Kwigumbi labagula waBantwana: into efunekayo xa isicelo?

iziko lokuthuthuzela amaxhoba yabantwana iziko lonyango injongo yakhe ephambili uxilongo kunye nonyango yokwenzakala ezahlukeneyo abantu abangaphantsi kweminyaka eli-18 ubudala.

Kutheni lento kufuneka?

kwigumbi labagula Abantwana kunokubanceda ezinkulu ngokwaneleyo kwaye ube igumbi elinye. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuze ancedise xa abantwana walimala. Apha umntwana coca isilonda, ukumnyanga kubola eyodwa kuyibopha indawo eyonakeleyo. Amaxesha amaninzi oku kwanele.

Ngelishwa, ngamanye amaxesha umonakalo ifuna unyango ngaphezulu kakhulu. Ukuba iziko lokuthuthuzela amaxhoba yabantwana ibekwe ngaphandle kwiziko, ngoko ke umntwana kufuneka zithunyelwe kwisibhedlele ezizodwa. Apho waba uncedo lwezonyango ngokupheleleyo-epheleleyo incoko iya kunikwa. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, oogqirha trauma iza kuqhuba utyando efunekayo. Ngenxa izixhobo zale mihla kunye ekhethekileyo ngokutsha layo izinga umzimba lo mntwana, kunye kakhulu-, naziphi iimpembelelo ezingalunganga kubantwana abanjalo ntoni kuvuka.

Kulo mzekelo, ukuba umsebenzi wokhathalelo lwempilo kwigumbi kaxakeka yabantwana oyithatha umngcipheko umonakalo, yaye aluthathi ukuthumela esibhedlele umntwana unyango olufanelekileyo, ngoko ke usana kwixesha elizayo unokuba yingxaki enkulu. Inyaniso kukuba lo umonakalo ithambo loo ngxaki ukukhula kwabo. Kwezinye iimeko, evela kuziphuko zendalo kukhule ndawonye ngokwakho, kodwa kunqabile uxhulumaniso enjalo nokomzimba. Kuzo zonke ezinye iimeko kukho ukuhla kakhulu kwezinga lokukhula ithambo yonakele okanye akulunganga kwaphela zaphuka impiliso. Konke oku kufuna elukhuni kakuhle kwakubuhlungu utyando emzimbeni lomntwana kwaye ixesha kwimo elide.

Ukuze kwigumbi labagula yabantwana kukho umsebenzi ebaluleke ngokwenene ekufunyanisweni ngexesha, unyango kunye, xa kukho imfuneko, ukutshintshela izigulane abaselula kwizibhedlele ezikhethekileyo.

na ukuba isicelo nini?

Unakho ukucela uncedo ukuba naziphi na ukwenzakala umntwana. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba igumbi kaxakeka yabantwana imini nobusuku kuphela xa ibekwe ngqo kwi kwisakhiwo esibhedlele. Ngoko ke ebusuku kuvela ukwenzakala imini kufuneka ziphathwe kanye apho.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, elimele ezifana nomkrwelo okanye ukutyumka (ukuba asithethi ngalo intloko thina), uncedo ziya kunikwa kwisiza. Ukuba oogqirha ityhila, umzekelo, umntu ngokwaphulwa, bathumela isigulana encinane kwisibhedlele ezizodwa, apho zonke iziganeko ziya kubanjwa. Eyona engundoqo iimpawu kuziphuko kuba phambi lomzimba ukuhamba kwezo ndawo apho kufuneka kube.

Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba ngokufuthi ezikolweni njengoko igumbi zonxunguphalo. Kwakhona Clinic yabantwana iye kubo. Ukuze abantwana babe onke amathuba ukufumana uncedo lokuqala phantse nangoko emva ukonzakala kunye nonyango kwigumbi olungxamisekileyo abantwana. Kwiimeko ezininzi oku kakhulu ngokwaneleyo, ingakumbi xa umonakalo wayengekho ngqongqo kakhulu.