Amazwi okuqala abazali umntwana wakho usalindile nge namonde kakhulu: izithethe ubudala ukufunda, xa kuthelekiswa ne impumelelo oontanga bakhe, khumbula amabali malunga ebuntwaneni bakhe. Ngoko ufuna ukunceda umntwana wakho izimvo zakhe, ngokukodwa xa ubona ukuba lo mfo uzama ukucacisa into. Ngoko ke, oomama nootata badla uzibuze lo mbuzo: "Indlela yokufundisa abantwana ukuba bathethe ? Ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka '
Ngokwesiqhelo yi ngonyaka, uyakwazi usive kancinane ngokuthantamisa kwakho alula monosyllabic ngentetho somntwana, baza ngokuthe ngcembe yaye ngaphezulu yonke imihla. Eyokuqala idla abantwana ukuphinda izibizo ezilula kunye namagama lula ukuba beve kwabanye.
Abantu ezenza baby isangqa zonxibelelwano zibaluleke kakhulu isantya kuphuhliso lolwimi kwaye nefuthe kakhulu kuyo. Okokuqala kubalulekile ukuba ukunxibelelana rhoqo kangangoko kunye nosana lwakho. Musa ukulindela kuye ukuqonda zemihlathi bakho kunye iimpendulo ngaphezulu, xelela nje naye ihlabathi, ngaye ngokwakhe, ngaye ngokwakhe, ngaphandle ecinga, ukuba bafundise abantwana ukuba bathethe. Sebenzisa amagama alula ukuba kwiimvuthuluka kuya kuba lula ukukhumbula lukwavelisa, kungakuhle ukubandakanya amagama kid sele uyazi. Kwanokuba kwixa elizayo, umntwana akayi kuthetha na ngakumbi, loo nto ayithethi ukuba ixesha ngelize: kuyo nayiphi na imeko, oku kwandisa isigama kwisixando sokwenziwa - magama ukuba uyaqonda. Unxibelelwano olunjalo kuyacetyiswa ukuba ukuqala ukusuka ekuzalweni, yaye umphumo uya kuba ngcono ukuba uthethe ngokwaneleyo ngokwasemoyeni ukutsala umdla bomntwana umdla kuye. Thetha ngezinto ngokweenkcukacha, ebhekisela kwabo umgangatho, umbala, ubungakanani, njalo njalo
Ukucinga ngendlela yokufundisa abantwana ukuba bathethe, kufuneka ngabom lula amazwi, mangling kubo, intetho yomntwana sixelise. Umntwana ubona abazali bamisela umzekelo omhle kwaye aboniswe imibuzo, ngoko ke ngentloko nje amazwi njengoko weva ukuba umama okanye utata. Ngokucacileyo kwaye ugqame, zama ukuthetha igama. Ukuba ucinga njani ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba athi "mama", adle njalo ilizwi ngokwayo: bethetha unina, umnxeba abalinganiswa imidlalo ebalini, funda imibongo kwaye acule iingoma apho ilizwi livela.
Ukubangela baby amagama pronunciation: buza imibuzo, cela malunga iminqweno. Unga nokuba ukusebenzisa iqhinga ukuba ucinga, ukuze bafundise abantwana bathi, kunyanzeleke ukuba acele ukuba yokudlala endaweni ukunika nje ngayo, bayabuza kwakhona, akazange ndingangi ndifuna ukuva, kodwa ungayibaxi.
Uphuhliso intetho banokuncedwa kunye neendlela ngqo. Bonke ootitshala banolwazi igalelo elihle beemvavanyo kunye imidlalo ukuphuhlisa izakhono zokusebenzisa amalungu omzimba izandla. Nge nje kancane, unako ukufumana endlwini yakhe ezahlukeneyo inkxaso izinto iiklasi. Isenokuba umdlalo kunye okuziinkozo, kunye nocazululo nempahla ezincinane ekhitshini, ekhuselekileyo ukulungiselela abantwana, nokuzoba ipeyinti ngomnwe, kunye nabayili ubudala.
Kodwa sifuna ukulumkisa abazali iingcamango rhoqo ngayo ngokukhawuleza ukufundisa umntwana ukuba athethe. Izinga wokufunyanwa kolwimi abantwana ezahlukeneyo, yaye umphumo ngoko nangoko uya kuba kude wonke umntu. Kodwa ukuba unawo nawaphi na amathandabuzo kuphuhliso echanekileyo ngokwasengqondweni-iimvakalelo, qiniseka ukuba ubonane yincutshe.