"Marriage konsumiruyut": njengoko kwakunjalo ngamakhoboka kunye nokubaluleka oku

Njengoko usazi, umtshato - oko yenzelwe kubudlelwane ethile ngendlela phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Oku kunokuba ukubhaliswa ngokusemthethweni kwi-ofisi yobhaliso okanye union yoluntu, nto leyo nayo ingqalelo ngumthetho mihla.

Ukunakanwa isiko lomtshato kumaxesha amandulo

Mhlawumbi bambalwa kakhulu abantu beva elithi "umtshato konsumiruyut" Kuthetha ntoni oku Izithethe kwezizwe ezininzi mandulo? Eminyaka, ngokutsho kwababhali-mbali, yaba yinxalenye ebalulekileyo ebusuku lomtshato phakathi kwamadoda nabafazi. Kutheni? Ngenxa yokuba igama elithi "consumation" kwisiLatini lithetha "isithsaba". Ngale ngongoma ngokuqhelekileyo kuboniswa baqale ukulalana phakathi kwendoda nomfazi.

Kuthetha ukuthini umtshato konsumirovat?

INkqubo phambi umtshato yahlulwa ngezigaba eziliqela. Kwizangqa ahlukile kwakukho nendiselana zomtshato eqhelekileyo phakathi nepolnoletnimi. Kakade ke, musa sithi yabanye abantu bezicathulo kule folda, ngokuba nokuba ekuphelisweni loo ntetho lomtshato malunga neentlobano zesini phakathi abantwana wayengekho. Oku kwakukholelwa ukuba Izivumelwano ezinjalo ziya kuqinisekisa sekomelezeni yempembelelo unikezelo brachuyuchihsya kwezopolitiko okanye ezoqoqosho kwiindawo ezithile.

Ngokutsho yesiko imithetho baqale ukulalana ngokusemthethweni endaweni kuphela emva ngokuza yobudala omabini amaqabane. Isibakala sokuba neentlobano zesini umele ukuba zibhaliwe.

Ukuntsonkotha le ngongoma kukuba encinane lamakholwane omthandayo demonstirovat ebantwini. Esi sibini wayesazi ukuba umtshato wabo konsumiruyut ngomso, ngoko kwafuneka ukuba eli xesha engcwele ukulungiselela engqondweni. Inkqubo ye entengo kwenzeka ukususela. Ngokuqhelekileyo, nesilili kwakukho amangqina ngokwenene kubuka eli nyathelo. Ngokutsho ngokwesithethe Eastern wahlelwa onke kwisiko engcwele amakhandlela kunye nokhuselo ema iifestile egumbini, besilwa imikhosi 'ububi. " Umongo yokomoya msitho yaba kukuba phambi kokuba indoda nomfazi baba ngobume usapho kuphela kurhulumente, umthetho, yaye ngoku isimo sabo sivunyiwe yi nguThixo, ngenxa yokuba ekugqibeleni elidityaniswe ngokoqobo kwenye. AmaGrike amandulo abazange babe phambi kwamangqina ngexesha lomtshato njengento konsumiruyut. Abantu abasandul 'kwi ekuseni emva ebusuku womtshato wabonisa nje abo abhalwe ke siphalazeke isiphelo, iimakhishithi namabala igazi. Leyo yinto kwegazi kumaxwebhu yaye wathi oomolokazana namhlanje ebusuku ubuntombi, ndayihluthwa liqabane lakhe.

Ixabiso kwesiphelo somtshato usapho

Kuba amandla obuhle intsapho inkalo ebonakalayo emtshatweni kubalulekile. Eyokuqala ebusuku yomtshato, umanyano indoda nomfazi komnye - isiganeko enika ithemba ukuba umtshato ziya kuqhuba ixesha elide yaye omelele. ingxaki yentsapho kukuba esi sibini ukuba baphile ubomi obude obonwabisayo ubomi satshata, ukufwaisha kule abantwana befanelekile. aziyi kuba nako ukuphumeza ebufundisini loluntu usapho buthathaka, ngoko ke ukungabikho neentlobano rhoqo zesini phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, nkqu ngoku ukuba isizathu esibalulekileyo sokuba mtshato kumazwe amaninzi. Kukho uluvo lokuba abantwana entsatsheni, akukho ubunye boMoya, oko kuthetha ukuba eli qela yoluntu azinakuphila, oko kukuthi, abakwazi ukufikelela kwiziphumo yentlalo ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye ezikumgangatho ophezulu ngohlobo imfundo yabantwana ofanelekileyo kwaye ukuziphatha womelele.

isiphelo

Ngoko ke, thina kunye nawe kweli nqaku ngokutsha ngokwembono nembali kunye nokubaluleka ingcamango "umtshato konsumiruyut". abafundi abaninzi mhlawumbi Asizanga sive nokuva eli binzana. Sonke ukuqonda ukuba kuthetha ntoni umtshato konsumirovanny. Iimanyano Ezo ingqalelo izibini ezitshatileyo, phakathi amalungu sele waba neentlobano zesini.