Imikhosi Orthodox: ubhaptizo umntwana. Into ekufuneka uyazi umama?

Ukuzalwa wenzala - kuluvuyo olukhulu ukuba abazali. Ukuba usapho Orthodox, ngoko ke usapho kukho imiba emininzi yonqulo, phakathi kwabo: "Igama ntoni ukubiza ukuthuthuzelwa," "umntu ukuthatha phezu godfathers" kunye "njani ubhaptizo yomntwana". Into ekufuneka uyazi unina kwisiko lokugqibela, xelela izinto.

Ulonwabo ehlabathini ngokomoya

Nokufika itakane abantu ukukhanya kufutshane ezama ukumkhusela kuzo zonke iingozi neengxaki ebomini. Bethenga izinto eziphilayo, abangenazimpahla zifudumeleyo, zokudlala. Abazali kaka nosana uthando olukhulu nenyameko. Kuba lo mntwana yonke imihla konwaba wancuma zabo ezintsha.

Kodwa ngaphandle koncedo iNkosi ukukhusela eziwa ububi kunye nosizi yehlabathi akunakwenzeka. Ukuze umntwana akhule esempilweni, kungekuphela nje umzimba kodwa umphefumlo, wabamba usana babhaptizwa. Into ekufuneka uyazi uMama noTata malunga le nkqubo? Kuqala - kukuba abazali indlela Ndimnike umntwana yabo kwihlabathi likaThixo.

Ichaza indlela isakramente Orthodox wokuzalwa yokomoya wosana. yenziwa Lo msitho kanye ebomini. Isiko olwenziwe nge kathathu ptosis umzimba emanzini. Ngelo efanayo ixesha wanqula uNdikhoyo, uNyana noMoya oyiNgcwele. Baby axolelwe izono abazali ukuba kudlule ukusukela ekuzalweni. Umthendeleko kuthetha ukuba loo mntu ngoku ohlala ngokunxulumene nemithetho kaThixo yaye akafuni weziyolo zenyama. Kodwa uya kukhangela ukuba ulonwabo kwihlabathi yokomoya ukukhanya nokulunga.

Umongo enzulu siko

Nesiko kwakhona kuthetha ukuba umKristu entsha ukunikela ubukho bakhe kuThixo. pilo ndimse uvuyo nolonwabo. Ukuba ihlabathi Orthodox ajoyine umntu omdala uyazi uxanduva ethatha ngaphezu, umele ngokunyanisekileyo baguquke kuzo zonke izono.

Namhlanje, abazali bazama ukwenza ngokukhawuleza umthendeleko izithethe. ishishini uxanduva - ubhaptizo umntwana. Into ekufuneka uyazi uMama noTata mixture wabo waba lilungu epheleleyo Church, umbingeleli owaziyo. Wachaza ngokweenkcukacha ins kunye outs yezithethe. Ukuba abazali abayiqondi kakuhle izithethe kunye nendima yawo ebomini bomntu, ukuba mhlawumbi kungcono ukuba baqhube yezithethe. Ngenxa Orthodox - oku nje usana kunina, kodwa yokuphila. Abazali zinyanzelekile ukuba ukukhulisa isidlo emva umntwana wakhe elukholweni, ukuba amfundise imithandazo, ukuba atyelele etempileni, thabatha umthendeleko kunye sivuma.

Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba eCaweni akukho mahluko, ukuba ndibhaptize umntu omdala okanye umntwana. Kulo mba, ababingeleli abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ukuziphatha ngomthendeleko isiko ngcono ebudaleni, xa nje uyayazi into ayenzayo.

Usuku ukuba isiko

Imithetho malunga ukubamba xa mkhosi apho. Kaninzi kwi itakane enze idini iintsuku ezingama-40 emva kokuzalwa. Nangona Lomgaqo uthatha indawo ngaphambili. Noko ke, abaninzi bathi kulibaziseka umthendeleko ayikho imfuneko.

Imibuzo kuvela kwakhona ukuba le mihla xa benza ke christening umntwana. Into ekufuneka uyazi umama ngenye imini? Eyona mpazamo eziphambili ezenziwe ngabazali - bakholelwa tinsimu ukuba yomthendeleko esinokwenziwa eposini. Enyanisweni akunjalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo isiko kule mihla bachitha nzima ngakumbi, ngenxa yokuba inkonzo ngeli xesha elide kunesiqhelo. Ngako oko, ekhefu phakathi kusasa ezinkonzweni ngokuhlwa elifutshane. Ngenxa yoko, ngowokuqala nje ngokwenyama akazange abe nexesha ukubekela bucala ixesha yezithethe. NgeMigqibelo nangeeCawa inkonzo ayikho elide kangaka, ngoko kwezi ntsuku angachitha yomthendeleko.

celebration athobekile

Enoba kunjalo, kufuneka ucele umbingeleli malunga nemithetho yebandla, apho inkonzo iza kwenziwa. Ngokubanzi, ukuba akukho miqobo zobugcisa, ubhaptizo nga tirhisa ngosuku olunye.

Kodwa babe ingcaciso sivakalayo intetho malunga yokuba isithuba akufuneki ukwenza isiko (ubhaptizo yomntwana). Into ekufuneka uyazi unina ukuba wahlela iholide mhla unqulo ucela ukuba ziyeke ukutya okunamafutha, iziselo, and fun? Kuqala - ukwenza isiko ingaba, kodwa musa ukubamba isidlo kunye nemibhiyozo ingxolo. Ukuba ufuna ukuphawula esi siganeko kunye neentsapho zabo, lo mbhiyozo zinga hanjiswa kuzo omnye umhla, nto leyo enxamnye nesithethe Orthodox. Kwaye mhla xa usana lwakho christened, ungenza kugutyungelwa itheyibhile wayengaphakamanga meatless izitya aze achithe ixesha kwincoko elula.

Indlu kaThixo njengoko kwikhaya

A lot of ulwazi iinxalenye kufuna yomthendeleko (ukubhaptizwa umntwana). Into ekufuneka uyazi unina ndawo apho isiko liya kwenziwa? Le mpendulo ichanileyo - yonke into. Isibakala sokuba abazali bagqiba ekubeni mabaqhoboshele umntwana ubuKristu kufuneka athembeke yaye ngoko rhoqo ukuya etempileni. Ngokuqhelekileyo, eya ukuya ecaweni enye iminyaka. Kukho iimeko xa umntu ebhaptizwa, akathweswa sithsaba, kunye nenkonzo yokungcwaba etempileni enye.

Xa engumshumayeli udla inkonzo, yiya loo ndawo yonqulo, hayi kuphela iiholide, kodwa ngeCawa, yobudlelane bebulela umbingeleli, ibandla libe nje isakhiwo kunye uphahla, kwaye ekhayeni lakhe. Kulo mzekelo, abazali bazi yonke imithetho. Malunga ngomahluko itempile yawo, kufuneka axelele godfathers.

Maxa wambi Isiphelo ukuze kufuneka bazenze into ongayazi ubhaptizo baby ecaweni. Into ekufuneka uyazi uMama noTata ngotata wam, kwaye, loo ndawo yonqulo? Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ukukhawulelana ukholo obudala.

intetho ngqo

Kodwa ngaphandle koko, kuyimfuneko ukuba aqhube nencoko lokuqala kunye nombingeleli. Namhlanje iicawa ezininzi ngokwabo kwenziwa iintlanganiso kunye nabazali. Xa uncokola, bafunda malunga neenjongo labantu.

Ngoku ke umthendeleko yobhaptizo, yomtshato okanye waqonda njengento eziqhelekileyo kuyimfuneko. Kwelinye icala, abantu abaninzi abayiqondi kakuhle kwezithethe. Wonke lokukhula kwabo - uhlobo lwe umzimba. Abanye banyanzelwa ukuba ukuqhuba le misitho izihlobo abadala. Ngenxa yale isiko enkulu ezilahlekileyo conviviality.

Ngoko ke, lo incoko ikhokelela ababingeleli. Ezingxoxweni waphakamisa zihloko kubalulekile ukuba abazali musa nokuba bacinga ntoni xa becwangcisa ubhaptizo yomntwana. Into ekufuneka uyazi uMama noTata ukuba 'test'? Ubuncinane i iimfundiso eziphambili, imiyalelo. Kakade ke, kufuneka ukucengceleza umthandazo ubuncinane ezimbini: "Bawo wethu" yaye "I Believe".

imithetho zenkolo kunye neentsomi esizwe

Maxa wambi unyuka evela incoko ukuba abazali kwimibandela yonqulo njengoko engathethekiyo xa umntwana wabo. Emva koko ke umbingeleli uyavuma ukwenza kwisiko kuphela phantsi komqathango wokuba umama kunye notata yobudenge ukulungisa. Ngapha koko, abantu abangaqondiyo iziseko ukholo lwabo musa, asiyi kuba nako ukunika ulwazi oluyimfuneko ukuze umntwana. Ngako oko, i yomthendeleko yeyona nto ngaphezu umthetho.

Ukongeza, ukunyuka kunye neminye imiba, umzekelo, umxholo godparents. Xa incoko kunye umbingeleli, enye kwenye, uyakwazi ukuqonda apho umda imithetho iinkolelo zonqulo iintsomi.

Kukho bokuqonda ezininzi iyakuthintela oku okanye loo mntu ukuba zijonge ubhaptizo lomntwana. Into ekufuneka uyazi umama kunye notata, ngubani bacelwa ukuba babe godparents emnqamlezweni, kukuba abasayi kuba nako msebenzi wayo ukuba inkolo eyahlukileyo. Nantoni ebuzwa kulo mzekelo, abazali umbingeleli, yena akayi uyavumelana ukwenza umthendeleko kunye, amaRoma. Isibakala sokuba abantu abanjalo akakwazi ukufundisa umntwana wakho kwizithethe Orthodox. Ukuba le smolchat ezincinane, isono uya kuwa phezu bonke ababekulo cahoots.

Mission pair lokuqala

Kwimeko apho kukho imeko esinjalo kuye kwenzeka ngenxa yokungazi, omnye umntwana Akusayi kuyiwela. Eli siko lwenziwa kanye kuphela ebomini. Kodwa itakane uyakwazi ukunxibelelana kunye abamkeli.

Kukho esinye isihloko elidla uvukile phambi ukuziphatha ubhaptizo yomntwana. Into ekufuneka uyazi umama kunye notata umnqamlezo, ukuba kuqala inxaxheba yomthendeleko? Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu bathi ukuba umfazi kufuneka kuqala izandla enkwenkwe, kwaye umntu - intombazana. Kungenjalo, abadala anike umntwana yonke ntsako. Abantu Orthodox akufuneki bathembele iinkolelo ezinjalo. Zonke ke enyanisweni izinto zihamba enye indlela ngeenxa zonke. Ukusuka kwindawo yonqulo lwembono, kuphela umntu kwisibini sokuqala (umgangatho kufuneka ibe godson) baqonda izulu owayemele. Oko kukuthi, kuphela lokuqala ibizwa owayemele kumantombazana umama kunye owayemele - kuba umfana. Aba bantu iwela uxanduva mkhulu ngokuba bayahlelwa lomntwana.

Intsapho uqhagamshelo ngokomoya

Lababingeleli abangengabo eziqhelekileyo ngokusondeleyo nentsapho, awukwazi ngokuchanekileyo ukulandelela intsebenzo yabo bonke imithetho. Ngoko ke, lo msebenzi iwela godparents. Zonke abamkeli banoxanduva nobhaptizo umntwana. Into ekufuneka uyazi mama emnqamlezweni? Into ayikwazi ukufeza lo msebenzi ukuba kubalulekile ecaleni umyeni wakhe okanye isoka. Inyaniso yeyokuba abantu indlela hlanganisa uxhulumaniso ngokomoya. Enyanisweni, ukuba izalamane. Kwaye lo uyaqina iphezulu kakhulu emtshatweni. Xa abantu abatsha babhaptizwa umntwana, waza wamthanda waza wagqiba ukuba utshatile, ngoko mhlawumbi. Kodwa yonke ingcaciso ekuyo kumele ibe bathembekile amxelele umbingeleli.

Sibe abamkeli nabantu abahlala ligosa likarhulumente. Ukusuka kwindawo yonqulo lwembono, loo mntu lesono, ngenxa yokuba izikhohlakali zingamoyiki semthethweni ulwalamano lwabo. Kodwa - hayi usapho phambi koYehova. Kwelinye icala, ukuze abantu zaye okubi, unako ukufundisa umntwana wakho?

umthwalo onzima

Kum abazali nabangani nje kuphela, yaye naziphi na amalungu entsapho. Enoba ebantwini abadala okanye kulutsha, eyona nto ibalulekileyo ukuba umntu ukhethe ukuba ngumntu olungileyo wama-, bazi ngoxanduva lwabo.

Ayikwazi ukwenza ngaphandle ubhaptizo umntwana kunye iimeko ezingalindelekanga. Into ekufuneka uyazi Ummeli lwam lwenkobe ngobhaptizo? Akasakwazi inxaxheba kwezi zithethe esexesheni. Ngaloo mihla, umfazi kufuneka bazikhwebule isidlo. Ukuba sexesheni uwe phezu kweli namhla, nonke nina kufuneka unyaniseke ukuba amxelele umbingeleli. Uya kunikela indlela engcono ngaphandle. uyise enyamezelayo ze nomsindo, nendumiso ngokunyaniseka kwakhe.

Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ubize umntu abamkeli umntwana wabo, abazali kufuneka ucinge ngazo zonke izinto ezilungileyo. UThixo-oomama nootata kufuneka babe ngabantu abaya kuthatha inxaxheba bekhulisa kwiimvuthuluka zenu, wakhokela umntwana ecaweni babafundise ngomthandazo.

Ubumsulwa umphefumlo

Ngokuqhelekileyo, umfazi akakwazi ukuya etempileni, xa kukho ubhaptizo yomntwana. Into ekufuneka uyazi umama ekubhaptizweni, ukuba ngelo xesha ke ekhaya okanye kukufuphi? Kusenokuba engqondweni ukufunda iZibhalo. Kodwa ke ban ukuya unina ngexesha kwisiko usebenza kuphela kwiintsuku zokuqala ezingama-40. Okulandelayo, umbingeleli ungakwazi ukufunda umthandazo phezu umfazi, aze avunyelwe ukuba ukujonga msitho.

Xa abazali baye bagqiba kwi indawo amiswa ndizihlalise zonke okusemthethweni eziyimfuneko ukuze anyamekele ukusulungeka umphefumlo wakhe. Umsitho oya kubamba phezu usana lwakho kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngale mini, bonke - umama, utata kunye abamkeli - kuya kuba ziimbopheleleko neethagethi ezintsha. Phantsi nokukhuselwa kwabo kuya kuba nyulu kunye ongenasono ngokupheleleyo indoda Orthodox. Phambi kokuba uqale esiya kwenza izinto ezibalulekileyo, kuyimfuneko ukuba bacebe kakuhle na.

ulwazi jikelele

Phambi kokuba isiko kufuneka unikele vangama zokomoya iintsuku ezimbalwa. Abantu abathatha inxaxheba kule nkqubo, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba zilungiselelwa hayi kuphela holide, kodwa ebufundisini uxanduva. Kulungile ukuya kwiintsuku nje ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba abhaptizwe ukuze ukuzila kwaye nikhwebuke ngesondo. Kwakhona eve ezixabisa sokuvunywa wobudlelane.

Sinxiba ukuba isiko ukuba uthobekile, kodwa izinto ukukhanya elimbala entsha. Abasetyhini kufuneka ziipeyintiwe. Kufuneka ukuba kryzhmu (ilaphu emhlophe), umnqamlezo kunye chain. Ezi mpawu othenga abamkeli.

Yesiko ngokwayo ithatha imizuzu 30-40. Ngalinye godfathers kufuneka uyazi ngentloko i "creed".

Isiganeko enkulu kubomi yabazali - ubhaptizo bomntwana. Into ekufuneka uyazi umama (Ifoto kancinane ibonisa izithethe) - zonke echazwe kwisicatshulwa. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba iingcamango notyekelo kule holide ezicocekileyo.