Abantwana ukuqina. Yintoni abamele bayenze abazali?

ingoma waBantwana ichaza abasafunda ukuhamba Mzoli malunga ngala mazwi alandelayo: kufuneka batsibe yonke indawo, zonke echukumisayo, imilenze jerk, kungenjalo kuya umlilo, bang - broads! Kuyinto eyaziwayo ukuba umntwana kufuneka ahambe. Kodwa oku umda, xa umntwana akakwazi athule uphulaphule ibali, ukupeyinta, ukuba uziqhube udlala kwi yesanti, ukuba ukuthetha nomakhulu wakhe, unina okanye umntakwabo. Kwezinye abantwana, nto nje ayisebenzi. Ukuba umama kwaye ilawula esihlalweni umntwana noko amnye ebantwini, iyakwazi ukuguqula intloko yam, ubengo phantsi, wendiza iingalo zakhe, ungabi nako ingqalelo ishishini ekunene. Oku abantwana ukuqina. Yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe ngabazali kubanceda Mzoli yabo?

Okubaluleke kakhulu, kufuneka uqonde ukuba umntwana wakho okanye ungenatyala. Akazange ngokungqalileyo ngoko wayedityaniswe ukusontwa. Nantso ingxaki yakhe, yaye inxalenye abadala udinga uncedo, kungekhona nezithintelo ezingapheliyo kunye nezohlwayo. Kubazali umntwana nomdlandla kufuna indlela ekhethekileyo evela kubazali, ngokuba nzima ne amandla unyana, nokuba ihlabe intombi, uze ulithumele kwicala elifanelekileyo. Yinto umsebenzi onzima, kodwa nomvuzo. Kubalulekile ukuba kwakamsinyane kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kunokuba ulinde zodumo "zikhule." Kusenokufuneka zobungcali luvo uncedo okanye kwengqondo.

Umsebenzi, umsebenzi, kwaye kwakhona umsebenzi - koko bafuna abantwana ukuqina. Yintoni ofanele uyenze abazali ukuba owoyamaniswe ukuba ubomi sikhululekile ngakumbi? Yakhiwe! yonke Intsapho ingaqala ukwenza imithambo kusasa, ukuhamba okanye ukukhwela ibhayisikile, uziqhube na kwezemidlalo. Ukuba oko akwanelanga, kuza kubanceda kwicandelo ezemidlalo, isifundo umxhentso. Ngenxa yoko, i-eneji excess uya kufumana indlela layo, ebuthongweni eqhelekileyo. Kodwa oko kuya kusombulula zonke iingxaki bomntwana ukuqina.

Ukunqongophala ingqalelo kunye nokungakwazi ingqalelo - kwiingxaki ezimandundu abajongene abantwana ukuqina. Ndimele ndenze ntoni na le nto? Uninzi iingcali zithi umgangatho data kufuneka luphuhliswe. Umama ungacwangcisa bucala ixesha suku ngalunye umthambo, efuna nokuzingisa. Ukuze ufumane msebenzi akuyonto ilula, kodwa ukuzama izinto ezahlukeneyo, ukusuka befaka nokupeyinta ukuba ukunitha, ungafumana ukuba usana ezikuthandayo. Ngcembe ukwandisa ixesha eklasini, uya kunceda ukuphuhlisa nokuzingisa. Qiniseka ukuba ukuqala umsebenzi kunye neefom eso sixa elincinane ixesha, ngokuthe ngcembe ziyanda kuyo. Fizkultminutki kufuneka kwenziwe ngexesha lekhefu ukuze banike umntwana ubhobhozayo.

Egadini kunye nesikolo, kwesinye iingxaki kwindawo ongayazi kunqandwa eza nayo abantwana ukuqina. Yintoni onokuyenza ukuze uncede abanakekeli umntwana kunye nootitshala, kufuneka ukwazi. Ukusebenzisa tricks zokufundisa, amaqhinga encinane, u nga n'wi pfuna ukumelana nobunzima evela kukungakwazi ingqondo. Ukunika imisebenzi ezincinane, kufuneka kubavuza ngesisa abantwana ukuphunyezwa ngempumelelo, ukukhuthaza nkqu umzamo zincinane. Ngexesha izifundo Ziyacelwa iinqununu ukuba zazise ngetshokhwe okanye yokuhlamba ngelaphu ekulungeleyo ukucuthwa luvo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ukufumana touch siqu, ngenxa yokuba abantwana uthando nomsa abe namandla kakhulu, ekwaziyo uku nokuba baxhaphaze. Eso simo sengqondo uya kusindisa umntwana kufuneka babe ukuzikhusela ngokwabo.

Ukusetyenziswa zonke iindlela ngasentla ziya kuthwala iziqhamo kuphela ngokuhamba kwexesha, kunye ngobuchule. Kulo mzekelo, i ngaphambili kokuba uqale ukulwa, kokukhona uya kuphumelela umphumo iya kuba. Ukungahlaliseki kwiintsana Unga phawula. Basimisela Intwana yobuthongo, omninzi Ukumemeza, rhoqo eshukumayo, nangona ehamba ke ngoko ukukhasa nangoku andazi njani. Ukuthunyelwa a zeengcali kuza kunceda ukwenza inkqubo esweni umntwana wabo kwaye Ukukhangela i iingxaki kusekwangoko. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba Zimiseleni nangoko nemfundo eyiyo selayini, ukuze kwanokuzitshintsha na umntwana eqhelekileyo ibe overactive.
Abantwana abazali ukuba ukufundisa abantu abatsha, ukutyeba. Nabantwana ukuqina le nyaniso kwandisa phindene kalishumi!