Le zokuzila esiyingozi abafazi: ukufumana impendulo

Uninzi sicinge ukuba zokuzila kuyingozi amadoda kuphela, ngenxa intswelo yabo ngenxa ngesondo iphezulu kakhulu kunalowo mboniso. Kukholelwa ukuba umzimba amantombazana qho ngenyanga "ukucoceka" ngenxa ngenyanga ekhubekisayo, ngoko nkqu nomfazi kokuzila ukudla ixesha elide nto imbi kangaka. Amadoda afana "imisebenzi luncedo 'umzimba akakho, yiloo nto ke kufuneka ubomi ngokwesondo izinzile ngasentla. Nangona kunjalo, lo zokuzila esiyingozi abasetyhini kwaye oko kungakhokelela, Ngoku zama ukuqonda.

Izizathu ezabangela ukuba intombazana akavumi ngesondo nangaliphi na ixesha, inokuba iqashiso: ingxabano kunye omthandayo, ukugula, uhambo ishishini okanye nje ukungabikho kwisiqingatha sesibini. Ngenxa yoko, amadoda kunye nabafazi badla kakhulu senze inkqubo ende sokuzila. Ngokutsho oogqirha, oko kuyingozi kubantu abatsha, kunye namantombazana, kodwa ukuba kokuzila ukudla ixesha elide, elide yokuqala kubonakala phezu impilo yomzimba, ngoko mfazi ubunzima yinxenye psychological kuphela yempilo. Oko kukuthi, umfazi wabuza umbuzo malunga nokuba zokuzila uyakwazi ukufumana impendulo kakuhle ngokuyinxenye liyingozi, kuba nkqu unxaxho okuncinane nto eqhelekileyo ukuba imizimba yethu.

Amadoda ukusombulula le ngxaki ehlobo luni ilula, njengoko unako ufune uncedo umnxeba intombazana okanye ulale nje kwesigele. Nokuba ndlela, bahlangana iimfuno zabo. Ngokutsho kweengcali, kokuzila ukudla ixesha elide uchaphazela umsebenzi erectile kwi oyindoda womelele. Kwaye ukuba ungaphezulu kweminyaka eli-25 ka ubomi sex ozinzileyo uya kunceda ukubuyisela ukusebenza komzimba, koko ubudala uya kwenza yonke nzima ngakumbi. Kwiminyaka engama-50, nokuba zokuzila zinyanga sele kungakhokelela induku.

Abasetyhini inzima kakhulu ngakumbi, kuba ebhedini ekhawuntareni yokuqala kukulandulela phantse naluphi na kuthi. Amantombazana amaninzi ukuchitha iminyaka lokwala neentlobano zesini, ngenxa yokuba abakwazi ukufumana iqabane befanelekile. Uninzi bacinge ukuba oku kuchaphazela impilo yabo, kodwa ayikho. Le zokuzila eyingozi amabhinqa? Okokuqala zonke yokuba kuchaphazela bengqondo yethu. Ukunqongophala ucansi kukhokelela ekwandeni ndlongo, okanye ngokuchasene noko, imbonakalo jini. Kukho ngumsindo lawuleki yaye bedanduluka, nto leyo enokuchaphazela unxibelelwano kunye nabo, abahlobo kunye nabantu ababathandayo.

Kufuneka uthathe ingqalelo into yokuba umntu ngamnye abe eyahlukileyo yobuntu ngesondo, ngoko amadoda kunye nabasetyhini bangamelana yokunqongophala ngesondo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Abo uwugungxule ngokwaneleyo ukuba kukho excitability thathaka ngokulula ukudlulisa nkqu ixesha elide zokuzila. Kwelinye icala, abantu kumgangatho ophezulu nokuba ubunzima ekwaleni ngeveki ngesondo.

Le zokuzila eyingozi amabhinqa, ukongeza kukuvela ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo? Ngokutsho koogqirha, ngenxa rhoqo yokunqongophala orgasm xa abafazi ukunciphisa nezifo. Ukongeza, igazi, leyo ngenxa lokwaneliseka uqalisa lijikeleze umzimba ngokukhawuleza, stagnates kwaye nokuba kungakhokelela ukuyilwa egazi kwegazi, nto leyo yoko enkulu kakhulu zokuzila.

Ngoku uyazi zokuzila into yingozi umfazi. Zama ukuphulaphula emzimbeni wakho kwaye Musani ukubaphatha kakubi nangayiphi na imeko.