Indlela yokukhetha iinqwelo zokubhukuda kwinkwenkwe

Abazali abakhathalelayo bacinga ngokuthenga iimpahla ezikhethekileyo elwandle, kubantwana abancinci. Ukongeza kwinto yokuba ngaphandle kwee-t-shirts kunye ne-panties, isikhumba sethemba seemvuthu sinokutshiswa, ngoko umntwana usenokucaphukiswa ngumntu osondeleyo entlabathi. Kwaye akukho nto ifunekayo kubabhinqa kuphela, kodwa kubamadoda abazayo. Yingakho iigunks zokubhukuda kwinkwenkwe kufuneka zithengwa ngoluhambo lokuqala ukuya elunxwemeni. Ukuba uhambo luya kubakho ngokukhawuleza, kwaye awuzange ube nexesha lokuthenga isambatho sokuhlamba, khumbula - ulwandle alukho indawo apho kufuneka uhambe khona. Isanti singangena emathangeni, zifike kwizitho zangasese kwaye zinikezele iingxaki ezininzi kubazali kunye nemvakalelo eninzi kumntwana.

Ukuba awuzange uthenge amathangi okubhukuda kwenkwenkwe, kungcono ukushiya umntwana elunxwemeni kwi-panties kunye ne-T-shirt, ungalibali ngetatshi. Ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo ayiyi kutshisa, kwaye zonke izitho ezibalulekileyo ziya kukhuselwa ngokuqinisekileyo. Kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho sele efikelele kwiminyaka yenguqu, ke le ndlela ingcono ukuba ungayisebenzisi. Amakhwenkwe emathanjeni okubhukuda (iminyaka engama-13 ubudala asele aphendukile) aya kubonakala engcono kunokuba afutshane. Kulo nyaka, makhe umntwana ahlale emfutshane, kuba ukuhamba ngeengubo zangaphantsi phakathi koogqirha abasemngeni kungabangela ukubonakala kobunzima bezakhiwo kunye nokufihla inzondo kubazali.

Ngaphambi kokuthenga iigunks zokubhukuda kwinkwenkwe, khumbula indlela ukhetha ngayo ukutshintshela wena, yinto yokuqala oya kuyiqwalasela. Musa ukulibala ezi nkcukacha xa uthengela umntwana wakho. Ngendlela, abaninzi abakhiqizi bakhiqiza izixhobo zokubhukuda ezilinye. Zibukeka ngathi i-overalls, ezidibaniswe kwiT-shirt kunye nezifutshane.

Ewe, ukuba abantwana bakho sele bekhulile, okokuqala oko kuya kufuneka uxhomekeke kwintetho yabo. Into ephambili kukuba ukhethe ubungakanani obufanelekileyo kunye nesitayela somzekelo, kungcono ukuzama ukhetho olukhethiweyo, ukubona ukuba ngabafana abafana namathangi okubhukuda abukeka njani. Iminyaka eyi-14 ubudala xa abantwana behamba ngexesha elinzima kunzima, bahlakulela ubuntu babo. Ngako oko, kungcono ukuba ungacinezeli, kungekhona ukunyanzelisa loo mibhobho yokubhukuda, ekwahlukileyo. Kufuneka bafunde ukwenza iinqunto zabo kwaye baziphendule zabo ngezigqibo.

Nantoni na i-meltings yenkwenkwe ayikhethwanga, iya kuguga. Ngenxa yoko, akuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana athenge umtya wokubhukuda nomfanekiso we-Spider-Man, uya kujonga kuyo. Kodwa ukucebisa ukuba imodeli iya kuhambelana nomntanakho, umele nje. Ngokomzekelo, kubade abafana abancinci, kungcono ukhethe i-bermudas (i-shorts ephakamileyo) ngeesitidi-yenzelwe ukukhusela iinyawo ukuba zingabambeleli. Iintsholongwane ezincinci ziza kukhangeleka kakuhle kwiifutshane ezinqamlekileyo okanye izibhuku zokubhukuda. Ewe, ukuba umntwana wakho ngokugqithiseleyo, kunokuba ukhethe ukukhetha imodeli yamahhala kunye nokukwazi ukuguqula umthamo kwibhande. Umsebenzi wabazali ukuzisa le nyaniso kumntwana. Nangona umntwana uneminyaka emi-2 okanye emithathu ubudala, mnike ilungelo lokuthatha inxaxheba ekuthengeni, umzekelo, mcele ukuba akhethe umzobo kwi-model ye-melting oyichazile.