Yintoni na le ngxoxo? nengxoxo

amagama Kule mihla, ngokufuthi weva ezifana ubuntatheli bokuphanda, udliwano-ndlebe, emfutshane ... Oko ke kuthetha yaye ukuba kusetyenziswa phi? Yintoni na le ndlebe, kutheni nendlela tirhisa? Le mibuzo iza kuzama ukuphendula kweli nqaku.

Yintoni na le ngxoxo?

Udliwano-ndlebe (esuka kudliwano-ndlebe IsiNgesi, "incoko", "intlanganiso") - le yindlela incoko, iincoko ezithe zenzeka phakathi kwabantu-2 okanye ngaphezulu.

Udliwanondlebe kuthetha ubukho amaqela amabini: ingxoxo, umsebenzi wayo ophambili kukuba ukubuza imibuzo, yaye nomthombo (emacaleni), abo banikela iimpendulo zabo. Ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko apho udliwano-ndlebe, oko kubhalwe kwi ikhamera yevidiyo okanye umbhobho, kuqhutywa njenge ukuxoxa ngabom kusasazwa ngqo.

Kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje-ndlebe idlala indima enkulu kubomi esebenzayo zoluntu. Oku kusetyenziswa njengendlela yophando, uhlalutyo kwiindawo zoluntu ezininzi (apha ziquka ubuntatheli kunye nonxibelelwano, inguqu kunye kwabantu, izibhengezo kunye nokuthengisa). Amaxesha amaninzi babhenela udliwano abaqeshi lodliwano-ndlebe umsebenzi omtsha. Yiloo nto abantu abaninzi banomdla koko ndlebe.

Iintlobo loo ncoko

Okwangoku, kukho ihlabathi ezinkulu eziliqela iintlobo ze-ndlebe.

Okokuqala, lo ngowona eziqheleke kakhulu asetyenziswa rhoqo - nengxoxo elula. Kulo mzekelo, umsebenzi ongundoqo udliwanondlebe na ulwakhiwo oluchanekileyo nengxoxo: Ebuzwa Rhoqo kufuneka ebekwe ngendlela ecacileyo ngendlela, kulula-to-ukuqonda. Kakuhle eli ngxoxo ukufumana ulwazi kangangoko kunokwenzeka.

Uhlobo elilandelayo udliwano - ebizwa ngokuba omnye. umongo wayo kukuba eyingozi imibuzo zibanjwa ngawakho amazwi akho nomnye umntu ethetha. Xa lo mntu mnye owazeka olu hlobo ndlebe, oko kuhlala kukho uhlobo "emva emfihlekweni". Njengoko kwimeko yangaphambili, into esisiseko ulungelelwaniso oluchanekileyo kwekhosi nengxoxo.

Uhlobo lwesithathu ubizwa ngokuba incoko. Kulo mzekelo, iintetho intatheli, ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abambalwa. Incoko, ngokungafaniyo nezinye iintlobo, ihamba nzulu, apho le mibuzo ilandelayo ngokuqhelekileyo uvuke engaphambili. Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuba kube khona ngexesha nimlahle intatheli. Kulo mzekelo, udliwano-ndlebe i ndlebe ingxoxo.

Uhlobo lwesine umsebenzi enikwa yi qela interviewers. Ngokuqhelekileyo, le kwamagqabantshintshi (inkomfa cofa emfutshane, nto leyo ngokuyintloko iinjongo zokunika ulwazi), ingxelo cofa, iinkomfa ezahlukeneyo kumaphephandaba, njl Ngelo xesha intatheli esifanayo ngandlel 'ithumba okwenzekayo, ngoko Iinkqubo ulwazi, ukongeza izimvo zakhe, banikwe ingakumbi kumajelo eendaba, leyo imele.

Okwesihlanu - incoko esihlanganyelweyo, okanye njengoko ibizwa - i "itafile ngeenxa". Le fomati zicwadi kunzima kakhulu ngenxa yokuba nguye obuza imibuzo kufuneka ithunyelwe incoko kwicala elifanelekileyo, kangangokuba kwakubonakala abanye ngokwenene ezifanelekileyo ishishini kunye nomsebenzi onemveliso.

Oku udliwano iintlobo efanayo iinkxalabo "umgca ashushu" apho incoko lwenziwa nge "iindwendwe" studio, TV irediyo, ushicilelo lephephandaba elithile, njl Ababukeli nabo bayakwazi umnxeba umoya phezu ngokukodwa ikhona kule nombolo (ukuba incoko ivuliwe kunomathotholo okanye kumabonakude). Ngokuqhelekileyo, le yi-ndlebe kunye iinkwenkwezi kunye noosaziwayo.

Indlela udliwano ndlebe?

Lifikile ixesha lokuthetha into ephambili. Njengokuba besesitshilo ngasentla, le ndlela ndlebe isetyenziswa ngabantu abavela ezahlukeneyo ngokupheleleyo iinkalo zobomi kwezentlalo: evela Blogger kunye oonondaba ukuba nabathengisi kunye namashishini.

Yini incoko nomntu okanye kwaqhutywa, le nto iphambili kolu hlobo lweshishini - kukuthi, kuqala, ukuba balungiselele ngenxa kuyo, yaye okwesibini, ukuba aqhube udliwano-ndlebe ngqo, yaye okwesithathu, ukuba aphathe zonke zezinto ezithile eziziphumo. Siya kusondela ngabanye into nganye.

Ukulungiselela i-ndlebe

Inyathelo lokuqala kukuqinisekisa injongo apho incoko enjalo kuqhutywa. Ukuba umntu ngokusondele kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba umsebenzi othile, oko kuthathwa ukuba impumelelo abe ukufezekisile.

Ngaphezu koko, udliwano-ndacinga kakuhle kuya kuba luhlobo "umazibuthe": ukuba umdla nomtsalane kubantu bona ngokwabo athathe inyathelo, nto leyo eya kuba plus enkulu ingxoxo.

Ukuze kakuhle usukelo udliwano, kufuneka uphendule le mibuzo ilandelayo:

• Ziziphi izizathu isiseko loo ngxoxo lo mntu?
• Ngaba sixelele into umdla eluntwini?
• Ziziphi iingenelo okunokufunyanwa kule dliwano-ndlebe?
• Ngaba sinokuthi kakuhle ukuba udliwano-ndlebe umdla?

Ukuba ingxoxo akakwazi ukuphendula le mibuzo, yintoni uthethe ndlela iyasetyenziswa, umphumo akunakwenzeka ukuba umdla kunye nemveliso.

Uncedo esikhulu interlocutor sisilumkiso ye-ndlebe ezayo. Man (kunye imibuzo) yokuzithenga silungiselele kakuhle esi siganeko.

Kuyimfuneko ukuba bafumane ulwazi kwangaphambili malunga kwisifundo incoko. Kulo mzekelo, ingxoxo iza kukwazi ukubamba incoko, kwaye zivakalise imibuzo yabo.

Ulwamkelo nokuvulwa njengencoko

Isenokubonakala Akumangalisi, kodwa Umbuliso phantse licandelo ibaluleke gqitha kuyo nayiphi ndlebe. Eneneni, umbono umntu ilele ukusuka kwimizuzwana yokuqala yonxibelelwano kunye naye.

Oku kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi: inqanaba iyazazi umntu udliwanondlebe, ubume bentlalo interlocutor, njl abingelele umntu ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:

• Le fom ngokusesikweni - igama, igama eliphakathi, yaye "nina" (Molo, Vladimir Romanovich).
• Le fom semiformal - ngegama, yaye "nina" (Molo, Vladimir).
• Ngohlobo sikweni - ngegama, yaye "nina" (Molo, Vladimir).
• Ngendlela eqhelekileyo - i "wena" kunye nefomu yemvelaphi igama (Molo, Vladimir).

Ukunxibelelana nothile

Emva Bonke imfuneko 'ndimaphule qhwa "kunxibelelwano. Ukuze wenze oku, ungabuza imibuzo embalwa elula malunga mntu: ukuba abuze malunga athanda ukuzenza kunye nomdla, uthethe ngayo izilwanyana. Emva koko ugqithele kwizinto ezimandundu, kunye nenjongo kunye nodliwano-ndlebe olwenziwa.

Musa ukulibala ukuba incoko kufuneka babe basaphila. Kakuhle eli ndlebe kukuba mayibe nonxibelelwano phakathi kwabantu ababini okanye nangaphezulu.

Lidla kukho iimeko xa macala izama kwaye esebenzayo, iimpendulo zabo umdla kwaye izityebi, kwaye incoko - kunokuba ekruqulayo. Njengoko sihlelwa ngenxa yokuba phakathi intatheli kunye nabantu wathetha nabo, kwakungekho nje akukho xhulumaniso.

Le uxhulumaniso kungenziwa wamisa kuphela xa incoko akusiso okanye imibuzo. akayi kuba Ungakhathazeki malunga nokuba yintoni na imibuzo, ukuba akathanga oceba udliwano imibuzo kwangaphambili, nako ukwenza umsebenzi wabo ngokufanelekileyo. Wonke umntu kufuneka ibe umfowunelwa ngamnye. Kulo mzekelo, imibuzo emitsha izakuvela bebodwa.

Ukuzaliswa ndlebe

incoko ukuphela kuyimfuneko ukusa kwixesha ekuvunyelwene ngaphambili (nokuba udliwano-ndlebe iinkwenkwezi, okanye abadlulayo-by random). Umvavanyi kuyo nayiphi na imeko kufuneka ungalibali ukundinika iqabane lakhe, ukuba kuphela akazange kuya kuba sikulungele. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba incoko kukushiya nesimilo esihle buqu.

Emva kokuba impahla leyo kufuneka baphathwe kakuhle, kukhokelela ekubeni kulula-to-view abaphulaphuli. Oku kungathatha njengento udliwanondlebe, kunye nezinye iingcali (umzekelo, abahleli).

Siyathemba ukuba inqaku waba luncedo kakhulu kuwe. Siye zibhengezwa le mibuzo ilandelayo: "Yintoni na le ngxoxo? Ukuqhuba-ndlebe. "