Imnyama ngayo umntwana. Yintoni ukwenza ntoni?

imnyama emntwaneni? Itakane uyala ukuba adle nantoni na ukuba ninge endimenzele ngenyameko enkulu? Ukuba uyeke kwaye andazi ukuba yintoni na enokwenziwa kule meko - eli nqaku ubhekiswa kuni, landela icebiso alinikiweyo kuyo, ingxaki, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo, loo nto iya kuconjululwa kungekudala. Ngaphezu kwako konke, abazali kufuneka luthathele ingqalelo ukuba imnyama kwi umntwana ilele ne iintsana. Kwaye ke, njengoko abazali baqalisa ukwazisa iintsana ukutya okuqinileyo, ukuvelisa indlela lenguqu lomntwana netafile abadala, oko kuxhomekeke kakhulu sengqondo kunye nokutya kakuhle umntwana omdala-up.

Kuyinto rhoqo ukuhlangabezana Mama, bavuya ukuba umntwana wakhe imnyama. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kule khosi na izisongelo kwanezibongozo. Umntu uzama "ukonwabisa" usana xa zisitya, amalungiselelo phantse yonke ekonsathini. Umntwana, Kakade, kambe asihlali amatyala yaye kwangaxeshanye befuna iindlela ngoyaba ebekwe esidla nto. Kwaye ke, ngokuphindaphindiweyo inkqubo yokutyisa umntwana iba lokhuphiswano wengcibi yokuluka, imizwa nenkani.

imnyama, umntwana kuba ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Makhe sihlolisise ngokweenkcukacha.

1. Ukungabikho ukondla lawulo. Xa kunjalo, ukuba usapho ayisetyenziselwanga ukutya ngokuqhubekayo ngexesha elinye ngokupheleleyo, musa ukulindela imnyama kunye nomntwana.
2. Itakane nje akanako ukumthanda ukutya ukuba wanikela.
3. Le iilekese sadla ingane phakathi feedings, ukuba kuya kuba nzima kuwe ukumenza kutya isidlo semifuno okanye isitya umhluzi.
4. EziNqongopheleyo awukwazi awuyithandi i ekukhangelayo ukutya ecetywayo - kulo mzekelo, umntwana kuyenzeka nokuba ayinike itrayi.
5. Izifo wosana. imnyama kwiintsana abe kwindawo ebandayo, ingqele, amajelo otitis, kunye nezinye izifo njengoko umzimba komntwana yonke imikhosi zichithwa ukuba ukulwa esi sifo. Kulo mzekelo, akukho mfuneko ukusebenzisa usana ukutya ngenkani. Xa umntwana lichache, ngoko ukubamba up.
6. kids abaninzi esandula meteodependent, oko kukuthi, imnyama, umntwana kuba ngenxa yemozulu embi.
7. Ntshikilelo, ukudandatheka, ukudinwa, chaza ekhathazekile - ngamaxesha enjalo ingqalelo yakho, kuqala kwiinto zonke, kufuneka ukuba siyigxininise indawo imeko yomntwana wakho, kunokuba ngokwexabiso kudla kuyo ngexesha lesidlo sasemini, kuba ngeli xesha ukuba ukutya.

Kodwa, ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, ange kuba imnyama ngendlela usana, ngokufanayo omnye inyani - akukho izoyikiso okanye ukweyisela akuyi kunceda. Ewe, mhlawumbi uya kuba nako ukuzuza kanye isandla asentla, ukuze abe ukumelana komsindo ukuya itakane lusidla elandelayo. Ufuna ngokwenene ukucima ukunxibelelana umntwana kule mpi yonke imihla? Qaphela, kungekhona isibakala sokuba loo imfazwe ngeenxa ipleyiti wakhe akuyi kuchaphazela psyche umntwana. Ngapha koko, khumbula, nani mhlawumbi uyazi, kunye abadala ngokucacile uyala ukuba nidle ukudla, ekhumbula ukuba ebomini, njengoko abantwana abaneminyaka kuwatya nawo etafileni. Okokugqibela, ukuqonda ukuba ndivus enjalo malunga namacwecwe zingachaphazela ulwalamano lwakho usana lwakho.

Khumbula - akukho baby sempilweni akuthethi ukuba uzilambisa kwi plate ngokupheleleyo. Yaye akukho namnye izilwanyana akufuneki bakhathazekile ngenxa onombilini abatsha amahlwempu. Kwaye inye kuphela sizathu abantu wesiqingatha-wadla imveliso ukutya ntlekele. Ewe, kambe ke, izinyeliso, xa kuphekiwe kunye olo thando ukutya uhleli phantse kushunyayelwe kuyo. Kodwa ngaphandle kokuba ukukhathalela umntwana, ungakwazi ezinye izitya ezinzima yokupheka ibonisa oko? Nika iziqhamo zenu buterbrodik maloezhke okanye itshizi (isonka - bumdaka enye, nje okuqinileyo). Oku kuchaphazela impilo yomntwana, yaye nawe akuyi kuba nosizi ixesha ulahle wachitha.

Hi ndlela leyi, uninzi namava kubazali ngento angadli umntwana wabo, akanalo sizathu kubo. Nikelani ingqalelo ngokufuthi indlela pipsqueak snacking phakathi feedings eziphambili okanye engenela amaqebengwana, crisps, ziilekese, iziqhamo, soda ezineswekile. phezulu kakhulu calories kunye incindi - nabo musa singacebisi endiwubekayo phakathi feedings, ingakumbi esesi, abanengxaki onombilini. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ngenyameko ubhale phantsi yonke into umntwana wakho odla - kusenokwenzeka ukuba uya kufumanisa ukuba ayikho walamba.

Kwaye ekugqibeleni, anike abanye isikhokelo indlela yokuziphatha kakuhle xa ukondla usana lwakho ukuba balahle umphefumlo wakhe abahluphekayo:

1. Not zakarmlivayte! Makangabanyanzeli usana lwakho ine ngenkani. Oku kuyabathibaza abo bebengathanda ukuba wonke umnqweno ukuba nidle, kunye nomdla ukutya akuyi kuphila ixesha elide.
2. Musa engxolisa umntwana, musa ukongeza kwi emoyeni. Xelela ngcono umntwana ukuba uyamthanda. Le imeko etafileni akukho mntu wumbi na ukuphucula ukutya.
3. Musa ukonwabisa abantwana etafileni! Ngecephe kuba umama, utata, Gogo, uTatomkhulu kufuneka abangafuniyo kuwe. Vumela umntwana utya ngendlela yokutya ayifunayo, kwaye kufuneka ukuba beyiseke ukuba adle ngaphezulu, okanye zama into ukuba akafuni.
4. Indumiso imvuthuluka ezincinane, wadla intwana wedwa.
5. Ukuba itakane uthi akafuni ukuba - musa amalungiselelo yale drama. Ngomoya ubuze ukuba ingaba umntwana uqinisekile ukuba wanele, ukucoca ipleyiti yakhe. Kwaye ngaphandle naziphi amashwamshwam phambi lokondla elandelayo!
6. Iyeza ilungileyo amahlwempu iphango baby - umzekelo abazali - sidla kunye nomntwana wakho, kunye nokutya efanayo kwaye ke kufuneka ukuba anikele. Yenze kunye umdla enkulu. Ke umntwana uya kuzama ukulandela umzekelo wakho, kuba oko kuya kuba mnandi kakhulu ukuba adle.
7. Ngaphambi kokutya amalungiselelo ukuhamba umntwana emoyeni. Ngapha koko, akukho nto, lukwakhuthaza umdla njengoko wachitha ngokubonakalayo ixesha ezitalatweni.
8. Amaxesha amaninzi abantwana badla ngothakazelelo ukuba bona banceda ukulungiselela. Kwakhona kuyenzeka ukuba umdla lomntwana adle kwenzeka nkqu iintshukumo ezifana uncedo xa kuhanjiswa kwetafile.

Ukuba umntwana siphilile, uphaphile, kungekhona Ungakhathazeki, ukuba utya kancinane. Kwaye ukuba uyakholelwa khulise umntwana ihlwempu unobangela ezinye iingxaki zempilo, ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo udibane nogqirha.

Ndinqwenela ukuba ezi ngcebiso ziya kunceda usana lwakho awehlelwa ukusuka imnyama kwaye ukhule womelele kwaye usempilweni.