Ezibonisa? Ukuba abathanga bawele thina!

"Ingqibelelo" - ligama eliqhelekileyo kuthi sonke kakuhle, kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi kuthetha into ekruqulayo. Ingaba akunjalo? ubonakala nje "nerd" iiglasi, bona bubonakala ladies ezindala ngapha kwesitrato, enika indlela kwizithuthi zikawonke-wonke ngemali, kwaye ngokuhlwa osusa neekati emithi. Andikholelwa ukuba kukho umntu ekhwele engibaziyo kwaye osetekenini ihlabathi, kunokuba enesidima. Okanye andibi kunjalo? Okanye le ulonwabo? Makhe sithethe ngayo kule post.

Isidima ngoku akusekho udumile

Xa fashion, ephuma fashion ayikho impahla kuphela okanye nezimbo zomculo, kodwa iimpawu ezithile yokuziphatha. Ekubeni uninzi lwethu wazalelwa amaxesha Soviet (abanye bade baba nelungelo akhule kwaye ufumane imfundo ngeli xesha), asazi ngokuzibonela ngubani "timurovtsi". Yaba "trend", ngolwimi mihla, ulutsha wazama ukuba ukunyaniseka, ephendulayo, abantu. Igama elithi "nokuhlonipheka" ngoko ukuba zonke eziqhelekileyo kwaye kakuhle uyazukiswa.

Xa ludilike waphakamisa, waba nendlela ukuba olweyeliselayo. Beatniks, uso - abantu abaselula badla wachasa inkqubo, indlela kwanokuba akukho kakhulu ukunyaniseka. Yintoni fashion namhlanje? Phinde Ukukhathalela! Makungaziwa ayifundiswa eklasini esikolweni, kodwa nendlela namhlanje kukuba lokuzabalazela phezulu, ukuze ufumane ubutyebi nodumo. Ezibonisa? Le into aphazamisane ukufezekisa nantoni na. Iikhosi amazwi ezifana "Chutzpah - ntsako yesibini", "Wonke umntu elilelakhe", yaye "nokuwa" ukuziphatha ivunyiwe bavumile kuluntu.

Ukunyaniseka nobulungisa

Enyanisweni, akukho inkqubo uluntu okanye urhulumente akakwazi ukugweba ukuba ube oluntu. Khumbula ukuba umama wathi sizalelwe umntwana osisiyatha ngokokubona kwakhe ukuziphatha? "Kwaye ukuba bathe utsibela ukusuka emgangathweni yesibhozo, ngoko nifuna ukumka?" Let ngoku "nendlela" ukuba umntu onjalo abangevayo ngaphandle imigaqo kunye nemigaqo, kodwa kukho kwakhona ilizwi elingaphakathi, amandla enamandla ngakumbi ilizwi nkqubo karhulumente.

Ngamnye kuthi balive ilizwi elo ekuthiwa isazela, umphefumlo, ingqondo, okanye ilizwi kwentliziyo. Ezibonisa - le yenye ibonisa zethu kakuhle. Yintoni ebonakalisa?

Yintoni ingqibelelo?

1. Umahluko phakathi "ezilungileyo" "ububi." Oku akukho malunga iipatheni zentlalo, kunye intuition yakho ngaphakathi. Ngaphandle nezimiso zenkolo kunye nekhowudi enetyala, ngaba uyazi ukuba yintoni okulungileyo kwaye hayi kakhulu.
2. Ukungafuni ukwenza iintshukumo "embi". ingqibelelo lwangaphakathi isenza sibe nemvo shame kwimeko ekwenzeni izenzo zokuziphatha okubi. Qaphela ukuba akukho nangokunyanzelwa - thina ke benze isigqibo. Yaye ukuba ukhetha into "ephosakeleyo," (kuluvo lwethu), sinokuhlala msulwa ngokupheleleyo, yaye kuphela emva kokuba izazela zethu ziya ungandithuthumbisi.
3. Umnqweno ukwenza imisebenzi elungileyo. Le ezibonisa engaphakathi "ngabo" Umnqweno wethu ukuba 'elungileyo' nemvakalelo iintsikelelo ulwaneliseko.

Yintoni eyenza ukunyaniseka lo mntu?

Isenokubonakala engaqhelekanga, kodwa ke abantu abaninzi bakhethe wala isipho enjalo yemvelo ethandabuzekayo ngayo kahle. Kutheni kuyimfuneko? Ukuba aphazamise buqu, phambili, ukuzityebisa?

Kodwa ke, njengoko le nkqubo kunye namava izigidi zabantu, bonke "zokudlala" ezifana nemali, udumo, igunya abaqhubeki saneliseke yokuziphatha (Kakade ke, kunzima ukukholelwa, kodwa hayi "ngabom 'ukuba azokuba). Abantu nokufuna yonke imiqulu ezinkulu ezi mpumelelo, kodwa ukufumana ukuba namava udandatheko kunye nokuziva into ecinezelayo egeza. Kodwa zama ukuba ukuphila ngokubekekileyo! Akuyi bafumane izinto nto, kodwa umphefumlo yonke Masigcobe uhadi. Enyanisweni le nto kukuba izinto eziphathekayo ezifana zokudlala Christmas mbumbulu - "abala-." Ngelo xesha nye ivumela nokuhlonipheka bazive onke kwaye phantse phezu kwehlabathi, nokuba ukuba ngaba ungumfundi olihlwempu.

Ezibonisa - ayikho kuthi esemgangathweni. Ngaphezu koko, indlela yokuziphatha "elungileyo", ngokutsho iimbono zentlalo mihla kuthintela umntu sabona. Kodwa oku kuphela xa siqonda yi "ukuphunyezwa" ngokwabo ukusukela lwamaxabiso efana nophuhliso lwemisebenzi, kuba imali, izinto ezintsha uphawu. Ukuba ufuna ukuba ube nje ukonwaba, ukuze siphile ngokuvisisana ngokwakho, ngoko ke musa ukuba ungabi enesidima.