Zimpawu mkhuba

Drug likhoboka - kunzima kakhulu kwaye kunzima ukunyanga izifo, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba kwangethuba kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba athathe amanyathelo unyango kodwa kunokwenzeka.

ngabazali abathandekayo, zama ukuphulaphula, ukukhangela ngokusondeleyo ukuya ukuziphatha unyana okanye intombi. Abo abasindayo intlungu elinzima yokuphulukana umntwana yabo, bathi, "sijonge kuwo izinto, khangela kucebisa, wakuva incoko." Kwelinye icala, oko - izifundo embi ukuba kukuthiya abantwana bakho. Kodwa kwelinye icala - ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi abanye abazali musani ukwethemba abantwana babo ukuze basebumnyameni, oomama kunye abazali ukuba ndisindise ubomi babo ...

Xa kungekho tyala musa ukuyidelela ingozi eli liyithweleyo likhoboka. Musa ukuzama azisukele "modernity" lobuxoki 'phambili' ukuthatha esithi "ebomini kufuneka uzame yonke into." yokunyaniseka kwabo, ungenza uluvo engalunganga abantwana ukuba kunokwenzeka noko ayikho.

Ngelishwa, isiphumo ayinqwenelayo ukunyanga likhoboka iyazalisekiswa ekhulwini 5-10 kuphela lamatyala.

A bazijongisise Iimpawu zokuqala likhoboka ukuze babone ngexesha sifo. Khumbula ukuba kubhetele ukuba ekhuselekileyo kwaye maxa wambi ukubonisa ngokugqithiseleyo ukukrokreleka, kunokuba ukujonga kwenzeka ntoni, "iliso eemfama" bacinga ukuba yonke into aya ukuphatha ngandlel 'ithile.

Musa unganaki le iimpawu likhoboka kunokwenzeka, ngathi utshintsho kwimo, ukudandatheka angachananga okanye ngokugqithiseleyo echwayithile, ngokuba akukho sizathu ethile. Uqaphele ukukubonisa ukuba kuphela elivisayo into sathetha ngomdla, ekwabelwana, wanceda ngeenxa zonke endlwini - kunye mzuzu kamva, "zokuzicingela", waba okuso abazimisele ukucacisa ukuziphatha bakhe bezinye iintlanga. kukutshintshatshintsha Rapid ukusetyenziswa kumxholo wawakhoakulula kubonisa incipient likhoboka iziyobisi.

Ukutshintsha kwisingqi ubuthongo - nto kwakhona iimpawu likhoboka. Ngokomzekelo, xa umntwana akabi kuphuma kwelo gumbi, elele okanye lulele nje ebhedini, ngokuhlwa, emva kokubuya angahambi kunye nabahlobo, iyaphuma sinamandla imini yonke. Ukuba unobangela sanctions ulawulo lemini - ngamakhoboka eziyobisi, ngoko yonke into siyaqondakala: intsha kufumana inxalenye imvakalelo "high" of imincili kwaye bacinga ukuba olugungqisa iintaba. Kuyenzeka ngokuhlwa kunye ebusuku - emva kokuthatha umthamo. Ngomhla Ngentsasa ukudinwa emfono uzenza waziva, kwaye elivisayo ungalala kwada kwahlwa.

Musa akakuphosi elidlulileyo kunye notshintsho kwizidlo. Oku - hayi yinto eqhelekileyo, ukuba abantwana bakho abafuni kudla imini yonke, yaye emva kwentlanganiso iqela abahlobo okanye ukuchitha ixesha kwigumbi evaliweyo kungaba lula "umolot" servings eziliqela.

Ewe, ezi mpawu ukuze okufana usana esempilweni, kodwa ukuba mnye kuphela kubo ibonakala, kakuhle, okanye ezimbini - sasingachazwa. Ukuba kangangexesha elithile uya gqolo ukufumana zonke iimpawu ezintathu unyana okanye intombi - ngokungxamisekileyo athathe amanyathelo ngaphandle kokulinda ukuba "self-yokupasa" okanye wacinga.

Kukho nezinye iimpawu likhoboka. Umzekelo, umntwana ngokukhawuleza inkom cwaka, ukuba ukuyiveza zimpi. Wafumana abahlobo abatsha, apho phantse nto iyaziwa, okanye akwaziwa kakuhle kakhulu. Ngelo xesha nye Yobeka phi ukunxibelelana kunye nabahlobo bakho kunye nosapho. Ngamanye amaxesha akukho sono ukuphulaphula uze uthethe nabahlobo bakho (nokuba nabo abahlobo zaziwa kakuhle kuwe, kodwa ngoku uze ukubamba ngamabinzana elingaqhelekanga emilonyeni yabo). Ezinye abakhotyokiswe makhwelo yeekhowudi iincoko zenu, ukuze kubangela urhano ngokungeyomfuneko. Ekuncipheni indlela abaqhuba ngayo abafundi ekufundeni, ukulahlekelwa umdla awayezithanda kutshanje, uphuhliso nokunganaki, ukulibala - zonke ezi ziimpawu zo likhoboka.

Musa ukushiya ngaphandle ingqalelo utshintsho abathile imbonakalo: izangqa, hlale ukubonakala komso engaqhelekanga emehlweni akhe, kakade, imizila lwezitofu.

Ukuze koyika kunye neemfuno nokwanda zemali zabantwana babo. Usenokude ufumane ilahleko imali okanye nantoni na eyeyexabiso endlwini. Ukuba ngebhaqo ufumane imvelaphi olungaziwayo lwe ingca eyomileyo, ngumgubo luthintithayo leyo - kuba ubungqina phantse ngqo. Kufuneka athathe amanyathelo akhawulezileyo kunye ngokukhawuleza.

Inxaxheba kwinqanaba lokuqala likhoboka umntu ukuba unako ukuyeka nanini na ixesha, ngokuba akakazi kuva iintlungu zomzimba - uqhekeke, uphila nje. Ngelo isigaba esilandelayo ichiza ithathe ixesha elide ukuba ukugcina karhulumente "ukumelana" - kungenjalo kuya kuba namandla ikhefu-up. Ukuthabatha ichiza, umntu uba amandla nomdlandla - nangoku ivuyela idosi. Kodwa kufuneka ubuncinane ukunciphisa, lihamba sifo ukuya kwisigaba sesithathu. Ke kaloku injongo ulwamkelo ichiza - bangafumani ophezulu, kunye nokuthintela ezidilikayo. Umzimba izele yityhefu, loo mntu isidima, kuba utshabalalisa ingqondo. Konke oku kukhokelela ekufeni.

Mkhuba, bafumana ixesha, ziyanyangeka, kunye nosuku olunye savuka simahla oku kuxhomekeka enzima, umntwana wakho kukuxelela "enkosi".