Ukuba ndisuswe ukonakala, ngaphandle wayebhekisela oosiyazi?

Igama elithi "umonakalo" liye ingcambu efanayo kunye isenzi 'ukumosha ", oko kukuthi ukwenzakalisa, ukuba wenze into embi. Ngenxa yoko, umonakalo - uhlobo lwe nefuthe elibi umntu obeka omnye ngoncedo kwezithethe zemilingo okanye isithembiso amandla ngqo.

Ngaphambi kokuba ndifunde indlela off umonakalo, kufuneka kuqondwe ukuba nemiphumo bafakela, ngabom okanye ngokuzenzekelayo. Kwimeko yokuqala, umonakalo usabakhokela abantu elungiselelwe ubugcisa izithethe abamnyama magic. Kwimeko umonakalo lwempembelelo ngokuzenzekelayo okanye unconscious anako abafumana iimvakalelo zosulele ezimbi. Phakathi kwezi iimvakalelo - umsindo, umona, ingqumbo. Nangona into yokuba umntu onjalo izithethe ngumnikazi, umsindo ayo aphakathi xandzukela umntu othile, kunokubangela umonakalo.

Iindlela zokukhomba urhwaphilizo, baninzi, impembelelo zinokusasazwa nge into, ukutya okanye amanzi iimveliso. On ingaba zonke izenzo umonakalo? Enyanisweni, uninzi eli sesichengeni echaphazela abantwana kunye nabantu buthathaka nasengqondweni. Kodwa umntu amandla ebalulekileyo ngobomi (kwaye, kunokuba kuzo ebezintle nezo zingentle), phantse akukho phantsi sesichengeni ezinjalo.

Ngoko ke, ukuba ndisuswe ukonakala yaye kwenjiwa ngaphandle kokubhenela kwi oosiyazi okanye umakhulu ixhwele? Eneneni, nabani na nje wena ngumonakalo zisindise, kodwa ukuba neze zithandwa kwiimpembelelo ezinjalo. Oku kuya kufuna ukuqonda isimo sakhe sengqondo nokuhambelanisa ubume bayo, ngaphandle kunye nezo ziphuma ngaphakathi. Kakade ke, oku kuya kuba lula, kuba imfuno ukuphucula rhoqo kwinqanaba zokomoya zabo, ukuzeyisa nokuphucula umgangatho, kwaye ayikho kwaphela ibingenamongo ngokwaneleyo. Kulo mzekelo, kufuneka ufunde ukuba nenzondo, ukujongana iimvakalelo ezimbi ezifana ngumona, bangafuni, ikratshi.

Kucacile ukuba akukho lula ukuyenza, ngoko kukho iindlela lula ukuba umntu athathe konakele. Kodwa ke ukuba uqale kukuba ukuqonda ukuba umonakalo kwi umntu. Umzekelo, iimpawu umonakalo ukufa kwabo kukuba umntu iqalisa ukuba buhlungu, ugqirha nje awukwazi ukucacisa unobangela, imphathe ukusuka kwenye, emva koko komnye. Ukongeza, kukho badla iimeko ukuba umonakalo ubomi esisoyikiso abantu lalapha.

Ukuba umonakalo uyacengeka iintsilelo, omnye lowo nefuthe, oko ujamelene rhoqo neengxaki ezahlukileyo musa ukuvumela ukuba benze iqhinga. Amaninzi ukuhluleka entsonkothileyo kwi msebenzi ekuweni ngokupheleleyo ebomini bakhe.

Kananjalo kubalulekile ukuba siqaphele ukuba ngakumbi uze ucinge ukuba ayinonophele njani off ukonakala ukuba i-ofisi okanye kwigumbi kumnyango olandelayo ukubonisa izinto zasemzini, musa apho kufuneka khona - nezikhonkwane, ingca eyomileyo, emhlabeni, iinwele, okanye ityuwa

Siya achaza ukuba ukususa njani umonakalo kubo nge amakhandlela zecawa. Kuba lo mkhosi kufuneka abasibaneki isibane kwaye ndimgxothele ecaleni umzimba ukusuka phezulu-phantsi kunye ezantsi-up, kuya kufuneka ufunde ngokuvakalayo umthandazo "Bawo wethu." Ukuba ikhandlela iqalisa crackle kwaye nomsi, kufuneka uyeke kule ndawo, waza wabuyela kuwe kasixhenxe icandelo umnqamlezo ikhandlela yomzimba, uphindaphinde ibinzana yokugqibela xikhongelo. Kuya kuba mnandi kakhulu ukuba umntu uyavuma ukuba ukunceda nokukhokela kwisiko enye evela umva sihlanjululwe urhwaphilizo.

babhaptizelwe nokubhaptizelwa ngokuqhelekileyo musani ukucinga malunga umbuzo ukuba off njani kwizifo. Ekubeni simse isenokuba ukuyalela inkonzo umthandazo ngenxa yempilo, eza ileswe nasebandleni kangangeentsuku ezingama-40. Sisindise imiphumela emibi kwaye umthandazo onyanisekileyo.

Noko ke, njengoko kunjalo kwimeko izifo ezininzi, kungcono ukuthintela umonakalo ulwalathiso kunokuba ukuphelisa neziphumo zayo. Ukulungiselela le njongo, namakhubalo ezahlukeneyo. Umzekelo, bakhuselwe onjalo kunokuba pin esiqhelekileyo, ukuba PIN iingubo zakhe kuloo ndawo entliziyweni. Ukuphina kuyimfuneko ukuba intloko phantsi.

Oku kuluncedo kwakhona xa kusingethwe umntu "kunzima" okanye lingakholisi umela okomntu Cocoon zokuzikhusela, ukusuka apho zonke ezimbi okubuyela izithembiso, zombini phezu kodonga eziphathekayo.