Indlela ukuphumeza le njongo, kwiingcinga ukuyijika kwephupha

Indlela kokuba waphumelela? Lo mbuzo ekugqibeleni kuvela phambi kokuba nayiphi na indoda ngenjongo. Umnqweno ukufezekisa, sentlalo thina imingeni emitsha - ezi iimpawu njengenxalenye yobume zombini amadoda kwanabafazi. Indlela ukufezekisa zakho iinjongo? Le nkqubo iyafana ekuphunyezweni iphupha , inzaliseko neminqweno. Kule ndaba, ebhaliweyo iincwadi ezininzi kunye namanqaku. Abanye baye ebhaliweyo ukuba iphupha kufike isiphelo, ngokufuthi isetyenziswe ngaphandle izenzo zabantu esebenzayo, ababhali nezinye iimpapasho babanga ukuba kuyimfuneko ukusebenza nzima aze enze iinzame Herculean.

Kwaye yintoni umahluko phakathi ukusebenza kunye nokuphunyezwa iinkanuko? Mhlawumbi loo mnqweno kunye namaphupha alinakuzuzwa maxa wambi, yaye maxa wambi baze babe kummandla liphupha. Kwelinye icala, ukuba iphupha ayikho kuphela kwihlabathi yokomoya moya, kodwa ngokumandla kunokwenzeka ehlabathini eziphathekayo, iba kungxamisekile umbuzo olandelayo: "Indlela ukuphumeza le njongo?". Izicwangciso ndlela zahlukile kakhulu. Umntu ofuna ukuba babhalisele kwiziko lemfundo ephakamileyo okanye isixhobo kwi umsebenzi omhle kunye nenzuzo. Abanye abantu uphupha nokuqala iintsapho, ngoxa abanye uzama lokuphumelela ukugula kakhulu.

Ezi njongo zingentla ukuzuzeka ngethiyori, akunjalo? Ke ukuba, umzekelo, umntu amaphupho lokuba pilot isithuba okanye ugqirha, kodwa oko kwenziwe yobudala yomhlala-phantsi, impilo buthathaka abangafundanga, ukuba kwenziwe ngayo izinto kule meko? Mhlawumbe nto! Maphupho ibizwa ephuthileyo, kwaye azikho-moya eziphathekayo okanye ngokomoya, kodwa kummandla liphupha.

Abantu abanjalo advise - ukunikela abantwana abaninzi ixesha ukhulisa. Mhlawumbi isizukulwana kwezi njongo kuya kwenzeka. Ungatsalela le mgaqo uphambili ngasentla lowu ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: "! Amaphupha akho kufuneka abe nokwenzeka, ubuncinane umbono". Ukuba kunjalo, ngoko njani ukuphumeza le njongo? Eyona iphupha ephunyeziweyo kunye neminqweno ezinxulumene ngobuwena yayo. Umnqweno, ke, aguqulwa abe iinjongo. Oko xa kufika ixesha lokuyeka waphupha uqale ukuziphatha.

amaphupha Empty kunye neminqweno nga ivakala oku: "Kuya kuba mnandi ukuba sisityebi Apha ukuze ube nempilo!". Eyona njongo ephunyeziweyo eziqulunqwayo ngokwahlukileyo: "Mna abazizityebi ndiza kuba sempilweni ukuze kuphunyezwe iinjongo zabo, ukuqala kulo mzuzu, ndiza kwenza amanyathelo!". Kule ndlela, abantu nje uyazibuza ukuba kwenziwe ngayo izinto, kodwa liphuhlisa isicwangciso esineenkcukacha ukufikelela kuyo. Kucetyiswa ukuba amaphupha abo, kunye neendlela zokufikelela kuzo ngokulandelana isicwangciso inyathelo ukuphumeza ukubhala ephepheni. Oku kwenziwa ngendlela ecacileyo kakhulu, ngaphandle kokusetyenziswa yamasuntswana "hayi".

Okukhathazayo kukuba, endaweni ukubhala "Andifuni ukuba uyagula," kufuneka kubhalwa - ". Ndifuna nifuna ukuba uphilile" Bekuya kuba ngcono ukuba njongo zipeyintwe kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bakho; impilo, usapho, umsebenzi, uzinzo lwemali njalo njalo. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, mhlawumbi uqaphele ukuba ezinye injongo angena kwenye. Umzekelo: imfundo yabantwana kunxulumene ngqo usapho, akunjalo na? Umbhali, ukubhala kwisifundo phantsi ingqalelo, kucetyiswa ukuba uchaze zonke iinkcukacha equlathe usukelo lwakho ngokungathi sele ekuye akwaphumelela oko.

Umzekelo, ufuna ukuba indlu. Ntoleyo, kuleyo ndawo? Ufuna ukuba ube nemoto. Yintoni na umbala wayo, brand? Njalo njalo, njengoko zichazwe kangangoko kunokwenzeka. ngokwenene Kukho iincwadi ezinkulu, nto leyo ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kunceda ekufezekiseni iinjongo. iingxelo ezithile ukuze kuthiwe ngokuqhelekileyo iincwadi ezinjalo kunye ixabiso ezininzi wayecaphula kweli nqaku:

• Okukhanyisayo izinto, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuba bafunde kwaye uzame ukucinga ngendlela eyakhayo.
• injongo wakho kufuneka wayenza ngokucacileyo kwaye kushicilelwe.
• Yiba ingqalelo yokuba ungaziva. Xa ubona icebiso - hamba ngayo!
• Zonke iindlela ezikhoyo, ukuphuhlisa ingqondo yomntu ngempumelelo. Oku kuya ukufunda iincwadi ezifanelekileyo, unxibelelwano nabantu ngempumelelo.
• Musa ukukhangela ukuba izizathu, ukuba kukho into ayikasebenzi, kodwa gcina lisondela usukelo.

Kwakhona ukuba bhetyebhetye kwiimeko apho kukho ukutenxa kule isicwangciso ngaphambili. amandla aphezulu wazi kakuhle ukuba yintoni na indlela ukuphunyezwa amaphupha akho yeyona kuFeliks.