Yintoni umntwana okufanele akwazi ukuyenza kwiinyanga ezi-6

Nangona bonke abantwana bahlakulela kwaye bekhula ngokungafaniyo, abazali abaninzi, ingakumbi abo banabantwana abangaphantsi komnyaka omnye, banamdla kumbuzo wokuba uphuhliswa kakuhle, nokuba yonke into iyakwazi ukwenza oko kulindeleke koontanga. Emva komyinge wokuqala weminyaka yobomi, iziphumo zeziphi izakhono kunye nantoni na enye yokuzama ukuyifingqa. Ngako oko kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukwazi ukuba umntwana unokukwazi ukwenza ntoni kwiinyanga ezintandathu.

Ukususela kuloo minyaka, phantse yonke imihla yomntwana nabazali bazaliswe izinto ezintsha. Ingane isele iqale ukuxelisa ukuziphatha nemikhwa yabantu abadala. Ewe, akakwazi ukuqonda kakuhle ezinye iinyathelo, kodwa sele "uthabatha" yonke into kwaye uyayikhumbula yonke into kakuhle.

Kukho abantwana abaye bahlala kakuhle ngoku, ngokukodwa ngenkxaso. Xa umntwana engazange azi kakuhle le lakhono kwiinyanga ezili-6, udokotela wezingane unokumcebisa ukuba aqale ukutshala, oko kukuthi, ukugubungela ngeemithwalo kunye nokutshala ixesha elithile kubo. Ngaphambili kule minyaka ukukwenza oku akukhuthazwayo.

Kancinci, uguquka ukusuka emva ukuya kwisisu nakwindlela eyahlukileyo. Abantwana abanomdla kakhulu sele bezama ukufikelela kuzo zonke ezine kunye nokunyuka ngale ndlela baye kwizinto okanye iitokethi abanomdla kuzo. Kwaye abanye abantwana, ukuhamba kokuqala kungakwazi ukuhamba phambili, kodwa emva koko, kuba kulula kakhulu ukuba banqunyulwe ebusweni.

Ubuncedo obubalulekileyo bokuba umntwana kufuneka akwazi ukwenza ntoni kwiinyanga ezili-6 kukugcinwa nokubukela kwidlali yokudlala. Unokuyiqonkqoza, uyitshintshe ukusuka kwesinye isandla ukuya kwesinye, ngokuqhelekileyo uyangena emlonyeni (njengaye ezinye izinto). Ingane isele izama ukuthatha indebe. Xa ukondla kwenzeka kwipuni, ubamba ubuninzi bokutya ngomlomo wakhe. Abanye abantwana banokukwazi ukuthatha inxalenye yesisindo sabo emilenzeni, ukuba zigcinwe kwindawo echanekileyo. Kulo nyaka unconywa ukuba unike ii-cookie okanye ukomile (phantsi kolawulo lwabazali), oko umntwana uya kuzama ukuzidla yena.

Ngokubhekiselele kwinto eyenziwa ngumntwana kwiinyanga ezi-6 ngokwemiqathango yokuphuhlisa intetho, unokukholisa abazali ngokuthetha amagama anjengegama elithi "ma", "pa", "ba". Nangona kunjalo, umntu akafanele acinge ukuba ezi sele ziyizwi lokuqala. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oku kukuqala kokubamba, isigaba sokuqala sokuphuhlisa intetho. Ukutsala ingqalelo, umntwana angasebenzisa iimpendulo zezwi ezahlukeneyo. Uyaphendula ngokucacileyo kwiimbono ezibhekiswe kuyo. Ngezwi elibukhali okanye ngelizwi elikhulu, impendulo iyakwenzeka, njengokwenkqisayo ukukhala. Kule minyaka, ukwahlula kwabahlobo kunye nabangamazwi. Ngomsindo we-hook or bell, umntwana ujikezela (ukuba engabandakanyekanga kuyo nayiphi na umsebenzi). Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana beli minyaka bayashicilela izandi ezininzi ezininzi ngokwaneleyo, ezifana nokukhula, ukubetha, ukukhonkxa.

Oko kufuneka ukuba umntwana akwazi ukwenza kwiinyanga ezi-6, ukuphendula kwakhe kwizihlobo kuyafaneleka. Sebe sele eselula izandla zakhe kunina okanye uyise, unokubukela into eboniswe kubadala abakude ngokwaneleyo. Kulo mbuzo "Kuphi?", Ingane, inokwenzeka, iya kuqala ukukhangela ukujonga into, ekhoyo kwigumbi.

Iimiselo zento umntwana kufuneka akwazi ukuzenza ezintandathu ezintandathu zihambelana kakhulu. Ezinye iintsana zikhula ngokukhawuleza, ezinye zihamba ngokukhawuleza. Abanye sele behleli kakuhle kwaye bazama ukuvuka, abanye baqonda nje olu buchule.

Kodwa kukho konke kukho "amaninzi" anesantya, afuna ukuthobela ingqalelo, kuba anokusebenza njengesisombululo sokuqhagamshelana neengcali.

Ngokomzekelo, oku akunjalo ukusabela kwanebhokhwe nasiphi na isandi (ngaphandle kwelo xesha xa uxakekile, uthi, ukubukela itekisi). Kufuneka uqaphelwe ngolo hlobo nje ngokungabikho kokuphendulela ekugqibeleni iphepha, elisemgangathweni wokujonga umntwana. Kufanelekile ukubonisana neengcali ukuba umntwana akanakuhlala kunye nenkxaso. Ungesabi ukubonakalisa umntwana kwakhona koogqirha, kuba ngokuqhelekileyo sibonga ngoncedo olufike ngexesha, kunokwenzeka ukuba ulungelelanise uphuhliso kunye nokuphelisa iingxaki eziye zavela.