Wonke umama ngokusondeleyo kakhulu esweni uphuhliso usana lwakho. izinyo Okokuqala, uncumo abazi kunye ilizwi lokuqala - konke oku kukhokelela ukuba uyakholiswa abanalo abazali. Kakade ke, unina zonke nijonge phambili, rhoqo ujonge zamatakane lawo itafile. Kodwa, ukongeza izinto ezinqwenelekayo, nayo abazali ukhathazeke nangenxa yophuhliso lulonke lo mntwana, ngoko abanye kufuneka imibuzo malunga yobudala apho umntwana iqala ukuthetha, ukhase, uhlale, uhambe?
Isakhono lokuqala
Umntwana ozelwe sele kunye eziliqela ikhaliphe moya, ezifana, ngokomzekelo, ukukwazi ukuba adle ubisi, ukuba imginye, ukuze uqonde ngomnwe. Kodwa ke abanye umntwana kufuneka bafunde ngokwabo, ngokuthe ngcembe ekufundeni izakhono zabantu ezisisiseko. Omnye izakhono zokuqala umntwana uya inkosi esiba isisu uzakubuyela kwaye vice versa. Ukuba isivumelwano kwi phantsi engqongqo, iminyaka apho umntwana eqalisa ukuba kuqengqeleka, oku kwenzeka xa malunga 3-6 kweenyanga ubudala. Kodwa amanani ngokwenene avareji, mntwana ngamnye ngendlela yabo kwaye musa ukuphaphazela ukuba kwiimvuthuluka zakho iinyanga ezi-6 yaye akabuya phezu. Mhlawumbi nje nangakuthandiyo ukukwenza oko, kwaye, ukutsiba eli nyathelo, uya baqalise kwangoko phantsi. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba umntwana afunde ukubamba ngokuzithemba intloko kwindawo uvaleke, akazange phepha Tyhila iphepha.
ehamba
Inyathelo lokuqala le umntwana ukuba abazali. Kubonakala ukuba xa umntwana iqala, ngoko kunokuba uzimele ngakumbi, yaye ezinye iinkxalabo, ezifana nokuqhuba isiphatho nga iwe bodwa. Kodwa musa nethemba inyathelo yokuqala usana ngenxa ukuba sizithembile ukuhamba kunokuthatha ixesha elide. Ngoko ke, lo yobudala apho umntwana eqalisa ukuba uhambe? Kwi-avareji, amanyathelo okuqala elizimeleyo itakane zinokuphunyezwa malunga kunyaka wabo wokuqala bezelwe. Kodwa bezifo zinika uluhlu ngokubanzi sophuhliso zokuhamba lwezakhono - iinyanga-9 ukuya kwiminyaka enye enesiqingatha. Musa ukuxhala ukuba umntwana lowo Musa ukungxama ukuba aye ubuhlanti kanina - mhlawumbi nje ixesha. Akukho mfuneko yokuba nazo ukunyanzela itakane ngamandla gingqi wena, kuba oko kunokukhokelela ekubeni umntwana unqwenela maningabi ukuhamba kwaphela. Ukuba ukuya kwiinyanga ezilishumi elinesibhozo ubudala umntwana akumenzi amanyathelo okuqala ozimeleyo, kungcono ukuba bafune uncedo podiatrist, kwaye ukujonga ukuba zizifumene zonke nganto.
igama
Ukususela ekuzalweni, abazali bazama ukuva yokuthetha usana into stroke kunye namagama afanayo owuvayo uzame yobudala apho umntwana eqalisa ukuba bathethe. Ukususela malunga ezimbini kweenyanga, umntu omncinane sele ziyaqala bawo, into ngendlela yakhe ukuxelela, ngoko ukuqala ukuphuhlisa izixhobo uyakhala kid yakhe. Thile kamva, xa iinyanga 6-9 ubudala, encane unako ukuvelisa izandi ezifanayo ilizwi lokuqala. Ngokomthetho kuya kuba iisilabhili: .. Ma, pa, ba, kum, Yiba, njl Ukuba umntwana ukuxelela kabini kolulodwa "ma-ma", abazali ilila isigqibo ukuba usana lwabo yingqondi, kwaye ndandimncinci kakhulu baqala ukuthetha . Kodwa ayikho kakhulu ntiyiso. La magama okuqala kusenokwenzeka ukuba umntwana wajika ngempazamo, itakane nje akazange waqonda ukuba ebekuthethile, angabi ukunxulumana ukuba ilizwi umntu othile. Ngoko xa engakanani ngobudala umntwana uqala ukuthetha? Le ixesha ngqo ayiniki nabani. umntwana umntu ngonyaka ngamnye kakade sithi isivakalisi esilula, kodwa umntu ukuba bobabini - nje ezingundoqo, ngokwembono yakhe, la mazwi: UMama, uTata, nika, hayi, ewe. Konke kuxhomekeke kuphuhliso ngamnye wosana. Kodwa musa ukuphaphazela ngayo. Ukuba konke kuhambe kakuhle kunye nophuhliso ngokubanzi umntwana, akukho mfuneko yokuba amanqaku makalungiswe umntwana aze yena akhuphe ilizwi. Ixesha liya kufika yaye singathetha. Kwaye musa ngokufuthi hambe ukufuna ulwazi, iminyaka apho umntwana iqala ukuthetha, umntwana wakho inkululeko amanyathelo kunye nophuhliso, kwaye yena uya kuba yindoda yinxalenye!