Njani igama umntwana kwikhalenda: imithetho kunye nezithethe

Naxa yangaphambi lamaKristu-Russia abantwana bazama ukubiza imbeko enkulu, odumileyo, abanetalente, umntu ophumelelayo, ngaloo ndlela ekutshintsheni ikamva layo phezu komntwana kunye negama elifanayo sele bethembisa kwiimvuthuluka ubomi onwabile.

Nokufika ubuKristu, lo msebenzi ukuba kube lula kakhulu, kwaye inkqubo kwezikhalazo wayalela. Uqilima baba mesyatseslov - ikhalenda - ikhalenda equlathe zonke iinkcukacha malunga neeholide Orthodox kunye neentsuku sisikhumbuzo abangcwele. Kule mihla, apho wayesoyikwa of njengengcwele waza waqalisa ukulandela Orthodox, ebiza abantwana babo.

Njani igama umntwana kwikhalenda?

Emva ukholo enkulu ingcinezelo emva ezintliziyweni zethu, yaye inkolo - endlwini. Kwaneentsapho abancinci "ekunene" ukukhetha igama ukulungiselela usana kunye abhaptizwe nguye.

Khetha igama lula ngobulungisa kwincwadi yemithandazo. Uyakwazi ukumelana wedwa. Ukuba awazi ukuba igama umntwana kwikhalenda, khangela ukuba abangcwele ziyanqulwa ngosuku lokuzalwa komntwana. Khetha eyona ifanelekileyo, wayethanda igama ulungele ubhaptizo. Ukuba amagama kakhulu izinto ezimbalwa, kwaye eyona euphonious, amalungiselelo uphando phakathi abahlobo kunye nosapho, uthethe godparents ezinokubakho. Kusenokwenzeka kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba awunakho ukuba ukhethe igama lomntwana kwikhalenda, ngenxa yokuba usana lokuzalwa abangcwele iziqu kuphela eyindoda (okanye ngokuphendululekileyo), kunye mhlawumbi amagama nje ongazithandiyo, nendlela igama umntwana kwi khalenda kule meko? Isithethe yamaKristu ngokubanzi kumagama eefolda kukunika ixesha ezimbini amazwe.

Okokuqala - oku ngomhla wesibhozo emva kokuvela oonyana bokukhanya, okanye ukusuka yesibini ukuya ngomhla wesibhozo, xa unalo ithuba lokukhetha igama. Okwesibini - oku ngomhla wamashumi amane emva kokubeleka, ukuba umntwana uzelwe womelele kwaye usempilweni, ke umthendeleko yobhaptizo kunokumiselwa elinye ixesha.

Ukuba emva kokuba yonke imigomo wena nikwazile ukuba ukumisela, kunokwenzeka ukuba anike umntwana igama kabini. One - "ihlabathi", le yesibini - "ukuba iCawa", ukhetho wakhe kunikezelwa umfundisi oya kukwenza nokukwenza ubhaptizo komntwana. Ngoko ke unike umntwana wakho igama le khalenda kuya kuba lula, oko akuyi kuthatha ixesha lakho namandla engqondo.

Kubalulekile ukuba ukubabhida abangcwele kunye ukholo (bona, nani, kakhulu iziqu e ubuKristu), wayengayigwebi umntwana wakhe isabelo enzima. Igama lo mntwana ungcwele uya kunika ukhuselo xa ubuso umxhasi enamandla - unengelosi.

yosuku lokuzalwa

Xa becwangcisa isifundo lokuzalwa lokubhiyozela kwixesha elizayo, khumbula ukuba, kungakhathaliseki ukuba zingaphi iintsuku abangenakulibaleka saint okhethiweyo konyaka, umntwana wakho uya kuba mnye kuphela imini igama - mini ikufutshane umhla wokuzalwa kwakhe.

Ukholo Isizathu

Ukubiza Child kwikhalenda, ikakhulu, kufuneka bakhokelwe ngokholo. Ukuze ukufunda ubomi saint, ogama igama ukhetha, uyazi imithandazo kuye, ukuba buguqulelwe kuye zonke olu lwazi umntwana.

Khumbula ukuba ngubani okanye yintoni saint umxhasi, yamvelisela umntwana ngokungqinelana noku. Umntu ibonisa indlela sele ngempumelelo kuye, uza kube lula kakhulu kwaye uzithembe ngakumbi, nje akabuya kuyo.

Njengoba nje wena ukuqonda, zama ukuqonda, ukuze isigqibo indlela igama umntwana kwikhalenda, yiya ecaweni, thetha ngumbingeleli, cela uncedo neengcebiso. Uya kuthi ngokuqinisekileyo yonke, uze asize ukuchaza ngokweenkcukacha. ngokuchanekileyo Igama, luthando nengqalelo ekhethiweyo yi ikhalenda, ukukhuselwa umntwana wakho uhamba eziphosakeleyo nezenzo, ukususela ngeliso elibi kwaye hex, ukukhokela ubomi bakhe endleleni eya ulonwabo, impumelelo kunye nempumelelo!