Kukuziswa kwee: ukuba abe nabantwana emva amane?

Namhlanje, ukunikezelwa emva kwexesha kuthiwa ukuzalwa wokuqala emva kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu anesihlanu. Kodwa ngoku umbelekisi jonga endala ebuJudeni ezingamashumi amabini anesihlanu amantombazana kuzala okokuqala, ebabiza starorodyaschimi ngasese. Ziphi ezi iingcinga?

Mandulo kwakuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ekuzalweni ukuya kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini. Kungenjalo abafazi eyele udidi iyivume ezizodwa. Baya wamsongela emkhuza yoluntu, kuba eyona njongo yokuba abantwana ngelo xesha ukugaywa wamajoni - akukho mntwana, akukho luncedo urhulumente umfazi onjalo. KumaXesha Aphakathi imeko ibe ngcono hayi kakhulu - amantombazana satshata kwangethuba, kwaye ibe abadala kakhulu, ngubani kuqala wacinga ngesini, yaye emva koko kuphela zokucwangcisa.

amandla yiSoviet phakathi yokuziphatha yayo lisisiseko apha, ngokumangalisayo, nayo edulusele ngaphandle. Sele kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini anesihlanu lo mfazi wokuqala umntwana iwela kolu didi "lihlazo". Kule nkcazelo starorodyaschimi phantse yaba a spinster, eshiya abameli abaninzi basetyhini ukuze athwale nangayiphi na indlela enokukwazi.

yoma uvuthuzayo, ngokuqinisekileyo kwazisa kumazwe post-yiSoviet umoya Koloni. EYurophu, ukuzalwa lokuqala ithe "usishiyile" mark mathathu, ubudala umama akazange kugwetywa. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, kwizizukulwana kamva kubonwa kubonisa ukuba uqolile, wafumana indawo elithile eluntwini, ingeniso ezinzileyo entsatsheni, njalo njalo. D. Kungekudala Esi sikhundla iya kuba ngokwaneleyo baqonda kwi-Union, kakuhle, ingakumbi ukwaphulwa 90-s nje abazange ukunikela ingqalelo, ngokuba umfazi iye ibaluleka kwezoshishino, ngumama ityhalela ixesha elithile. Nokuba ke, izizukulwana engama-45 akukho ibonwa into engaqhelekanga. Ngoku iiforam Mama ukuze okupheleleyo kwabasetyhini iminyaka emashumi mane ubudala, abo mhlawumbi uceba ukukhulelwa okanye ngabo abantwana babo yokulunywa. Le meko ibonisa ukuba izizukulwana kamva azikho othandwayo ukhetho abazi kwisiqingatha omhle eluntwini. Kwaye ezala kweli phakade swi bunciphe.

Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuba la mathuba ezimbi ukuba ukuhanjiswa maxa wambi emva kwexesha asinto ukhetho abafazi, kwaye hlobo ithuba. Ukuhlawula ukuba iimpazamo yobutsha, okanye ezinye izizathu akakwazi kumitha ngaphambili, abafazi baxakekile zokucoca kwabo uhlelo zokuzala malunga eneminyaka engamashumi amane, ngoko ke umbuzo kokukhetha ixesha lonikezelo angafanele ngayo - kamsinya ngcono.

Kuyinto into Kuyaqondakala of delivery kade - ukuphucula imeko yemali okanye komzali umnqweno jikelele nosana. Kulo mzekelo, kamva izizukulwana nazo akuqhelekanga - izibini ezininzi siyisombululile ngezenzo ezinjalo. Ke phakathi kwabo abezopolitiko ezithandwayo, iinkwenkwezi zokucwangcisa yeshishini, umfazi ishishini.

Oogqirha ambiguously ukuqikelela ekubelekeni emva kwexesha. Kwelinye icala, inkoliso impilo kamama engathethi baxhasa kukuziswa kwee - ukuya kwiminyaka engamashumi amane umfazi oluhlala yimbali nje iqela ezingaqhelekanga yamanina, kodwa ezingaqhelekanga lwentliziyo, excretory kunye neenkqubo esiswini. Lo mba isoloko ukuphendula nempilo yomntwana kunye nobume bempilo kamama ngethuba lokukhulelwa lokubeleka. Kwelinye icala, ekubelekeni kade ukunika umama eninzi nentembelo yokuba ukuba phakamisa ngokwaneleyo umntwana, awongi kwizinto eziziziqalelo, ukubonelela iimfuno zokomoya wosana. Njengoko enkulu plus apha idityaniswe uxanduva nokunyuka uyise womntwana - kukuziswa kwee idla ngokuba upopu - ithuba omkhulu ukuqaphela lukatata wakhe ngokupheleleyo.

Enoba izizathu sokuhanjiswa kwezinto emva kwexesha, unina kufuneka baqonde ukuba eli amathandathu kunye naye uya kuba, enyanisweni, elivisayo ngubani ofuna uncedo enkulu. Ngelo xesha, uncedo kufunwa ngabazali. Ezizukulwaneni zakutshanje ezibhalwe iminyaka engamashumi asixhenxe, kodwa ingaba kuyimfuneko ukulahla umntwana ukuba abe yedwa?