Oyedwa - ngaba elungileyo okanye embi?

Oyedwa - uhlobo kumtshato apho umntu ngokusemthethweni neqabane elinye kuphela.

Le ngongoma ilawulwa imithetho yelizwe ngalinye. Kwamanye amazwe, imitshato yesithembu (isithembu / Umkhwa) avunyelwe: kwezinye iindawo eAfrika, eAsia, kuMbindi Mpuma kunye nomNtla Melika. Kuluntu lwethu kunokuba uhlobo 'nomfazi serial "- uphazamiseko olupheleleyo ubudlelwane elidlulileyo kunye nokudala ezintsha, oko kukuthi, uqhawulo-mtshato ...

Khetha uhlobo ulwalamano lomtshato - isithembu okanye umfazi oyedwa - kukuthi, ngokubanzi, impembelelo yonqulo kuluntu. Islam uvumelekile ukuba abe nabafazi eziliqela, kodwa kuphela ukuba indoda isebenza ngokulinganayo kubo bonke abafazi bakhe. Ukuba uthatha ubuKristu, uya kwandula ke ubone ukuba ubudlelwane oyedwa - oku ubudlelwane kuphela ezichanekileyo phakathi kwabantu yabantu ngesondo ezahlukeneyo, nolwalamano olusondeleyo nomnye umntu uthathwa isono eyoyikekayo. Zonke iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo Kufuneka bazinikele iqabane elinye kuphela.

Oyedwa - it kwakhona uhlobo neentlobano zesini apho ukusukelwa ufezwa nomntu omnye kuphela. Xa isithembu kakhulu ehlabathini isilwanyana. Le zizale ithuku enyanzela izilwanyana ukuba womelele, ezikumgangatho ophezulu inzala efunyenwe imidibaniso ezahlukeneyo ngayo iikhowudi yemfuza. Enye inkunzi fertilizes iimazi eziliqela. Kodwa kukho imizekelo nolwalamano oyedwa phakathi izilwanyana. Eyona idumileyo - nto weentaka amhlophe, kungekhona ngenxa nto ukuba uphawu lothando. Nkqu abanye abameli - beziingcuka eziqwengayo. Ngesiqhelo izilwanyana oyedwa benza ngathi ngabantu: kuhlala ngababini; ngenkathalo ngenxa nenzala, kwaye isibini kuqhekeze kuphela xa elinye iqabane life.

Ingongoma yokugqibela kunganzima ukuba kunganxulunyaniswa inkcazo lobudlelwane babantu. Inani mtshato ngonyaka ngamnye kwilizwe lethu kusoloko kune nani amabanjwa umtshato. Ngoko ke sithethe nomfazi kwabantu? kuluntu lwethu ukuze kuthiwe ngokusesikweni oyedwa: usapho oyedwa - ewe, ulwalamano oyedwa - hayi. Kodwa ke phezu kwalo, eli lizwe apho wakhuthaza ulwalamano oyedwa, inkqubela ngakumbi kwaye ikhuselekile, ngokungafaniyo kumazwe yesithembu apho abantu kufuneka bakhuphisane phakathi kwabo abafazi, apho zinqongopheleyo ngokuqatha kwezi meko.

Abanye abantu liba ngokwenene. Bona ezilungiswe wakhulela ngendlela yokuba bayabona iqabane elinye kuphela yobomi. Abantu abanjalo ukuthandana entsha, emva kokufa iqabane lakhe; ziqhubeka ukuba uthando ulinde, kwaye ziya kuphinda zihlangene xa kukho umntu othandekayo kwakhona. Le ukuzinikela liphezulu kakhulu kwaye sibone nethuku izilwanyana umfazi oyedwa. le phakathi kwabantu Kodwa kwenzeka oko kungeyonto ayenza rhoqo.

Oyedwa - akukho isivakalisi ukuba siziphathe eluntwini ibonisa. Nabani na - oyedwa okanye isithembu, okubaluleke - sinyaniseke wena kunye nabanye. Akukho mntu onegunya ukunyanzela ukuba athembeke kumntu omnye. Akuyomfuneko ukuba tayi ngeqhina lomtshato. Nakuba kunjalo, kufuneka sinyaniseke namaqabane abo, isilumkiso kwangethuba utyekelo zabo.