Indlela izilumle umntwana evela amanabukeni

Xa umntwana ujika iinyanga ezintandathu, abanye abazali sele wayeqalisa ukucinga ukuba ixesha usana bakuqhele embizeni kwaye uyeke amanabukeni emdaka. Okubuhlungu, ivela le ngxaki xa pipsqueak kakade ukuhlala up lenyama.

Indlela izilumle umntwana evela amanabukeni ukuba akukho mntu achame rhoqo panties kwaye zange akhulule leli thuba izalamane zabo? Ndiza kukuxelela malunga namava kwam, xa usana kwiinyanga zam ezintandathu behleli ukubhala, yaye kwiinyanga ezisibhozo sele becela embizeni. Ndifuna ukuba alumkise ukuba misfires babeye, kwezinye izihlandlo, ukuba waququzelela ugwayimbo kunye kwakhona wabhala ibhulukwe lakhe. Amanabukeni, sasiye kuphela ebusuku, ezitalatweni ngexesha ebuthongweni kwaye uza kutyelela. Ehlotyeni ndambatha kuphela ebusuku kunye ukoyika kancinane ukuba umntwana la ndize ndikhwele abandayo ingqele ebusika. Ekugqibeleni, emva kokuba bebuya ukuhamba kunye ukucupha ezomileyo, sikhululwe thina ukunxiba oko emini.

Ukuze uqonde ukuba uyilumle njani umntwana evela ukucupha, kufuneka kukulanda ukuba bangaphi na ngemini ukuba ndandiza kubhala. Emva awasele ingatyalwa embizeni emva kwemizuzu eli-10, yaye emva kokutya malunga sisiqingatha seyure. Kamsinya uqala ukufundisa usana lwakho ukuba ubhale embizeni, kungenza kube lula kakhulu ukuba kusetyenziswa ukuya kwindlu yangasese.

Kwiinyanga ezine, ndaqalisa ukugcina intombi kwisinki kunye uloyiso yokuqala xa umntwana Sekunjalo pissed, yaba iiveki ezimbini kuphela emva apho. Okulandelayo - elula. Xa isiphumo libonakala, azame ukuqhubeka lula kakhulu. Le amanabukeni inkathazo akusayi kubona oko ngexesha pees umntwana ikoko, yaye emva walungisa ulawulo lwakhe.

Indlela izilumle umntwana evela amanabukeni elula? Kuyimisela amanabukeni igozi. Kakade ke, wandisa inkathazo ethile, kodwa kwixesha elizayo baza kuhlawula ngokwayo nge impindezelo. Ndithetha malunga nokusetyenziswa amanabukeni enjalo de kweenyanga ezili-10, ngenxa yokuba ngoko akukho mfuneko umntwana - unako ukubamba indlela usana kunye nexesha imbiza Wayakha.

Enye ingxaki: encane asifuni ukuhlala phantsi ukubhala eyakho. Amaninzi ezinjalo yobubi ivela xa uye waba baqhele ukuba ilweyile, engaliqondi ukuba uyakwazi ukuya ngasese ngenye indlela. Kulo mzekelo, abazali ngakumbi kusenokwenzeka bezibuza ukuba njani izilumle umntwana evela amanabukeni. Indlela elula ukuba ayeke ukuba uwafake ubuncinane ngexesha lasemini, musa ukuzama ukunyanzela isihlalo usana imbiza kunye, ngokubanzi, kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukubaleka kule ngxaki. Emva kweeveki ezimbini neblukhwe ezimanzi kunye ukuhlamba rhoqo kunye neengcaciso ukuba umntwana panties manzi - kubi, kuba abantwana enkulu musa ukuyenza loo nto, zama kwakhona ukumbonisa embizeni. Musa ukufuna kwaye musa kakubi kakhulu ngokusilela - ungenza ingxaki mbi. Ngomnyaka iblukhwe ezimanzi sele eqala ukuhambisa inkxalabo kunye nabantwana sele ucinge amazwi abadala.

Kodwa izinto luyeza kunye umbuzo njani izilumle umntwana evela amanabukeni ebusuku. Wena akayi kuba nako ukulawula ubuthongo yakho bavuke ngexesha elinye ngokunqakraza ukuya endlwini yangasese. Apha kubalulekile ukuba silindele ukuba izityalo mihla usana kwi nepoti phambi kokuba ulale kwaye kusasa ubone indlela ezaliswe ilweyile umntwana. Uyacetyiswa ukuba khangela oko ngaphambi kokuba waphaphama. Ngoko, xa ilweyile kuba lula kakhulu, unga zama ukubeka usana phezu nepoti ebusuku xa uvuka. Okokuqala, uya, Kakade ke, kuba abangenazigqibo, kodwa emva kwexesha abanye ukusetyenziswa, kwaye unako ukufikelela nemiphumo emihle.

Ukongeza, umntwana uya andiziva ubuhlungu rhoqo kwaye uyeke ukubandezeleka ilweyile irhashalala, ungaphinda ukugcina imali yentsapho, ingakumbi ukuba ubukhe ngaphambili wasebenzisa amanabukeni eninzi Japanese "muni" okanye "Merris". ithamsanqa!