Thetha nabantwana abantu abangafuniyo: njani na abantwana?

Yaye inyaniso, kutheni umxholo ngokuzalwa kwabantwana kwiintsapho kuvame owalela? Mhlawumbi abadala ekhokelwa neentloni ngamanye amaxesha ubuxoki, kwabuya ezintsonkothileyo infantilism? Ngapha koko, ngokungathi abadala musa tyhala le ngongoma, kodwa kungekudala okanye kamva umbuzo njani ukwenza abantwana, ephaphazela iintloko zabantwana. Ngoko ke, ukuba balungiselele ngenxa ngobubele.

Kakade ke, unako kubhenela ukuzithethelela ozithandayo, ezifana "ukufumana zekhaphetshu", "oluxonxiweyo ukusuka yi-" okanye "ukuthenga evenkileni." Impendulo iqhelekileyo ibinzana abantwana beze ezinjengengwamza. Yaye xa inkoliso abantwana lokufuna ukwazi imibuzo elandelayo: zithatha ezinjengengwamza nalapho?

Namhlanje i-Internet ibango elikhulu le khathuni "Indlela ukwenza abantwana ngamafu." Kuyo multipliers ukuya phambili. Bacebise ukuba izilwanyana amathole nabantwana, abantu sculpt amafu - amafu, usebenzisa umbane - ekubhobhozeni zombane nowokuchwayita kubo, nengwamza uthabathe ugqithe iidilesi. Olu nentsomi hlobo - kwaye umntwana ufumana impendulo kumbuzo ezintsonkothileyo!

Kwaye ukuba bathethe itakane xa aya kubuza, kwenzeka ntoni midsection kummelwane wayo, Dabawo Zina, yaye kutheni ngoko nangoko emveni koko wabonakala umntwana esifubeni? Kwaye kutheni Balisusa "-ambulensi" ukuba abantwana nje ngokulula ukwenza amafu, uze uzise iingwamza? Siza ukuba ulale okwesibini ...

Kakade ke, kunzima ukufumana amagama ilungelo ukunxibelelana ngokucacileyo uchazele umntwana wakho ukuba ukwenza njani abantwana, kuzo zonke iinkcukacha zayo. Nangona uye wakhuthaza isibonelelo ezizodwa, apho abazali bafundiswa indlela elula nangempumelelo lithi umntwana lo "ezoyikekayo" mfihlakalo. Ukuba umntwana mncinane kakhulu, kulula ngokwaneleyo ukuthi kancinane olukhulayo isisu kway yakhe. Ngoko oogqirha zakhe esibhedlele ukufumana nokunika abazali bonwabile.

Kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha, oko qiniseka ukuba abantwana umbuzo elandelayo: indlela usana lufika isisu umama wakhe? Loko xa kufuneka uchaze ukuba ukuzalwa komntwana ngokuthatha inxaxheba abazali bobabini. Abaninzi baya kumangaliswa, kuba awukwazi ukucinga into amagama ukuba onokuzibalisela unyana okanye intombi yakhe ukuba abazali benze ebusuku!

Guide for abazali ubanika le ngcaciso. UMama noTata babekuthanda kakhulu enye kwenye, yaye ngaloo ndlela asoloko kiss kunye hug. Ngapha koko, wena, nelebhokhwe, ngokufuthi kakhulu icinezelwe ngokuchasene mama okanye papule, oomakhulu nootatomkhulu, ngokuba ube kakhulu njengabo, akunjalo? Kodwa ke, ukubanga kubantwana ayide ikwazi ukufumana.

Umntwana kuvela kuphela xa abadala nje uthando omnye komnye, kodwa isigqibo ukuba kufuneka usana oluncinane encinane. Baza baqala ukuba bamkela kancinci ezahlukeneyo, kanye njengokuba abantwana. Emva koko, lo mfazi esiswini kwaye kukho umntu encinane elincinane. Yena kancane apho, nisithi nodla ntoni umama udlayo, ephefumlayo naye. Kwaye ngoko ke iqala ukuba bafudukele ngaphakathi kwakhe, sinkqonkqoza imilenze neengalo! Ngenxa yokuba sele ubomi!

Abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka 6 impendulo yalo mbuzo, njani na abantwana ngokuqhelekileyo ngokwaneleyo. Kodwa ukuba umbuzo ubuza abadala ngakumbi, nto leyo, umzekelo, iye baninzi-10 iminyaka, ingcaciso kusenokuba eneenkcukacha ngakumbi. Yena sele achaze ukuba umakazi ngaphakathi kukho indawo ekhethekileyo ukuthwala umntwana, kwaye nje ukuba kweqanda - oko kufana zheltochek kwi amaqanda enkukhu.

Nomalume wakhe lo nomatse ngaphakathi. Xa iproteni okungaphakathi umakazi kwaye zidibana kunye sac iqanda, kwezichumiso kuthatha indawo, oko kukuthi, ukuvela umntu omtsha kancinane. Le ingcaciso efunekayo ikakhulu ngenxa makhwenkwe xa beqala ukuba babe nomdla umbuzo kutheni abantu ngokwesini ezahlukeneyo ayashiyana zangasese, kunye nendima zokubeleka zigcwele ngamadoda.

Le ingcaciso kubaluleke ngokukhethekileyo kodwa ngenxa yokuba inkwenkwe kuyimfuneko ukukhusela amalungu zabo zesini. Kwaye ke ingcaciso kwendima lobudoda ebomini bakhe elizayo uya kuba nako ukunika inkuthazo lokuthobela ngendlela enempilo kwindawo entsha kwaye ubudala nangaphezulu.