Omama

Kakade ke, ngokupheleleyo wonke umfazi ukhumbula bonke ubomi bakhe imini xa ndaqala ndabona waza wathabatha umntwana wakhe okuphela kwakhe. utshintsho Life, into ehamba phandle, kodwa into ihleli. Kumashumi eminyaka akutshanje, inzululwazi yaba inani elikhulu iinguqu ezibalulekileyo. Noko ke, abantu musani ukuyeka ukwenza izinto ezintathu - to uthando, ukuba uzale abantwana bebafundisa. Yiyo loo nto phantse sonke esi siganeko okuphawulekayo ukuzalwa komntwana wakhe.

Ukukhulelwa. Esi sifo. Ubuncinane, nantso into iingcali zithi kweli lizwe lethu. Nakowuphi na umzekelo, ngeli xesha umzimba wonke umama okhulelweyo kwenzeka umthwalo omkhulu. Kuye amathemba ethile, iimfuno ezintsha ezinxulumene ukukhulelwa nokuzalwa umntu omtsha. Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuba ukuzalwa - le yinkqubo kakhulu ezibuhlungu. Ngokomzekelo, ezinye iingcali athi intlungu ukuba umfazi abaphethwe ngexesha ephumayo kwasesizalweni umntwana, intlungu ngokulinganayo ukuba umntu amava ngenxa mabini waphuka ngaxeshanye. Uvume, hayi zintle kakhulu. Nokuzala, kwakunye lokukhulelwa, kuba usoloko uxinzelelo kakhulu nje kuphela abasetyhini kodwa usana lwakhe. Amashumi amabini anesihlanu ekhulwini amatyala kule nkqubo yokunika oogqirha Ukuzalwa ukwenza lo msebenzi, nto leyo kuthiwa uqhaqho.

Imibono ngenxa yokuba isixa esikhulu kangaka uphazamiseko. Umntu ukholelwa ukuba Uqhaqho kukhuselekile, elingenabuhlungu njalo njalo. Abanye bathi ukuba kuphosakele ukuba ukuphazamisa kwinkqubo yendalo. Enoba kwenzeka ntoni na, ngokufuthi ukusuka onjalo ukusebenza kunye nomphumela wayo elilungileyo luxhomekeke kubomi ezimbini okanye ngaphezulu. Uqhaqho yinto ethile etyandwa, ngenxa apho ukukhanya kuvela umntwana ngoogqirha bakhe nezokukhupha esibelekweni sikanina. Kule meko sithetha ngayo imeko apho umfazi nje nje aninako ukuzithwala wedwa. Kukho inala kwiimeko apho icandelo Uqhaqho ukuba umama okanye usana Kukhethwa yaye ikhuseleke ngaphezu yabasebenzi eqhelekileyo. Noko ke, oomama abaninzi abakhulelweyo bekuya kuba ngcono ukuba bangazama ukuba azale ngokwabo.

Kwabanye abantu kusenokubonakala ngathi ezinjalo unikezelo kulula kwaye fast. Xa uthelekisa lo utyando kunye neminye imisebenzi, lo omama ngokukhuselekileyo. Ukuzala rhoqo, Kakade ke, elingenabuhlungu, ngenxa yokuba isigulane ilawulwa ichiza kumzimba okanye Ukubulawa jikelele. Ukongeza, oogqirha nayo kuhlawula ngaphezulu kakhulu ngoqhaqho, kunokuba luncedo zokubeleka ngokwendalo. Mhlawumbi ngenxa yesi sizathu, kwaye yabasebenzi kwaye unomtsalane kakhulu kwabasetyhini ekuzaleni ngoqhaqho.

Bobubi lonikezelo okunjalo, ngaphezu kwabo bonke, ingozi yosulelo, kukho naziphi na iingxaki kunye zomzimba ekuthiwa-okanye ukopha evulekileyo. Konke oku kuya kukhokelela esibhedlele ngokungxamisekileyo kunye kwimo elide. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba umfazi ozele ayikho indlela yendalo ixesha elide ziya kuba nako ukuthatha ngokupheleleyo ukunyamekela umntwana wakho lo, kunokuba iingxaki ezinkulu. Iintlungu uya kunyanzeleka kukhatshwa ngumama wakhe kuba ixesha elide emva uqhaqho. Ukusebenza okanye imicimbi ekhaya umama oselula akayi kuba nako ukubuyela emva kokuba bekhululwe esibhedlele. Funa kwiindleko ezinkulu zemali ukulungiselela kwakhona epheleleyo umzimba emva kotyando. Ukuba umfazi ibikade icandelo kukuqulungana omama ukusuka ngoncedo enjalo utyando uya nobuhlala ixesha elide. Completely akunakwenzeka ukuba siyitshabalalise nkqu utyando zeplastiki ezininzi. Ukuba sex ngobulungisa ukuzalwa yokuqala ngendlela efanayo, ukuzalwa elandelayo umntwana iyafana. Ngokomzekelo, amabhinqa isenokuba icandelo lesithathu ngokuqhaqhwa. Nika ukuzalwa amaninzi amaxesha oogqirha lee emva kwezi imisebenzi, kuba kuyingozi abafazi abaninzi, nabantwana. Noko ke, unina mihla phantse akazange athathe ingqalelo umyalelo lwabo.