Ingqiqo Indlela yoBuntu

Ulwaphulo-mthetho njengomgangatho womntu kukunyamekela ukwenza amabango kumntu, ukunyanzeliswa kwemfuno kwanoma iziphi izizathu ezinobungakanani kunye nezimbalwa, ukufaka iimpazamo ezithile kunye neeposiso kumgangatho wobomi obungunaphakade, iipropati zobume bakhe, ukubambisa ukubaluleka kakhulu kubo.

Umntu okhethileyo uyisirinji ehlelwe ukuba ijoke rhoqo. Intombi yokunganeliseki ukulungeleka ukubonakala ngokucacileyo, isebenzisa i-arsenal ngokupheleleyo yezixhobo eziphuculweyo-ukuhlambalaza, ukuhlambalaza, ukuhlambalaza, ukuthetha, ukugxeka, ukugwetywa. Ukuba, njengomthetho, omncinci, obunzima kunye nochukumisayo, yena, ngokuziphindezela ngenxa yeengxaki zakhe, inzondo kunye nobuthathaka, unakekele kuyo yonke insika. Ukungabikho ziintlobo ezithile zentsebenzo ebalulekileyo kunye neziganeko ezigqithiseleyo, apho ukhetho lomntu onamava olufanelekileyo lufanelekileyo kwaye luyimfuneko. Emva kokukhethwa okunjalo kubomi kunye nempilo yabantu.

Ngokomzekelo, nayiphi na impi ibambelela ekuqeqesheni, ngoko kunzima ukwenza ngaphandle kokufunyanwa ngephutha. Kwinqanaba elithile lempi kwakukho inkampani apho amajoni ayengumgangatho wokuziphatha nokucoceka, nangona uthumela kwiLenin Mausoleum . UMlawuli ngokwakhe wayefuna ukubheka ummangaleli wamangalisa. Umphathi wekampani, uMlawuli weMatriki uGolopupenko, wadibana neendwendwe. Yakha iimbopho zakhe ezinobungozi, umhlathi osisigxina, ubuso obunqamlekileyo kunye nobukhali obugqithiseleyo, ukukhangela ngamehlo e-eye-bumpers. Ukusondela kumlawuli, wuleza wathi kuye: "Tyalela. Pugovichku kwiqhosha leyunki. " Jikelele ukhangele umlawuli wezemfundo ngokuphazamiseka. Wakhawuleza wagijima waya kumlawuli wamemeza wathi: "Khawuleza wenze oko inkampani ithi. Akayi kuphinda kabini. "

Ukunyanzeliswa ngumphumo weemvakalelo eziphazamisayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, imithombo yokufumana amaphutha iyimvakalelo emine-umsindo, ukuhlazeka, ukwesaba nokuphelelwa yithemba okanye ukuzisola, ukulangazelela. Umntu osesikhatheni esingaphantsi kwefuthe leemvakalelo ezimbi, uzibeka engozini, ngenxa yokuba ukungabi nongcongconi kubonakalisa impilo. Asiyi kuphazamisa isimo sengqondo, ukubalula ezo zifo ezinxulumene nommandla omude womntu onemivakalelo embi. Ngelo xesha, umntu akayena i-robot, akanakuthintela ekubonakaliseni lonke uluhlu lweemvakalelo, zombini ezilungileyo nezibi. Umsebenzi obulalayo kukukhusela iimvakalelo ezimbi. Kuthetha ukuqhuba inhlekelele engonakalisayo ngaphakathi. Imvakalelo engalunganga ayifanele ikhutshwe, kodwa imveli ibonakaliswe. Intukuthelo ayikwazi ukutyhilwa ngomlotha. Ukuba umntu uhamba ngendlela ephethe iimvakalelo ezimbi, uba ngumvelisi weebhloko zengqondo.

Ingqiqo yinqanaba leengqondo elidalwe kwisiseko seemvakalelo ezingathandekiyo, ngoko ke, kungaboni uthando. Ingcambu yobubi ifihlwe apha. Ukunyaniseka kukungakwazi ukubonisa uthando ngenxa yomthwalo weemvakalelo eziphazamisekileyo. Umfazi angabonisa njani uthando kumyeni wakhe ukuba uyamcaphukisa iingubo eziqhekezayo, isambatho sendlu yangasese echazwe, isepha "sesinyithi" kunye neesokisi eziqhelekileyo? Okucaphukisa ngakumbi, i-block of fault is stronger the potential of manifestation of love.

I-Muddling yintambo yokubonakalisa uthando. I-block of psychological finding of error will jam naluphi na ukubonakalisa iimvakalelo zethando, kuba kubangelwa imeko yokubhikisha yecawa yamanga kumacala omabini. Indoda ityala umfazi ngokugxeka izenzo zakhe. Ngokomzekelo, uninzi kwaye awunakulinganiswa ngemali, ngelizwi, ligxeke ngokugqithisa. I-Muddling idlulisa amagama athi "njalonjalo", "akakho", "yintoni enye onokuyilindela", "intsapho yakho", "unyoko". La mazwi ayingqumbo ebomvu ngenxa yokuxoka okungamanga: "Awuyi kuze uthembele imali," ushoyo umyeni. "Uya kuhlala uchitha eShantsev-Shman." Ukunyamekela, njengomama wakho. Yonke intsapho yakho injalo, yedwa ozicingayo. Yintoni enye eyayingayilindela kumfazi onomama ogqirhayo kunye noyise uyise? "Emva kokusungulwa okunjalo, umfazi wakhe oyinyaniso akazange avuke, kodwa waqala waza wachaza ngamagama athi:" Andiyi kuthetha ngentsapho yakho, Utywala - utata, izibophezelo - abazalwana kunye nabahenyuzi - odade. Andiyi kuthetha nto. Ndiyena mhle ngaphezu kwakho. Andikho loo nto incinane kunye nokrakra onjengawe. " Kucacile ukuba emva 'kwentetho enhle', malunga naluphi na uthando, de kube yabuyisana, akukho mbuzo.

Ukunyaniseka yizwi lokungaqiniseki, imizwa enganelisekanga. Iimvakalelo ziyintsimbi yengqondo. Ngaphandle kwabo, naphi na, kodwa kunye neengxaki. Banobunzima bokuthi: "Woza, kodwa lungcono". Abanelisekanga, njenge-Messalina engenakunyakaziswayo. Ingakanani abayisebenzangayo - bahlala becingisisa ingqondo, bebonisa iimfuno ezintsha kunye nezinye. Ebudlelwaneni, bahamba ngezigaba ezine - indlala, ukuxhamla, ukuxhamla kunye nokunyaniseka. Kwisigaba sokulamba bathula. Umzekelo, indoda yadibana nomfazi kwaye ikhula ngokukhawuleza ubudlelwane. Iingqondo azikho isizathu sokuphelisa, zihlupheka kwaye zilinde ixesha labo. Ngokukodwa ukuthuthumela ngokulindela ukuzonwabisa kuyindlela yokuchukumisa, idibene neentlungu ezintle. Xa usuzalisekile, iimvakalelo ziqala ukugungqa: "Ndidiniwe. Nika into entsha okanye usebenzise into onayo ngendlela entsha. Ngelinye igama, cinga ngento ethile, kuba sifuna into engavamile. " Indoda ethobela ingqondo yakhe iqala ukuloba kwintombi, oko kukuthi, ukubonisa ukunganeliseki, ithi: "Ewe, ulala njani efile ebhokisini? Hayi! Phantsi! Ngaba ulale apho? "

Ukunyaniswa komyeni, njengokuba akunjalo kwaye oku akunjalo - uphawu lokungathembeki kwiimvakalelo nokuziphatha, okanye isiqhamo esibuhlungu sokungcatsha, sanikwa umfazi wakhe. Ukucinga ngomnye umfazi okanye kungekhona nje ukucinga, kodwa ngokuthe ngqo ukuthetha naye, umyeni usuka kumfazi wakhe nabantwana. Xa kuziwa ekungcatshweni, yonke into entsapho iyaqala ukumcaphukisa kwaye, ngenxa yoko, i-quibbles engapheliyo ibonakala rhoqo. Ngenxa yokugxeka, umyeni uzama ukuzithethelela, ukufumana abenzi bokuziphatha. Isazela, ukuba uthe wahlala, uthi kuye: "Unetyala," kodwa ukuthatha ukufaneleka kwamagama kubuhlungu. Kulula kakhulu ukusola umfazi wakho ngenxa yezono zakho. Abanye baya kwindawo yokungazi, bekhumbula loo minyaka engamashumi amabini edlulileyo, ngaphambi komtshato, wayenomntu. Emva kokuzikholisa, indoda iyaqala ukubonisa ukukhetha. Intsapho iya kwimvelaphi.

Ukunyaniseka kuyisiphumo soxinzelelo oludandathekileyo, olungenangqiqo, ukwesaba, umsindo kunye nokudangala. Njengengqondo ebalulekileyo kubantu abasondeleyo kunye nayo yonke into eyenzekayo, ukufunyanwa kwephulo akufuni ukuqonda ukungapheleli kwayo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba neentloni kukubona ukungapheleli kwakho, makube kubonakala, ubuchule obufanelekileyo, iimpawu zobuntu okanye isimo sengqondo. Kubalulekile ukubonakalisa ukuzimisela kwaye uziqinisekise ukuba bonke abantu abafezekanga. Intsingiselo yobukho bethu eMhlabeni yindlela ekuphuhliseni ngayo ingqondo yethu, ngokuzimela. Ukuba ndineempumlo ende, le meko ingaluma, kuphela umntu oyisidenge. Ngaba kukufanelekile ukucaphukisa, kunye neentloni kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ukuphazamisa isimo sakho esibi ngesimo se-nit-picking kubantu abasondeleyo. Umntu onengqiqo uya kuba nomdla kwihlabathi lam elingaphakathi, kwaye i-snob engaphezulu yempumlo kunye nezinye izinto zangaphandle. Kubalulekile ukuba umntu akhangele yena ngokwakhe, ukufumana ezi zintlupheko zengqondo, ukuqonda ukuba ziyimiphumo yezenzo ezingenakufanelekanga, ezingenakuzikhusela, izazela eziphazamisayo, ukuba zenze ilahleko kunye nommangaliso kuya kwenzeka - inamba yokufumana iziphoso, ifunyenwe isichumisi, iya kufa ngenxa yokunyuka.