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Terentiy Travnik "INYANGA cwaka"

Day One.

Qala indlela yakho cwaka yakho. Uya kukunceda kwindlela ingqalelo yakho ingqondo. Thanda zakho eziyimfihlo. Kodwa ke nawuphi na umgaqo-yintlekele ukuba kukho wedwa. Lo asinguye zodwa nesizungu. Ngentliziyo yenu yonke, nangengqondo yakho iphela, ingqondo yakho banqwenela ukuba intlanganiso kunye naye. Khangela ukuba i yangaphakathi, tikambisisa, wati wena, ukuba kubuzisa wena, cinga wena uze uzame ukuqonda lukhulu ngokwayo. Xa kuya kuphuma kuwe, uze unike ngokwakho ukuba ukuthanda kwalowo na ngaphezu kwabo bonke ikufanele. Yiba wazifihla noThixo - ntsako lowukulu kuwe.

Usuku ezimbini.

Zonke intlungu oza ngamnye sigxile zethu zonyango yezigulo zengqondo. Ngamanye amaxesha usizi lungaba nzima kakhulu, ezifana ukugula kakhulu, ukufa komntu omthandayo, ukungabi ziqokelelwe yaye zadalwa nguwe kunye nezicwangciso intshabalalo, wambu kule minyaka.
Ukuba awukwazi ukulungisa into, lixesha intlungu yakho. Le yenye iimviwo ezimbi kakhulu ebomini bethu ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka sithathe. Olu vavanyo lokukhula zethu zangaphakathi, ulwazi lwethu nokuzibonakalisa kunye nokuchongwa amandla ngokomoya kunye nomonde. Kweli xesha linzima, ubomi utyhila umahluko zayo kunye nokuphela kwegqabi, apho thina andiyiboni sikarhulumente yesiqhelo. Kuxhomekeka kuthi. Kohl iza kukukhalaza ukunganeliseki - ngoko ungancami, miss, azikhange, nomonde, neenyembezi nolangazelelo, ngokunjalo umphefumlo Masigcobe konwatyiswa bona.
Buhlungu uzalelwa ukukwazi ukuqonda inyaniso ubomi bethu.

strong> Usuku ezintathu.

Kuninzi uthe malunga ukukwazi nelokuthula tu, kodwa olunjani ubuchule ntoni na hang kuwo ngamava elaphul '?
Sidla ukuhlangana nabantu cwaka, kodwa yintoni lufihlwe taciturnity yabo maloslovii? Ngelishwa, amaxesha amaninzi into efanayo eme ithi ezimbini, yaye nganye kuzo - luphawu kukho indlala ngokwaneleyo ngokomoya.
Imeko yokuqala - ukungabikho amava lwangaphakathi, ngamampunge, ukungabikho kophuhliso.
Okwesibini - ekungakwazini ukuvakalisa ubutyebi bakhe ngentetho, kwincoko. Abantu abanjalo badla ukuqhuba incoko zazo zangaphakathi.
Sinqwenela nocwangco, kunye nezinye iingxoxo nophuhliso namava kunokuba cwaka.
Okwangoku, le cwaka iphuma namava iincoko ezininzi, iingxoxo kunye iqala xa amandla intliziyo ekuqondeni ilizwi elithethwe siqhuba ngaphezulu ngaphambili naluphi na. Nyhani - ukusuka '. Ngokuphuphuma kwentliziyo umlomo yesenzi "
Ombaxa, uthobe intliziyo, kudala ukuziva ngokomoya yaye inkangeleko ityhila intliziyo kuthi. kusoloko Kuya kuthi ngayo buqu.

Usuku ezine.

ixesha ngalinye, ukwenza naliphi na ishishini, Yiba nolwazi kutheni na into eniyenzayo, kuba lowo, yaye ngubani? Ukuqonda isenzo sakhe, injongo kunye ibinzana ibaluleke kakhulu sonke.
Ngelishwa, abantu abaninzi basebenza amava lwenzeka emva kokuba sele zenziwe. Emva koko uye acingisise emibi yeempazamo kunye nokuphoxeka kufika. Kodwa into engalunganga.
Okokuqala, zama ukuqonda kangangoko ufuna.
Into enikisa umdla kukuba xa ngokwenene ucinga ngayo, inkoliso yabo bonke, usolile wena okanye ngandlel 'ukuguqula imisebenzi yabo. Kwaye kuphela xa kucacile ukuba ayikwazi ukwenza oku, uze uqale ukwenza yonke ngabom kwaye rhoqo. Khumbula ukuba nawuphi na umsebenzi owenziwa ukuba uThixo ufuna ukunyaniseka kunye nokuzinikela. Ingaba yonke into ixhomekeke kuwe yaye ngokufuthi nibuzise isazela sakhe banikela noqikelelo olwenziwa, yaye kuya kuba echanekileyo.

strong> Usuku Five.

amaninzi kakhulu sizifumane kuthotho iintlanganiso kunye incoko. Iincoko nzulu, phandle, olukhulu, ezele olusuka iimvakalelo, amava, uthando kunye nokuthantamisa. Le yincoko elungileyo kakhulu, ukuphuhlisa umphefumlo wethu, iingqondo zethu, iimvakalelo zethu. Ingabonwa, bona musa ukuyishiya nochuku, ukungakhathali nokudinwa. Apho nje kufuneka wazi xa ukuyeka: ndiqale uthethe ixesha lokuthetha.
Sithwalisa soze luncedo. Kwaba ngaso nabo bonke. Kodwa kukho kwakhona ezingenanto, okwethutyana, incoko engavakaliyo. Bona, njengoko umthetho, akukho isifundo okanye umxholo othi "ukuhamba" kwaye rhoqo kulahleka. Ngeli xesha, uqala ukuba uzive udiniwe, siyawuphuthisa, zasikrwaqula iwotshi yayo. intetho enjalo liyingozi, kufuneka ukuba ixesha bephazamisa ingcwaliselwe ixesha elininzi kangangoko ufanelwe. Awukwazi ukuya kwicala ayilawulwa le interlocutor, vysizhivaya kunye naye, ngokuba akukho nje kuwe, kodwa luyingozi kakhulu.

Ngosuku lwesithandathu.

isimo Amazing engqondweni - wobulali nayo ngayo. It is a nezloblivosti sisipho enqabileyo ukukwazi ukubona zonke iintlanzi nothando lwezulu kunye nokubandakanyeka.
Ubulali - kusisipho isegazini, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha oko siqulunqwe kuthi phantsi koqwalaselo lomgadi enye, ukudalwa ke ndingenalo, izenzo elungileyo kunye neentetho. Ukuba sizabalazele ukwenza okulungileyo, umvuzo sifumana isipho esimangalisayo titsongahata ngokomoya.

strong> Usuku Seven.

Ukuba simbona ixeshana, xa sicela ukuxolelwa, uxolo uguquke ngezenzo zakhe ukuba nabani na, siya uqaphele, umphefumlo wethu uzaliswe ngoxolo, kwaye phambi kokuba njalo, waphalaza iinyembezi, asihlambulule indalo yethu, bachatshazelwa yi na kakubi. Ozelwe umphefumlo ilizwi ukuzisola - yenye amava langoku, anzongonzongo umthandazo, umthandazo ezinzonzobileni zamanzi endalo yethu yokwenene. Funda kwaye Funda ukuba ukucela uxolo.

Usuku ezisibhozo.

indumiso Good abahlobo bakho kunye ngabancedi, ngokwenene bafanelwe ngayo kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukufumana indumiso kubo, kuba yonke into kwisivumelwano kunye izimvo zakho nentliziyo yakho.
Kodwa amava nzima ngakumbi - kukuba ukuqonda ubone, amkele ubaxolele abo kakubi nawe iinkxalabo, intshabalalo, ngezinyeliso ukhohlakele. Ngapha koko, isizathu sokuba esi simo sengqondo siyifumana ukunqongophala uphuhliso, ngqongqo, ngokuba lukhuni kwakho udale ubuhlobo. Oku kuya kuba isikolo yokwenene kwelifa kwabeyisayo ngokomoya. Kuphela abadlula kakuhle isikolo kunye iimviwo abapasa, ufumana iintyatyambo esivumba uvuyo yokomoya ezulwini.
Yazi ukuba naziphi na umtshutshisi yakho indoda enogonyamelo - oku uMkhokeli wenu, yaye oku isifundo sakho. Ukuba uya kuba nako ukuqonda, ukuzithethelela, uxolele, ikhaliphe intliziyo hayi ingqondo (umahluko apha kubaluleke kakhulu), ngoko singatsho ukuba sele iwupasisile iimviwo nzima esikolweni wasezulwini.

Ngemini yesithoba.

Wonke umntu unelungelo lokuba enze impazamo; wena kunye nendawo yakho. Ndiyazi isoloko ukufunda nokuzifica, oko isabelo yethu eqhelekileyo, oko bayahlelwa okulungileyo, kuluncedo kwaye kuyimfuneko. Funda ukuba abe nokuyekelelwa yam enovelwano yaye enyanisekileyo, kungekhona imperious kwaye nekratshi. Zama ngoncumo uhlobo evela entliziyweni, ukuxolela iimpazamo zabantu babo ababathandayo, hayi ngokobuxhakaxhaka nengqele ngokweemvakalelo. Yenza kucace ukuba uyabathanda. Le ubulumko.

Ngosuku lweshumi.

Xa unayo imali encinane, uwahlule iinxalenye ezimbini, yaye omnye wabo wanikela ukubandezeleka, ndilihlwempu.
Kwaye oku kuya kuba feat of amalizo.
Ukukwazi ukwabelana ikho imfuneko yokuba wena uzala entliziyweni imisebenzi yenu elungileyo. Kuphela kunye nale kwaye uqale ukuchaneka benceba yakho.
Wamkelekile - ayiveli ubutyebi bakho, okulungileyo - le ndlela ngokomoya ukuba ndingubani. Kuphela ubuhlwempu zokuxheshisela, ukuyeka uviwo ngenxa yezenzo ezilungileyo.

Usuku Eleven.

Lingakanani sifuna ukuba bazikhusele ebubini ngokweemvakalelo ezimkholisayo abanye ubuthathaka bakhe. Wayini - uthulule, ukutshaya - kuthenga icuba onqwenelela ingxolo, slapstick kunye kumnandi - wosondeza joke lwabo ezingenakho. Kulula - yiya ngenxa sivumelane umntu kunye neminqweno. Kodwa oku akwenzeki, ngenxa yokuba lo mkhuba ekhonyayo thina nokubi kakhulu kuthi. Akunakwenzeka ukumkholisa kakuhle abanye isono sakhe. Musa umomeleze, musani ukusingela phantsi, yaye ukuba kukho imikhosi ezizama ukumnika into ngenxa oku, uhlobo engcono eluncedo. Intliziyo yakho iya kukuxelela ukuba yintoni na.

strong> Ngemini yeshumi elinambini.

Siyazi ukuba uthethe kakuhle na umntu lowo kuyamakha ulwazi lwakho kwaye wodwa, bezimisela a isimo esihle. Kodwa kukho ngamnye wethu lembandezelo, kwaye endikhathaza - ukungakwazi kwethu ukuphulaphula, yaye emva koko ukuva.
Kakade ke, isakhono ingxoxo - enye impumelelo enkulu kuphuhliso yakho omnye ebusweni wabagagamela le lwezobugcisa uyakwazi ukuphulaphula.
Kufuneka siphulaphule logama nje uvumela rhythm yakho yangaphakathi ingqalelo.
Soloko ukunika ithuba lokuba agqibe ingcinga interlocutor wakho, kodwa ke oku, ke, yenza isithethi nawe uxanduva lixesha elithatyathwayo ukuba le ntetho iingcamango zakhe.

Usuku nantathu.

Okukhona umntu owenza izinto ezahlukeneyo, kokukhona libiza ingqalelo, ngoko ke into eninzi kakhulu kwicala lakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha ukugxeka ngamandla, babaphatha kakubi, nonyeliso kwasasazeka ngathi. Kunzima ukuzibonela, kodwa ungakwazi, ukuba uyazi ukuba onke amagama amabi kuthi - oko isifundo ukuba umonde yethu kunye nolulamo. Sonke sithi embi, kufuneka sinyamezele ngokuthobeka kanye nezici nentliziyo bobubi - leyo indlela.

Noyenza ngomhla weshumi elinesine.

Nabani na ofuna ukuba siqonde amaxesha ulonwabo, kufuneka uzame ukudibanisa kunye ukuzalwa kwakhe yaye babe nolwazi yokufa kwabo yeAIDS. Ecinga ngokufa, esazi ngayo nokwamkela kulo, siya kukwazi ukuba aqondise ukuphila kwethu kwicala okufanelekileyo nokulungileyo. Enkulu ezingento iphumile, iya kuchongwa the main
kunye nentsingiselo kuthi. Khawuleza ukwenza okulungileyo, ukuze uzakhe, ukuhlola. Gcwalisa mzuzu zonke ukuxuma oko ubomi bakhe, ukucinga kakuhle kunye nezenzo. Cinga ngokufa. Ubomi - yinto elungiselela mihla le nto.

Ngosuku lweshumi elinesihlanu.

Ngamnye kuthi ubizelwa emendweni wakho. indlela ngalinye imisebenzi ekufuneka yenziwe. Maxa wambi kuba nzima kakhulu ukufumana into ngasekunene kwendlu yabo, ukuphunyezwa leyo eya kuba luncedo kakhulu kuwe. Kodwa kukho isigqibo esifanelekileyo kakhulu, nto leyo kuba sonke ufifi elungileyo. Yonk 'imihla senza ukuba izicelo nabani na okanye uqokelele izenzo zakho kwabanye. Kuya kuba kuhle gqitha ukuba enze zonke ezi imisebenzi kunye noxanduva, ukucinga kuphela malunga ukuyondelelana kwendlela elisebenza ngayo, kunokuba nokwenzeka yozalisekiso. Kulo self-disclosure bakho.

Weshumi elinesithandathu.

Ukuba unayo umntu buhlungu, nomsindo, ngoko ke iyeza ilungileyo le ingqalelo yakho nobubele kwindawo ukuya ekonile wena. novuyo olukhulu kwakho, ukuba intliziyo yakhe uya kufumana yemfudumalo Abaxhaphazi zabo. Ukuba nesimo sengqondo esihle ngabo kuwe ulungile - kulindelekile, kodwa ukuba uya kufumana amandla entliziyweni yakhe, ukunika ukufudumala yabacinezeli babo intliziyo yakho, uya kuba nako ukuvula uvuyo lwabo self-uphuhliso, yaye olu luvavanyo lwe yenguqu kwenye iklasi kwezakhono yengqondo .

Ngosuku lweshumi.

Kubaluleke ngokukodwa ukunceda abantu ezingaqhelekanga kunye random. Oku luthando. Kodwa oku kufuneka kwenziwe, musa ukulibala malunga usapho kunye nabahlobo bakho. Xa inxaxheba yakho kancinane kubo, nilize ngazo kubo bonke sa ukuba eNkosini. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukwazi ukubona ukuba yonke into yenziwe intsapho yakho inokuba ngalo mzuzu kwanele kubo, zama bazive ngayo. Kwaye siyazi ukuba kufuneka ukuze ukuba bafune thina naziphi na izizathu zokwalelwa lwabo ekuyilweni izenzo random ezilungileyo. Sukuba uliza abantu, abalibali akafikanga.

Usuku elinesibhozo.

Yonk 'imihla senza ukuba imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo. Akukho usuku olulodwa ukuba ibingayi babazisa kuthi yokubala entsha izigqibo zabo. Ngamanye amaxesha isantya phantsi uphendlo lwakho, kwaye oku kubangelwa ingasonjululwanga mzuzu abalulekileyo ngeendlela ezidlulileyo. Ngaloo ndlela uqala i "ngokomoya - amandla ukuvaleka." Kuyimfuneko ukuba ibattery kwaye kamsinya ngcono. Yinto ukubaleka.
Kuyinyaniso ukuba ubukho komyalelo ubomi, kodwa ngenxa umsebenzi bumdaka sinawo amava kuphela xa okususa ukudideka. Ngale intshukumo kuqala kuye. Ukuze wenze lula kuthi kule inkqubela, kufuneka sifunde ukuba igama kunye nokuchaza ngamazwi kwenzeka ntoni kuthi ngalo mzuzu, ngamanye amazwi, banelungelo lokwenza kwabo ngayo.

Usuku yeshumi elinesithoba.

Kuyenzeka ukuba, nangona uninzi yenkathalo yethu, asikwazi ukuqala ukuya kuphuhliso yayo. Nangona kunjalo, naziphi na iinzame - linyathelo yethu yezophuhliso.
Kodwa kukho ingxaki yentsebenziswano kunye ezithile. Khangela yaye uya kubona ukuba kowakho ethile langoku imeko nenzondo wabona umntu musa nje ukuba eli ixesha elide nentlungu ngokwayo. Yintoni ekwenza uthuthe, yaye umvandedwa wakho.
Maxa wambi iimeko ezinjalo oqokelela kakhulu, kakhulu kunene.
Uxolelo - sisenzo lwangaphakathi nzulu yaye kufuneka salungiselela ukuba sizama ukuba kufikelelwe, kwaye bawubopha ukuba kwenzeka, yaye oku kuya kuqalisa ukuvuselela intshukumo yakho.

ngosuku lwamashumi.

Hayi nzima ukuqonda oko ke ukuba babuye bakumeme: bebone entsha kwaye uthenga into okanye ilahleko nokuxakaniseka, nto leyo maxa wambi ndabusithelisa lonke uluhlu amaqondo self-disclosure. Uninzi aya kuyinyula yangaphambili. Kodwa ke mna ndithi ukuba unembulaleko kwenziwa umsebenzi wethu nzima phezu mna ndisiya ekukhuleni kwethu ngokomoya.
Yovuyo busisigxina kuthi. Ngoko ke, ixesha kwenimba - eli xesha, umsebenzi iyingenelo uzinomfa. Eli nqanaba utshintsho ukusuka ubungakanani onjalo lwethu umgangatho kwethu ngokomoya.
Kuko konke oku kubonakala kuhle i Providence aNgcwele ngunobangela kuthi. Ngoko ke, ebulela kuThixo kufuneka libe ngasemva yonke into kwaye kokuhle nokubi.

ngosuku amabini ananye.

Kukho iintsika ezintathu indlela enzima lwethu kuye, indlela eya kuThixo, ngokuba uYehova uhleli kuthi. Nanga amacebiso amathathu ukuba singakwazi ezidada olwandle inkanuko, bentlungu nosizi. Eyokuqala - ukoyika uYehova, njengoko phambi umnini okanye Umzali wethu, yoyika ukumhlonipha. Okwesibini - kuyimfuneko ayithembe iNkosi ngazo zonke size sithembele ekulobeni wakhe olungileyo kwimicimbi yakho. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, mhlawumbi okona kubalulekileyo - oko kuyimfuneko ukuthanda uThixo, ukuba bafunde ukuthanda Yena ngaphezu thina Ungakunqweneli ukuba uhlale naye ezintweni zonke.

Ngosuku lwesibini-amabini.

Sonke oqhagamshelwano phakathi, njengoko amacandelo ayimfuneko indlela entsonkothileyo leyinene. Ukuba ndaphule, ngoko waphula okanye sakhiwe ngeenxa zonke kuthi. Konke oku efanayo. Kufuneka sifunde ukuba luncedo kwabanye, akakwazi ukuba elahlukileyo kuzuze abanye. Kwaye ke inzuzo, oku ezahlukeneyo: kuzo zombini ngelizwi ke nangomsebenzi, kwaye khangela, kwaye ubukho kunye cwaka kunye nomonde. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ufumane ukuva oko umgca luncedo kufuneka ugcine nokuphuhlisa elinye uze uzame ukuphumeza kuyo imihla ngemihla.

Ngosuku amabini anesithathu.

Xa okubi, nto leyo yenzeka kaninzi kangakanani, umntu kuphela ukuba ukujonga ngokwakhe kwimicimbi yabo ngokunxulumene enye, siye wayiqokelela i alarm lwangaphakathi esigcina uqalisa yonakalisa kuthi. Unyamezelo impazamo yethu ineziphumo ezingababeka engxakini kakhulu kuba imeko yethu, thina, kokusingqongileyo.
Wakhethwa ukusuka 'esihogweni nokunyamezela "kwi kubi yakhe kuba iminyaka, kodwa ubomi kufutshane, hayi nje kuphela ngenxa yoku ilizwe, esamnikwayo. Ngoko ke, athwale unyango kule - oko kukuthi, ukukwazi ukuchaza ixesha ukuchaza uxolo kubo bonke abo baye ulahlekiswe yaye buhlungu.

Ngosuku lwamashumi omabini anesine.

Thina sonke imikhwa eziphilayo. Kaloku, ukuba lo mkhwa ekunene. Kodwa nayiphi na, nkqu imikhwa ilungelo ziqondwe, kuqatshelwe kwaye ziqondwe kanye ezinzulwini zentliziyo yakho, ekubeni yakho, uze emva koko akusayi kubakho nomkhwa, kunye nokuqhubeka yendalo yethu ngaphakathi kuyo. Kodwa ke, ndiya kuthi buhlungu wethu, amaxesha amaninzi oku kusenzeka kunye nezenzo zethu ezimbi. Kwakhona ngokuqinileyo bahlala kuthi maxa wambi ubomi.
Ngoko ke, ukubekwa esweni rhoqo kubo, ukuzeyisa zokucoca self-sifundo - lo msebenzi yethu yemihla ngemihla kunye nokwenzeka. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukuba abe nako ukuqonda konke negative kuthi, ukuqonda, uyiyeke kwaye musa amnike akukho ukuphumla, kumgwebela, kodwa ukufunda ukwamkela mna naye, hayi azenze ngaphambi kwexesha bhetele emehlweni abo, beqhayisa uloyiso yokuqala. Simele sikhumbule ukuba le yeyona negative, ngeli xesha yomzabalazo, sele ehlala indalo yethu, yaye zikwimeko zinzulu kakhulu kuthi. Yazi eso sigqibo - kungekhona uvvmelwano khumbula. Kuyafuneka ukuba athathwe ukuba umoya phantsi uze kancinci, inyathelo ngenyathelo, kodwa waphindelela nzima nalo mkhwa, kodwa silwa naye sele yaye akazange abe amava yethu entsha zoqhagamshelwano mkhwa lwasemoyeni. Ukukwazi bazihlambulule - oku sisiphiwo esihle kakhulu ebomini bethu.

Ngomhla wamashumi amabini anesihlanu.

A uphawu oluhle kakhulu kuthi - oko linamandla amangalisayo ukuba ukukhumbula ububi, wajika kwicala lethu, kunye nokukwazi ukuxolela kuye kwaoko bobubi. Ingqumbo - oku ukugula umphefumlo, kwaye kuyingozi kakhulu. Kubonakala ngathi esibuhlungu, liqhuma zeglasi-ezilala phezu kwamehlo ethu yokomoya. Mzuzwana ... kwaye ngoku lonke ihlabathi kunokubonwa imibala ezimbi. Kufuneka sifunde Ukulahla ububi intliziyo kwangoko, kunokuba sivumele ukuba asibhubhise, engena nzulu ngakumbi. Abo baye banikwe ukuba ukukhumbula ububi kunye nezikhalazo, abaninzi ngentliziyo yabo kobu bomi. Oku kuyinyaniso kakhulu ukuba balihlambulule intliziyo ukusuka kwimemori embi.

Ngosuku amabini anesithandathu.

Ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ukuba kukho abantu uza kungena ebomini bethu ngengozi, maxa wambi bekudidekisa thina okanye kumenzakalisa kunye neengxaki ezicacileyo. Kufuneka abantu abanjalo ukuvakalisa ukungoneliseki kwabo, ezimbi ukuziphatha kwabo bafuna ukuba ukuqhela. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba bonke abo uza kungena ebomini bethu, ukuba ngengozi, kodwa kunoko, iipateni, bavela kubomi bethu njengoko isifundo thina, njengoko ootitshala bethu. Yenziwe nge ezi ngxaki, iimeko ezinzima kunye nemingeni badla adityaniswa kumda wesangqa yethu yengqondo, yaye kamva ukuba ukukhula ngokomoya. Ukuze ukuba abe neentloni, kufuneka ukuba wazi ukuba yintoni na sisiseko owakhayo ngokomoya, okt ezo meko, kwaphuculwa apho sikhula kuba ngcono, ze emva koko - .. Ukuze ekulweni kungalingani ngokwabo kwezi ziseko. Alwe nabanye kunye iimpazamo zabo, yaye bakhe kunye naye. Zonke ezahlukeneyo, yaye simele sikhumbule oku kuphela inkalo ebalulekileyo intloni yethu nokutyelela amandla yethu yokukhula.

ngosuku lwamashumi amabini.

Bekuya kuba engaqhelekanga, ukuba ngamnye kuthi akazange afune self-ukuphucuka. Jonga ngcono emehlweni abanye, ngaphezu kwabo bonke, emehlweni abo - kuba lilungelo nomnqweno elungileyo. Ukuze oku simele sizame ukwenza njalo kuyo.
Abantu abaninzi bathi, bathi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba abanye bacinga kubo. Kaloku, okokuqala, akubonakali le ngxelo ingqinelana inyaniso, kodwa kubonakala ukuzikhusela, kwaye ukuba oku kunjalo, ngoko ke nokuba yingxaki ngakumbi.
Ukuba umntu luphuhlisa, ngexesha ngalinye kwaye uthembele ngaphantsi kwezinye uluvo, kodwa akwanelanga ukwenza oko bekuya Akukhathaliseki. Nayiphi na intshukumo yethu ngaphakathi langaphandle engqinelana isimo sethu sangaphakathi kwaye ngokuyinxenye, ukuba iimeko zangaphandle. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda ukuba inkqubo yenguqu esemgangathweni inde kwaye phantse lonke ezingabonakaliyo kuthi. Kulo mzekelo, kufuneka ube nomonde kakhulu. Kwaye, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, asifanele sizame ukuba ngcono ngaphezu kwexesha njongo ngaphambili, kwaye kungcono ukuba kumphazamisa yakhe ezo utshintsho xa zithi zenzeke.

Ngomhla wamashumi mabini anesibhozo.

Ukuhambisa ngezinyuko unxibelelwano xa sijamelene neengxaki kunye neengxaki ulwalamano, sisoloko ukuvala kwi ngokwakhe, ecinga ukuba omnye umntu uye abone yonke into, ukuqonda, ukuze ukuqonda makaqonde konke nathi okwangoku, kodwa akunjalo kwaye, kananjalo, kuba yimpazamo enkulu ekuqiqeni wethu kunye nombono wethu le meko. Enye indoda nje kuphela bakuqaphele, kodwa kunoko ndlela, ukuba akuyi uqaphele. Kodwa, nkqu mbi, ungacinga ayilunganga kwaye bafumane engachananga ngayo yonke into eyenzekayo kuwe. Le mbono kunokuba ephosakeleyo kangangokuba lisebenze ixesha elithile, ngoko kukhokelela nengxabano ingxabano phakathi kwakho. Ngoko ke, lowo wakha ulwalamano kwaye uyawalwela ukuba kusoloko yambethe ummiselo elula kodwa kakhulu. oko ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: okokuqala, zama lonke icala nzima ukuba uchaze ihambo yakho ngokwahlukileyo. Ukuba ungayi kuluva; ngoko ukuma umva ulinde, ukuba anithanga nibone ozilindeleyo yeziphumo, kuphela ngoko kwandisa umgama emtshatweni wenu.

Usuku amabini anethoba.

Maxa wambi siye badla ngokuqala ukufundisa abanye, kwaye kakhulu njengoko zibonakala xa uqala ekholisayo. Afunde into, hayi ukubuza umbuzo, kutheni kuyimfuneko ukuba thina kunye nabo. Kodwa ke ngaxeshanye gqolo ukuqhubeka ukucaciselwa nangakumbi kunye phikelela ngokweemvakalelo, ukudala ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo ngokwayo, ibangela ucaphuka kunye lamabutho enye. Oku kuphosakele gqitha.

Le ukuziphatha ibangelwa, kuqala kwiinto zonke, ukuba ufuna ukuzisa into enye, kodwa kunoko, ngumzali, usondeze wathi yena ngokwam.
Ewe, ewe, kunjalo! Noko ke kuye, thina kuqala kwiinto zonke, umnxeba, ephethe iimvakalelo zethu kwabanye kunye neemfuno. Yaye kwenzeka ukungabinamandla ubuhlungu lwethu ukusuka ukungabikho eyimfuneko kakhulu kuthi iimeko ezinokuba ukwenza ulwazi lwethu ezifunyenweyo kunye nezinye ezikhoyo.

Mhlawumbi lesi sifo ukuthantamisa wethu, indawo, yaye uninzi bonke, ukuba nemvakalelo yothando kuye lowo esibiza. Emva koko wathi ngenye kuhlala entliziyweni yakhe. Kufuneka uzame ukufundisa abanye, kwaye hayi ukuba afundise kuye. Imfundo - le yinkqubo ende, ifuna indawo engqondweni yakho.
Ukuba sinawo amava, ulwazi kunye nothando, sinako ukufundisa umntu into esifuna ukuba ubutyhile, kwaye ngaphezu koko yena efuna yena. Kwaye kukho imeko ngakumbi yokufunda - Umnqweno umfundi ukuba enze njalo. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha umntu ngokwakhe akanako ukuqonda ngokupheleleyo ukuba kufuneka njani. Oku iza kuya icaca ngakumbi xa kwikhosi yoqeqesho, nangona ukuze kubekho uvavanyo, umzekelo ezifana ukuthingaza kunye nokusilela umdla kwisifundo yezifundo. Kodwa ukuba umnqweno uphuhliso akuthethi nyamalala, kodwa utshintsho kuphela kwinkqubo yokufunda, ingumqondiso elungileyo kakhulu bonke.

Usuku wamashumi amathathu.

Yintoni ingxaki enkulu kubudlelwane kudala uyalahlwa. Ubhubhisa iimazi ezininzi ukudinwa, ukudideka, ukuba nochuku. Of ndingavumelani imeko odiniweyo nathi yaye wanxiba phantsi size siphoswe uxolo ekufuneni iindlela kuchaphazela utshintsho okanye abeke eminye umntu izimvo zabo, iingcinga zabo, izimvo zabo, amava abo.
Kwelinye icala, sifumana icaphuke, ngaphandle kokuthatha kwelinye of zakhe ezimbi (idla kuphela Ngokoluvo lwethu, emacaleni aso omabini). Le asinto ehostele ingxaki lula. Ingxaki unxibelelwano lwethu lwangaphakathi entsatsheni, isangqa bakhe kwezentlalo, xa indawo yayo.
Khuphani inkqubo ukulungelelanisa yonke - kunzima nesahlulo entle kakhulu. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba walwa kweli dabi, iziphumo badla kudambe, nokudinwa ezinkulu inzima kusombiwa imvula belusizi.
Akukho uncedo kule ndlela inzima, nto kunzima kangaka sinikwa, azinikele kube nzima, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kunzima, kuba sonke lwasentlalweni, abahlala umthendeleko, yaye ngokufuthi kakuhle-ntle yethu ixhomekeke kwi mood, isimo sengqondo, intshukumo kunye neemvakalelo zabanye abantu bethu.
Kwaye abantu abasondeleyo, yaye ngokuqinisekileyo yakhiwe ngokwahlukileyo kunokuba siye kwelinye lokungcangcazela engaphakathi, iimbono, ethe, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni na ebalulekileyo kuwe ngenxa yenu, kuba zona nto kunye nto. Inkcazelo enokukunceda wena kulo mlo iya kuba zokwamkelwa esikolweni. uninzi imikhosi yayo nje zama ukuchitha ukuba ukutshintsha indlela yokuziphatha komnye umntu, ukuba ukwamkelwa yayo, kunye nabo bonke ukuziphatha kwakhe. Thabathani nje njengoko kuthatha umntu yobuntu bakhe kunye emhlabeni.

strong> Usuku wamashumi amathathu ananye.

Kwaye apha ukugqiba caca yethu phezulu entabeni self-ukuqonda. Enyukayo kwakunzima yaye maxa wambi enzima. Inyanga yonke, yonke imihla safunda, yaba iziseko ubulumko elula babantu lilifa apho kunzima kakhulu.
Siye wenyuka waya encotsheni, kodwa loo nto nje ukuqala kwayo yonke into, ekuqalekeni wethu namava amatsha, khangela, ukungaqiniseki, enengqumbo, ixhala kunye noloyiko.
Thatha intliziyo, ndodana, ngokuba le ndlela yakho ekuqaleni nje, yomelela, ntombazana, ngokuba nolwazi - ukuba loo ndlela inde entlango yobomi.
Musa Ungakhathazeki, mzalwana, ngokuba andindedwa kulo, kwaye wonke umntu oweza apha, kwaye zonke iintliziyo lihlwayelwa khona. Yenza ithemba, udade wethu, ngokuba kukho amandla kuwe kulwazi enzulwini zentliziyo yakhe umphefumlo wakhe. Musa ukulila, ubudala, abantwana cute iinwele engwevu Undintshwenyisile, ngokuba
Wena ukuthwala abantu abaninzi enyameni yabo, wathi umoya eyimfihlakalo, namathole engaziwayo.
Kwaye indlela ubeka phantsi entabeni ukuya ekutshoneni, uthathe iimviwo kwimingeni nokuba gqithi ngakumbi, ngokuba ekuhleni onzima, yingozi nomgudu ingaphantsi yaye ngaphantsi, kodwa kukho amava kunye nolwazi, ukuba iinkozo yobabalo, umhlwayeli waphuma waya entliziyweni; siye yawa kwihlabathi lethu kwaye ngenyameko kwezandla zethu kunye nenxaxheba kwethu.
Sinako, yaye simele sizame ukwazi.
"Mhlawumbi ke zange baphumelele, kodwa ndiza kuzama, ndiya kwenza konke okusemandleni am, yaye mna ndiya kuba yindlela ngokunyaniseka, evulekileyo, uhlobo, babe nokuthantamisa, onyanisekileyo, okholekileyo, enobulungisa, niqinile ukuthobela, engaguqukiyo kunye nenkathalo, amanene , yesazela, ilula zilumkileyo,, ecacileyo, igama kamnandi elichanekileyo kunye noshishino, ubugcisa, ezikhuthazayo, uvutha ndinekhwele, afeze, uxolo-onothando, nokuthantamisa kunye nomonde onemfesane, izele uthando kuye yaye Ndazalwa "- yiloo nto uya kumisa siyahamba.
indlela My - ukuba indlela yakho, le yindlela yethu. Thina sonke ezahlukeneyo, kufuneka sibe ezahlukeneyo, kodwa kufuneka lemvelo enye, qala mnye, iinkozo mnye, yintlantsi mnye, umoya mnye, simzimba mnye, kuba igazi enye, indawo eyodwa, iplanethi enye, bemanyene ngonaphakade, thina sonke singabantwana enye ekwakuphila.
Sonke ndivela kuye, hlalani kuye aze abuyele kuYe. Kufuneka sifunde ukwakha naye, Mdumiseni Yena, umthembe Yena, ukucela uxolo, nothando nokholo kuye.
Sonke kudla sonka sinye, umzimba wakhe isonka isithuba yakhe iindlela zakhe, kwaye sisele amanzi efanayo kunye naye, amanzi ngeenyembezi zakhe, neenyembezi zovuyo nosizi, igazi lakhe, nto leyo esinika ubomi nethemba kwiyure nganye intlungu yethu, uvuyo kunye lithemba .
Thina sonke usapho, thina elwandle ahambe emazeni olwandle, baza bafa, ukunyibilikisa esantini, kwaye kwakhona emva ebomini umpefumlo umoya. Nguwo lo umyalelo, umthetho wothando.
uthando olukhulu ngathi. Nenkathalo, babe nokuthantamisa, evulekileyo, bakhanyiselwa, eziphefumlelweyo, intliziyo kunye akumangalisi ngonaphakade. Yena uhlala nathi, njengoko Enjalo, kwaye iya kusoloko kubakho, kwaye siya kuhlala eluthandweni lwakhe, yaye oku kuyinyaniso ngayo ubomi bethu. Oku ikuko intliziyo yethu, umoya wethu.
Funda ukunika indlela yonke into kuni, yaye niya kwamkela ngakumbi oko zanikwa, kwaye oko kuya kuzaliswa kwaye zazaliseka nani uvuyo ebomini bakho.

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