Njani kwaye kutheni i-cat purr?

Esi sandi sibhekisele kwizandi ezithandekayo kwihlabathi, ngaphandle kwesizathu abaninzi abaninzi basebenzise kwi-psychotherapy kunye nokucamngca. Sithetha ngetekisi yokucoca ngoku. Iimfono ezidityanisiweyo eziphantsi zidibene nokufudumala, uxakeke kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa into ebalulekileyo kakhulu kukuba izazinzulu azikazanga ukucacisa imfihlelo emangalisayo yokuba iikati zenza njani, zeziphi izandi ezi zivelisa. Ngeli xesha kukholelwa ukuba oku kubangelwa ukutshukunyiswa kwamathambo e- hyoid e-larynx yezilwanyana. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kuyaziwa ukuba kutheni ikati lihlutha. Kwaye izizathu zalo mcimbi omnandi, njengoko kwavela, kukho ezininzi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukucoca ngenye yeendlela eziqhelekileyo zokunxibelelana, kwaye akukhethi kuphela kwizilwanyana zasekhaya. Phantse onke ama-felines akwazi ukwenza izandi ezifanayo, kwanokuba inkosi yezilwanyana ingonyama.

Iyona ngcamango eqhelekileyo eyenza ikati ihlambuluke, yinto yokuba ngokukhawuleza kulungile. Ubonakalisa ukwaneliseka ngobomi, ukuxhamla, ukuthula ngendlela elula. Akumangalisi ukuba ikati iqala ukuhlambalaza, idonsa ngamadolo kuye umnini, efumene inxalenye yakhe yothando. Ngoko uvakalisa ukwamkelwa kwezenzo zabantu. Ngesizathu esifanayo, unako ukuva ezi "mculo" ezimangalisayo xa elambile kwaye eshesha phambi kwenkosi ekhitshini ukuze adle.

Ngokuqhelekileyo ikati iyahluma xa ikhula inzala yayo. Xa ama-kittens esondele kuye, kaninzi, kwaye kungekho sizathu esicacileyo siqala ukubonakala. Yenza oku, kungenxa yoko: ngelixa abatsha bancinci kwaye bengaboni, bafuna ukunakekelwa ngonina rhoqo. Kodwa abanakuyibona kwaye bayayiqonda okwamanje. Kodwa baqonda ngokucacileyo izibonakaliso zomsindo, apho unina uzincoma, njengokuthi: "Kulungile, ndisondele".

Esinye isizathu sokuba itekisi ihlambuluke rhoqo, kunokubakho uxinzelelo. Kuye, ukucima imisebenzi, njengokugula komntu, ukuthoba. Yaye xa ikati iphantsi koxinzelelo, ukuba uyagula okanye unenkxwaleko okanye ayikhathazi, unokuzinqabisa ngezwi elimangalisayo. Kukholelwa ukuba kwinkqubo yokuhlanjululwa komzimba we-catororins (body endorphins) yabelwe, ngoko oku kungabonakalisa injabulo yesilwanyana okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, imeko yovuyo.

Kodwa isizathu sokuba kutheni ikati lihlambele kwintlango, kunokubakho ukubonakaliswa kobudlova. Iikati zasendle zizibonakalisa zikulungele ukuhlasela iintshaba. Kodwa kwizalamane zasekhaya, ukuhlanjululwa phambi kwesinye isilwanyana kunokuthi, ngokuchaseneyo, kubonakalisa isimo sengqondo somhlobo. Ngoko ikati linokunikela ukuba lidlale, libonise i-predisposition yayo kunye neenjongo zoxolo. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uthetha nge-purr: "Ndibuthathaka kakhulu, akufuneki ndihlasele."

Njengoko ubona, izizathu zokuba kutheni ikati ehluthayo ihluke kakhulu. Abanikazi abanolwazi ngokuhleleka kwimiba kunye nesigxina bangakwazi ukwahlula ukuhlanjululwa kwemfuyo yabo ngokwemiqathango. Olu buchule luza namava okugcina ikati. Kodwa nakweyiphi na imeko, vumela isilwanyana sakho sihlambele kuphela.