Njani na ukuba uthandana: iimpawu eziphambili "uthando ukudangala"

Ukuba zingqondweni uthando mfana, kodwa ziyafana teryashsya bengachani kanye yintoni imvakalelo uzive kuyo kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ukuba wenzeni, ulilahle imipha kunye namakhadi bhula. Zama ukuqonda wena ukuze uphendule lo mbuzo: "? Wazi njani ukuba ukuwa eluthandweni" Ukuba ngaba uzifumanisa kwi "iimpawu" zilandelayo, kufuneka ucinge ngayo.

1. Enoba uxakeke, iingcinga zakho kuphela ngaye, bekuya kuba kuhle ukuba belithe leza ngeli xesha macala. Xa intloko yam ulahlekelwa iintlobo zeemeko kunye iingxoxo, ukucinga malunga nendlela sisenokusabela amazwi nezenzo zakho. Wazi njani ukuba uthandana? Ngaba usoloko ufuna ukusondela kuye.

2. nifuna ukutyelela ngqo apho kusenokwenzeka ukuba kumkhawulela. Nkqu abahlobo ukuba nindibize ngumoya, ngokungathi ingozi, apho ndandidla livela. Kutheni kukho - ngenxa kokuba kwambanekela esekude, ukulungele ukuya ngaphezu kwesinye ukuhamba kilometre engaphezulu. Mhlawumbi nawe Ndayitshintsha indlela yayo yesiqhelo (ukusuka ekhaya ukuya esikolweni okanye kwikholeji) nje ukuba indlela yakho ezifane okanye awela umendo wakhe.

3. uluvo lwakho kulo kunokuba umntu elide. Mhlawumbi rhoqo (izihlandlo eziliqela ngosuku) kufika kwi-akhawunti yakhe womnatha koluntu cinga neefoto zakhe. Ukuba uthe waqubisana ethile, ngoko ukhangela kuye njalo. Mhlawumbi wena uyenza engaqondanga, kodwa kamva asikazi (okanye umntu "olungele ukusebenza") ukuba ngokwenene nako ukuthatha amehlo akhe kuye. Wazi njani ukuba uthandana? Uthanda ukuba bajonge kuyo, nokuba uhlala okanye isisitheliso esweni.

4. Qho xa uzama ukuqonda iimpawu ingqalelo, inika kuwe, nokuba ingozi okanye uyilo. Wena uyigcine ikhangeleka, amabinzana kunye koko, waphupha ngakho, wamana ezetyisa ukuba linokuthetha ngokuphathelele kuwe, nokuba yinto kubonisa uvelwano? Nokuba ibinzana nikhetha: "? Hi, ukuba wena" Kubonakala kuwe elihle, kuba kusenokwenzeka ukuba kuthetha ukuba xa ebona ebomini bakho, ishishini lakho, yaye ke, wena ngokwakho.

5. Xa uthetha naye, wena nje abazi. Wena nangoko lahlekelwa bubuciko zabo kwaye iqalisa ukuba bafake yabo yesiqhelo intetho nokubhala ngokugcina ilizwi-gazi ( "Kulungile", "type", "EEEE", njalo njalo). Ngelo xesha, kunye namazwi akhe kunzima ukuyiqonda kuni, ukuba uthetha ngalulwimi lumbi amazwe. Wazi njani ukuba uthandana? iingcinga zakho kunye namaphupha ngayo wanithintela ukuba unikele ingqalelo yakho incoko.

6. ixesha Onke free and non-free ukuba zicinge indlela obuya kuba kuhle kunye. Apha kukwenza isibhengezo elide-ilindelwe wothando, kodwa kiss phezu komkrozo lokugqibela kwiholo yeqonga. Emaphupheni zakho wena Ukulingana ukuze omnye nomnye, ukuba ahlale nentembelo ngokupheleleyo ukuba ekugqibeleni kufuneka ukuyithanda nawe.

7. izintombi bakho bayazi kakuhle loo nto nabo bonke ubuhle bayo ngenxa yenu, ngenxa yokuba zisoloko ukulima incoko ngayo okanye tikarhatela ukuxoxa nantoni na enxulumene nayo. Onokuthetha ngayo kangangeeyure, kodwa ... kutheni ke ukuba akukho namnye kodwa musa kwabanga umdla kakhulu? Wazi njani ukuba uthandana? Abanye kubonakala guy eqhelekileyo, kodwa nguye ezizodwa kakhulu ukululungela kuwe.

8. nifuna ukwazi okungakumbi ngoko unomdla. Uqala ukumamela umculo efanayo njengoko wayefunda iincwadi efanayo, ubukele bhanyabhanya uhlobo olufanayo. Mhlawumbi nawe nobuganga ukuthenga Rubber okanye mqengqeleki azifake okanye ubhale kuyo kwicandelo ezemidlalo, leyo uyaya. Ukuba into sinxulumana nayo, ngoko ke akusekho unomdla kuwe. Ukuba abahlobo eziqhelekileyo baya movie, yaye akayi, ngoko usala film show. Kwaye xa uceba ukushiya umzi (sele ukwazi kakuhle zonke izicwangciso zakhe), nina anazi apho ukuya, kuba nethemba sele kumbovu ukuba amanwele ukuba ukumbona kangangexesha elithile.

Wazi njani ukuba uthandana? Yinto elula kakhulu. Nkqu into yokuba uzama ukuqonda oko ngokuchwetheza ibinzana kwi injini yokukhangela kunye nokufunda ngoku lo mbhalo, sele ebonakalisa ngokucacileyo into yokuba xa ebona lo mfo.