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Alphonse - akuyona umsebenzi lula
Ngubani na gigolo? Lo mntu wathengisa ngento lakhe imali. Parasitism njalo ugwetyiwe luluntu, ingakumbi xa uphawu besini eyomeleleyo. Kuba namankazana zobuhle lula bonke iduke isetyenziswa, kodwa indoda kule ndima kubonakala avanyisa, nangona uhlobo lobudlelane kuzo zombini macala efanayo siseko.
Alphonse - igama oyindoda
Eneneni, Alphonse - igama akuve kuvamile aseNtshona. Njengoko zibhekisela abantu ukuba bafunde kunye ladies azizityebi ngeenjongo zokuzingca, isetyenziswa kuphela kweli lizwe lethu. Oku kuchazwe yi kukuba, okokuqala, kufuneka abafanyana kangangokuba zange ngokuba, yaye okwesibini, zithandwa kakhulu (ubuncinane kule minyaka ilishumi yokugqibela) eRashiya wasebenzisa imisebenzi Aleksandra Dyuma (nyana) - indoda ezintle French koonobumba. Ngoko ke, omnye imisebenzi umbhali ubizwa - "Monsieur Alphonse" kunye nomlinganiswa yayo ephambili uphila ngumntu osisityebi inenekazi. Funda ke ngoku, Kakade ke, ngaphantsi kwiminyaka edlulileyo, kodwa lesiteketiso aba "namaqhawe-abathandi 'ntshunxekile, sebenzisa oko nabo babe kule ncwadi ezandleni engabambe.
iimpawu alfonsizma
Kuyabonakala ukuba ukususela umntu zenkohlakalo kulula ukubona. Xa udibana nomntu umfazi omdala kunaye, ngoko lo kwanele ukwenza isiqhulo ukuthuka. Kodwa ukuba ukuba alula, ngoko Alfonso kwakungayi kuba ixesha elide. Eneneni, abafazi abazizityebi, njengoko umgaqo bengengabo, bubudenge, kwaye ukuba wabakholisa, ngakumbi ke ukuba ukwenza ifolokhwe ngokuzithandela, kufuneka ube eziliqela iingenelo wokhuphiswano kuthelekiswa namanye amadoda. Umzekelo, isibheno ezibonwayo. Kodwa asingabo bonke gigolo - indoda yinzwana. Ngoko ke, kufuneka kakuhle yaye banxibe cocekileyo. Kodwa akukho sisebenzayo-nye, ukuchaneka kakhulu ngokuqhelekileyo amadoda amaninzi befanelekile. Ngokubanzi, omnye nemiqathango azizange zichongwe. Sifuna ezithile iimpawu, leyo ukuhlanganiswa ubonisa indlela ekumfimfitheni yobomi.
nesinamandla ukupha
Ekubeni ukubawa iphambili zonke gigolos, eyona ephambili kubo ngethuba yokuqala intlanganiso ukupha ebaxiweyo ngethemba emva abuyekeze iindleko ezenziweyo. Isetyenziswa ngabo kunye nezinye iimpawu zangaphandle "njengamagorha" ezifana ukungazithembi. Enyanisweni, echasene ngokokubona Muller (edlalwa zolinganiso Bronevoi), cwaka akuthethi kuthi kokungadlali, kuyinto eqhelekileyo bonke phlegmatic, kungakhathaliseki iimpawu zomntu, kodwa gigolo lolona phawu ezakusebenziswa ukukhangela ngcono sho kakhulu. Ngoko ke kwathi ngomhla wokuqala, unako ukuba ungafumana ingcamango ephosakeleyo ngokupheleleyo malunga neqabane lakhe.
shazi apreyiza
An yokuhlola ebalulekileyo leyo ogqitywe gigolo, ukhonza ulwazi enkulu imiba ye amaxabiso kuphola iimoto, impahla, ubume izincedisi, ukutya kunye premium. Olu ngolwazi olufunekayo ukhetho oluchanekileyo yenjongosenzi ingqalelo. Bonke abafazi bethu bazama ukukhangela ezintle kunye nendlela, kodwa umsebenzi lo gigolo kukuba ukubonisa ubunzima lilonke Lowo unayo ubunakho eneneni ezinkulu zemali. Ngoko ke, ukuba umahluko phakathi 'baqine' kwaye 'olungelulo olokwenyani' kumelwe ngokuchanekileyo. Apha kule mbaleki, ngokubanzi ukuhlola krwaqu uyakwazi ukubona ukuba lo mntu nje waqalisa ukuthetha neenjongo yena kakhulu.
eyayiveza ezingenakugwemeka
Ukuba lulwalamano olubakho, kungekudala emva koko iya kufika ixesha xa gigolo oyindoda "angalulibala" isipaji ekhaya. Ndafumanisa ukuba le venkile, okanye xa kufika ixesha lokuba uhlawule amatikiti kule nkundla eninzi, umzekelo. Ke nkqubo iza kuhamba phambili ekwandiseni. Xa bebuzwa ukuba kutheni, buhlungu yaye axhalabe nembonakalo yobuso landela ibali ngequbuliso-uhlaselo yeengxaki zemali, uhlala nge sandulela "Andifuni ukuthetha nawe ...." Malunga izalamane abagulayo, ezizezakhe izigulo ezibulalayo kunye nezinye iingxaki ngokwenene angabalisa ibali touchingly kuphela Alfonso. Amafoto zikholisa eqhotyoshelweyo yanelisayo. Apha kweli nqanaba kufuneka uqaphele kwaye wenze imibuzo malunga okhethiweyo wakhe. Kuzo zonke sixeko uluhlu eyeyalo gigolos, "yalikhanyisa" ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kuba bubuchule lokwenene kuphunyezwa ngokuthi beemvavanyo zepraktikhali.
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