Ukuziphatha kweli hlabathi

Ukutyhubela imbali lasisiseko senkcubeko yoluntu, abantu abaninzi aspired kukulunga kunye nobuchule, kuba ungaziva va ukuchaneka le ndlela yokuphila. Kwangaxeshanye, bekusoloko oozwilakhe kunye nezaphuli ababefuna amandla, totalitarianism nemfazwe, ngenxa apho kwenzeka ukuba athimbe ubutyebi nabanye abantu baze bafumane amandla angaphezulu. Noko ke, nangona zonke imiqobo, imilinganiselo yokuziphatha isoloko ibonwa negalelo ekumiseleni umntu kunye nendawo yakhe eluntwini.

Oosonzululwazi kunye iinkcuba zexesha elidlulileyo waphawula ukuba isimilo yinxalenye ebalulekileyo wonke umntu, kuba ifakwe kuyo ukusuka ekuzalweni. Ubungqina oku yinto yokuba akukho bantwana ezimbi. Bonke abantwana ukusuka kwindawo imbono sengqondo kunye lokuziphatha aphezulu ezilungileyo, ngokuba bengengabo kodwa olunemboniselo omdala ubomi kunye besukela ubutyebi, ubutyebi, igunya phezu kwabanye abantu. Umntwana ayikwazi ukuziphatha, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kubi. Wonke umntwana kufuneka ibalwe imilinganiselo yokuziphatha, njengoko kufuneka ukuba kuye eziphambili ekujoliswe kwihlabathi lethu ziinkathazo.

Eyona iphambili kwixesha yethu absolutization Umba "inkululeko". Ukuba iba isibaluli ngokukhetha umendo lophuhliso ngamnye. amalungelo siseko eyasekwa ngumGaqo-mthetho, ukuba nibe ngabantu abaninzi into ephambili owayeze izenzo ezithile, yaye oku, ngelishwa, akukho luphawu elungileyo kakhulu. Ukuba amaxabiso yangaphambili yokuziphatha ukuchaza ngokucacileyo ingqikelelo okulungileyo nokubi, kodwa namhlanje ezi yantlukwano phantse musa, ngokuba akusekho ukuqonda ngokucacileyo yala maxabiso. Ububi uthathwa kukwaphula umthetho ethile yaye wenza isenzo okungalunganga leyo kukwaphulwa inkululeko yomnye umntu. Ukuba umthetho naliphi na inyathelo akuvumelekanga, ngoko kuba obuvunyiweyo ezichanekileyo ngokuzenzekelayo. Le ezimbi kakhulu, ingakumbi ebantwaneni bethu.

Eyona nto iphambili emiselwe, nto leyo idlala indima ebalulekileyo kuphuhliso kunye nokuphuculwa umphefumlo womntu yokomoya, unqulo. Namhlanje kuyehla sisithethe elula ngemihla ukuba akusekho akubalulekanga ngokomoya. Nangona isibakala sokuba abantu bayaqhubeka ukuba kubhaptizwe abantwana, ukuba babhiyozele yePasika iKrismesi, bangabi imali le mikhosi engcwele ngengqiqo yokomoya. Kuye ziyaqheleka, kukhokelele imilinganiselo yokuziphatha inkoliso yabantu bawile kakhulu.

Inkululeko yinto enkulu kuphuhliso womntu mihla, apho namhlanje akaphenjelelwa iingqiqo kwi yokuziphatha kunye iintshukumo "yokuziphatha okanye kakubi 'yaye' yomthetho okanye zomthetho." Bonke bekuya kuba kuhle ukuba imithetho yethu zenziwa ngabantu ngokwenene ngokunyaniseka endilisekileyo, kwaye kananjalo ngokuhambelana nezithethe yokuziphatha kunye nembeko.

Umzekelo onguwo inokuba imilinganiselo yokuziphatha bulumko, kuba ngaphezu kwabo bonke, ubulungisa, ukunyaniseka kunye iinkcuba okwenyaniso kunye zo. Ngoko ke, indoda mihla kuya kuba luncedo ukuba gxwa ubulumko yamandulo nokufunda, ubuncinane, kunye amazwi ezaziwayo iinkcuba yexesha elidlulileyo. Njengoko abantwana bethu, kubalulekile esemncinane ukufunda kuthi abadala iziseko yokuziphatha efanelekileyo kunye nesimo sengqondo kwabanye abantu. ukuziphatha ukudlala kulo mba indima enkulu, njengoko lokuqala inqanaba lophuhliso, kumnceda umntwana ukuba evela izenzo eziphosakeleyo nezenzo, uze umnike isikhokelo xa bekhetha ikhondo elifanelekileyo lobomi. Ngapha koko, ukunyaniseka nokuhlonipheka ekugqibeleni baphezulu, kuba umthetho yesiqalo ukuba loo mntu ezichaphazela akakwazi.