Expression: ukujonga indlela iingcingane interlocutor?

Expression ... Yintoni ihleli ezinzulwini zabo? Akumangalisi bathi umphefumlo omnye umntu - ubumnyama. Kwelinye icala, amehlo - isipili komphefumlo. Ngoko ke, makhe sifunde ukuba bawajonge ngenyameko esipilini yaye ufumanisa ukuba abantu baxhontele kuwe phezu komphefumlo. Nkulumo (ntonye - buka), kunye nezinye iimpawu avumela "funda" i interlocutor ngaphandle amagama.

Principles of kwengqondo

iisayikholojisti abanamava kunye ezandleni niyakwazi ukubapha ngqo ngendlela amehlo akho okanye ibinzana yaye oko kuya kuthetha ntoni. Kwiimeko ezigqithisileyo, amehlo efihliweyo emva iindondo ezimnyama. Ngoko ke, siya ukuqonda indlela unako ukunika amehlo akho okanye interlocutor.

1. Utshintsho kweyesiqhelo, iliso ibinzana oqhelekileyo ibonisa ukuba interlocutor watshintsha iimvakalelo, iimvakalelo kunye njalo njalo.

2. iintshukumo Iliso mbulo, leyo bathi ukuba "run amehlo" ibonisa ukuphazamiseka ngokweemvakalelo, uloyiko, ihlazo, inkohliso, alarm.

3. amehlo Okukhulu ibonisa ukuphazamiseka luvo, nomkhuhlane.

4. "Glass look" - ubungqina nangokwengqondo nezimanyumnyezi, ukudinwa. Ukuba Andizange babone iliso enjalo, kwintlanganiso ukuqonda ngoko nangoko kwaye uzive.

5. Ukwandisa abafundi ungqina Yonwabele, inzala, okanye, icala, ukubandezeleka nodandatheko. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ulahle kwicala kunye ingcamango enjalo, njengoko iziyobisi ezidakumbisayo, leyo nayo senze ngathi amehlo.

6. pupillary ukuba ubukho neemvakalelo ezingakhiyo. Umzekelo, ezo ziquka umsindo, intiyo, umsindo, ucaphuka okanye ukwaliwa nantoni na. Ngapha koko, inokuba ngenxa yokusebenzisa iziyobisi.

7. Xa amehlo ukuhamba ngokungakhethiyo, ngaba sizimisele ukunxila okanye utywala. Kwaye intshukumo nezidubedube ngokukhawuleza ngakumbi - inkulu isidanga kunxilwe.

8. ukuqhwanyazaemva Ukwanda kwenza kucace kuwe ukuba ukundilalanisa, ezama ukulahlekisa, okanye umntu ufumana uchulumanco olukhulu.

9. Ukungabi iliso -sibonisa ukwehla wenzala okanye ekugxilwe kuzo naziphi na iingcinga.

10. ukhangela komnye ngokwesifundo nesifundo uthetha unciphiso ngokucacileyo umdla. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba omnye wenu libaziseko.

11. Ukukhangela evela ngaphandle ithi malunga ukungakholwa ukuthinjwa, sukani emva libonisa ukuba umntu mhlawumbi elele okanye bazive benetyala. Nkulumo, ngokufutshane, uthi lukhulu.

tricks yabaseTyhini

Abafazi, mhlawumbi kuva eziqhutywa iimpawu ezithile kunceda ukunxibelelana nabanye abantu. abafazi abaninzi yokuxoxa iliso xa emamele interlocutor. Xa babesiya ukweyisela umntu, ngaphandle ekhangele emehlweni kusetyenziswa uqhagamshelwano ngomlomo kwaye oyivileyo nalo mntu. ndlela yenza kube lula ukuba Tune "neembono ezifanayo" kunye neqabane nempumelelo.

Ukuba umntu kwincoko ejonge ngaphantsi kwesinye kwisithathu ixesha yababini emehlweni ngabanye, ukuba noxolo lwengqondo, unako ukrokrela yena uyajola. Kwelinye icala, ukuba umntu akujonge ngayo, oko kumiselwa ukuba umntu onomdla okanye oyithanda (abafundi inimba), ebenomsindo kuwe (abafundi ekuvunyelwene) , okanye ufuna ukuba abuse.

Kodwa ukuze ukubala interlocutor kusenokwenzeka kunye neemvakalelo zakhe, iingcinga ngasese, kufuneka ukufumanisa kuphela ibinzana yamehlo, kodwa, Iziboniso kwakhona ngomlomo non-ngomlomo, ezifana notshintsho ithoni, pallor, umkhwa Ukucofa umsesane esandleni sakhe, tipakani yendlebe.