Indlela quotes malunga elidlulileyo kunceda ukuqonda amava? izibonelo amagama

ukuphila kwabantu eziqhagamshelene i ngomsonto ongabonakaliyo kuveliswa elidlulileyo, elizayo nangoku. Ngamnye wesibini, cwaka elibaleka umlambo ixesha. Ingaba kubalulekile ukukhumbula ntoni izolo? Indlela yokunceda baqonde yayo amava izicaphulo malunga elidlulileyo, xa uthe ngomlomo amadoda amakhulu?

Okwenzekayo ngoku

Kukho intetho ethi odumileyo: ngubani na ukukhumbula ezidlulileyo wakhe, yena edalelwe ukuphinda kuyo. Umntu nje kunikwa ezi okanye ezinye iimvavanyo. Yonke imiqobo athwale amathuba okukhula nophuhliso. Nangona rhoqo ngexesha lubandakanywe yezi ngxaki nzima ukukholelwa ngokuthanda kwabo, kunjalo. Ukuba umntu uyakwazi ukuphila ngokwaneleyo uvavanyo nokwenza kubo isifundo eyahlukileyo kwixesha elizayo, mhlawumbi, akazange enze iimpazamo elidlulileyo. Okanye zibe kwaye amkhulule ukuphindaphinda oku okanye loo meko.

Uphindo malunga ixesha langoku: i interconnectedness iziganeko ubomi bomntu

Ngokomzekelo, umbhali odumileyo oyinqaba Carlos Castaneda wathetha ngomlinganiswa yakhe Don Juan: "Lowo kanye woyisa uloyiko, ukhululekile kuwo ngenxa yonke imihla yakhe." Mhlawumbi akukho luphindo akukho ngcono malunga elidlulileyo nelizayo. Ngapha koko, la mazwi iphefumlelwe kangaka! Indoda kanye awela ngokwabo, okanye waba nesibindi ukuze zidlule nemeko enzima, uba amava ekhethekileyo. Ulwazi, Kakade ke, enokusasazwa ngomlomo. Kodwa akukho namnye ngaphandle le ndoda ayiyi ilifa amava angathethekiyo.

Xa elidlulileyo angafanele ukukhumbula

Amaxesha amaninzi, umntu lidla ukuba abaleke aze zonke iintlobo ngeendlela ukuba balahle elidlulileyo yakhe. ngayo ingakumbi ukuba unalo umlinganiswa ezimbi, ukuba kwakufuneka aye nge iintlungu. Abo bantu abo unobangela wokubandezeleka, sisenokuthi singaqondanga kunikhumbuza elidlulileyo. Maxa wambi asibambe ezinjalo nokuqheleka, izinto zemihla ngemihla. Kuyenzeka ukuba waziva ivumba eziqhelekileyo, bakuva iindaba kwi TV, indoda ukhumbula yonke uthotho imifanekiso elidlulileyo. Kulo mzekelo, kungcono ngokwenene ukulandela amazwi uYehova awamwisela umthetho ngayo uYehova uThixo noLote ilivo yeTestamente eNdala: ". Musa ukukhangela emva ... zisindise ngokuya entabeni, hleze nife"

Amaninzi ebomini kwenzeka iziganeko ebuhlungu kakhulu: ukuphika, ukungcatshwa okanye ukufa komntu esimthandayo. Kule meko kuyimfuneko ukuphulaphula ngentla yathi. Kakade ke, ukuzila kwimeko ngelahleko akunakuphepheka. Kodwa simele sikhumbule ukuba ubomi zange limi ngxi. Ukuba umntu phinda ngemifanekiso yakho engqondweni ezibangela intlungu, wayebonakala ukuvala indawo kwi "hard drive" computer lwangaphakathi inkcazelo yayo embi. Kwaye ke iziqhamo izenzo ezinjalo kunokuba buhlungu kakhulu. Bona amrholela lube umjikelo nangakumbi iingxaki.

Quotes malunga elidlulileyo kwaye uzive ubandakanyeka

Ukuba, njengoko ikhankanyiwe, kwaba buhlungu, omnye loo ilungu kunokubangela i imo embi, kuphelelwa ngamandla. Ambient bakholelwa umntu esinjalo: Kutheni ngequbuliso zonke zipeyintwe iithowuni ezingwevu kuye, ilanga lihlabe umhlaba. Kodwa musa sibagxeke: wonke umntu amava yakhe, umphefumlo wakhe. Quotes ngokudlulileyo abantu zaphawula elidlulileyo kusinceda ukuba azive ubandakanyeka oonyana babantu. Ukuba umntu akakwazi ngokupheleleyo ukuba babelane ngamava abanye '- oko kukuthi, akukho mfuneko ukuba ucaphuke ngayo. Karma okanye umyalelo boomerang, ngendlela enye okanye omnye, wabeka yonke endaweni yayo.

Beyond kude

Ingaba elidlulileyo ngumthombo inkumbulo ezixabisekileyo? Okanye ingaba athwala amava abuhlungu ukuba ufuna ukulibala? Kungakhathaliseki. Oku, kunjalo, ephesheya umthamo ukutshintsha nantoni na. Akukho luphindo elingcono malunga elidlulileyo kule nkalo, ngaphezu amazwi Roy Jones: "Aninako umva uze utshintshe lakho isiqalo, kodwa unako ukuqala ngoku ngokutshintsha niphele." Maxa wambi, ezinye i "kakuhle nabanye" nzima ukuze bazisunduze umntu iphefumlelwe. Bathi, "sele kudlule ixesha lakho. Wena ube minyaka imashumi mane anamihlanu, endaweni elinesihlanu. " Ukuze oku sinako ndincume kuphela, sikhumbula yena a quote emangalisayo Roy Jones.