Indlela ukwenza abantwana

On lo mbuzo: "? Wayifumana kuqala ngesondo ngubani kuqala wamchazela yonke inkqubo zokubeleka Apho" - uninzi lwabantu baya kuthi, "abahlobo isitalato baba ootitshala zokuqala lo mbandela ezintsonkothileyo."

Ngelishwa, oko kuyinyaniso. Kwiimeko apho abantwana kunye nabazali, kukho ukuthembela nolwalamano olusondeleyo, umbuzo njani ukwenza abantwana badla ubeka abadala a nasezirhangeni eyimfama. Abazali badla Awukwazi ukufumana impendulo ophucukileyo lo mbuzo, yaye mhlawumbi cwaka, okanye ezitsalela umntwana elinye ilungu losapho, okanye nje benze zonke iintlobo amabali.

A lot of iintsomi, apho kukho mhlawumbi impendulo yalo mbuzo nkqu nabantwana impenduka ngakumbi. Snow White snow blinding, Bun - weza intlama Boy nakusithupha ukusuka ngomnwe yahlukana. Kwaye ke kukho abazali uguqulelo etsomo ukuba abantwana baphantsi khaphetshu egadini, usenokuthenga evenkileni okanye beze ezinjengengwamza. Yaye ke kungekudala kwixesha elidlulileyo, kwakukho nkqu ikhathuni apho ababhali zibonisa njani amafu benze abantwana, yaye kuphela emva koko ukusasaza iintsana iingwamza - kwaye irhamncwa, abantwana, ukuya iidilesi.

Ngenxa ayilunganga iingcaciso zabantwana ixabiso intsapho amaqhina: Ukuba abantwana ukwenza lula kunjalo, loo nto ithetha ukuba abazali ukungabizi nto? Ngaxeshanye, kukho ingcamango: "Yini na ukuba uyabathanda yaye uyabahlonela? Khawucinge nje, oyifumene kwenye indawo! Yeah, bendiya ndiyifumene umhlobo osenyongweni, uMakazi! "Kwaye ukuba ogogo enyanisweni izinyanya yentsapho akunakwenzeka ukuba ubungqina kule meko. Mhlawumbi yiloo nto kukho intetho ethi malunga Ivan, ngubani na ukukhumbula ubuhlobo babo?

Ngoko ke, enoba okanye ukuba ukuzifihla abantwana indlela yokwenza iintsana? Ngapha koko, xa sisondela ngalo mba ngobuchule, kungaba ngempela lunokufikeleleka kwaye ngokomzekeliso ukubaqononondisa lo elukhuni. Akukho namnye eliphikisa ukuba lo mbandela kakhulu intekenteke, yaye ngoko ke umdla kubantu abaselula.

Kakade ke, ukuba umntwana mncinane kakhulu, kwanele ukuba bammise kuphela into yokukhulelwa. Vumela Mamina Lyubov ngokuba yena uya kutyhilwa enjalo kuyaqondakala ukuba anike: uMama noTata bayaphupha ngayo, ngokwenene, wayefuna ngokwenene ukuba azalwe, yaye umama wam evuma ukuya phantse ngonyaka ukunxiba oko isisu sam, ukunyamezela intlungu ekuzalweni kwakhe. Le nyaniso uphakamisa ukuzithemba baby livela izihlanganisi ngomsonto; akaba alizukuvela nakweli phi na enye intsapho! Yena - ukuqhubeka umama kunye notata.

Kodwa abanye abantwana nje kancinci le ngcamango. Kufuneka ukuba icaciswe, "Kodwa njengoko lokudumba isisu kamama wam? Yaye jikelele - ukwenza indlela iintsana "Iingcali zengqondo ukuze uphendule lo mbuzo baphoxeke ngabazali bakhe:" Ukuba umntwana ucela umbuzo, oko kuthetha ukuba acinga ngayo sele abunjwe ngokupheleleyo ukuze ufumane impendulo enyanisekileyo. Nje ukuba abeyilungisele yona kwangaphambili. "

Ingakumbi abazali, kukho iincwadi nkqu kunye imifanekiso kunye neengcaciso aguqulelwe kubantwana, nto leyo kulula kakhulu ukuqonda bathethe ukuba ukwenza njani iintsana, kutheni kuphela abadala ukuze azalwe iintsana kunye Mommy kunye daddy kuwa ebhedini enye ngokwenene. Ugxininiso oluphambili kwezi ncwadi ukwenza nje uthando abadala ababini, ngenxa yokuba yona ukuzalwa komntwana.

Le meko kuba kubi xa sele abadala ubunzima umbuzo ofanayo. bantu ziya kufumana impendulo ingqokelela ekhethekileyo, "njani abantwana ukujonga ukusuka phezulu" kwi impahla kwi igama elifanayo okanye Ukukhethwa imifanekiso kunye namagama. Kwaye kukho kwakhona ividiyo umdla kakhulu, enegama elifanayo.

Enoba oko, le nto ibalulekileyo ngokuzalwa kwabantwana Inomtsalane - ukumthanda abazali babo, umnqweno ababini ukunika inxalenye enkulu umphefumlo wakhe, ixesha, amandla kunye, ukunyaniseka, ezemali - nje ukuze kubonakale ukuba zikhanyise umntu omtsha omncinane owayehlala ukukhanya wonwabe.

Ngapha koko, ukuba benze nokuba nomntwana - akukho nto feat. Nzima kakhulu ekukhuliseni ukufuduka buthathaka, bayinyuse ufunde kuye, ukubeka ingqondo yakhe nezimaphambili ezingundoqo yokuziphatha kwabantu, ukuba bamenze indoda yokwenene.