosana, kodwa isiphumo ilungileyo, unako luphe into eselwayo yamanzi, apho lo mthandazo kufundwa ngaphambili.

Ukuba oyifunayo, kunye nokuqwalasela ezinye saint (by martyress Justina umzekelo), okanye sebenzisa i umthandazo eyahlukileyo. Kodwa yedwa akukho mfuneko ukuba kunjani. Kungcono ukuba ibandla icebiso nentsikelelo.

Funda imithandazo uCyprian kunye Justina kufuneka yonke imihla, ebiza ngexesha elifanayo amagama abantu, ngenxa yomenezo lwakhe, kuthandazwa. Kufanelekile ukuba abo ezempilo sibi, kukho ukungakhathali kunye nokuba mathidala ukuze baphile. Njengoko kuchaziwe ngaphambili, unako ukunika emdaka ukubandezeleka amanzi.

Ekuphetheni

Noko ke, asimele silibale ibinzana odumileyo: ". UThixo unceda abo asina" Njengoko wayengakholelwa ukuba amandla ephakamileyo kufuneka ukuba ukulungisa ubomi bakho bube bhetele, kwaye ke kufuneka ukuba wenze into ukuyitshintsha. On imithandazo ixesha elide akayi kuphila. Ukuba andithanga ndimzise kuwe ukutya ungazalisi ukuba iimpahla. Wena ngokwakho wabaviwa unoxanduva bona kunye neentsapho zabo.