Ndiyakunika iimbuko? Sifunda!

Ukukhetha izikhumbuzo zabahlobo ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa, ngo-Eva onguNyaka omtsha, emtshatweni okanye kwenye iholide, ucinga ngokukhawuleza ngawo, kwaye unako ukunika imimese? Emva kwakho konke, oku kuyimvelaphi emangalisayo kumntu, kunye nomfazi. Kukho uhlobo lokubandlulula kubo. Bathi ukuba unika umntu ummese, uya kuxabana naye. Ngokwemvelo, akukho bonke abakholelwa kuyo, kwaye benza okulungileyo. Emva kwakho konke, inkolelo-mfundiso ayikho nje into elula, kwaye abantu ngamanye amaxesha bayabanjwa.

Ngokungazi, kwinqanaba elincinci, ukuphatha iinyani ngendlela efana ngayo nomfanekiso abayidalwe ngqondweni wabo, bekholelwa kwenye yabo. Ngoko ilapha. Kodwa ukuba usufuna ukuzikhusela, xa kunjalo, thabatha imali engabalulekanga kumntu onika lona ummese.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukunika imimese yomtshato? Izixhobo zokusika zikhonza abanini babo iminyaka emininzi. Kubonakala ngathi iminyaka engamashumi amathathu edlulileyo kwakuyinto enjalo: ukunika iipuni, iifoloki kunye nemikhono kubasanda kutshata. Konke ku-zagashnevnik, bayizibhokisi zesipho esihle. Zithathwa ngeeholide kwaye zihlambuluke kwakhona. Kwaye akukho mntu uqalekisiwe.

Kodwa unokugqiba njani? Ngaba ndinokunika iikhiveshi zasekhitshini? Njengomthetho, iindwendwe zikhetha zona. Nangona kunjalo, kunqabile ukuba umntu uthenge amaqabunga axabisekileyo, ngokuqhelekileyo bayaziva uxolo ngemali. Kwaye akudingeki ugcine kuzo. Ngoko ke, isethi yemimese yensimbi enhle, enokuba nayo yonke into oyifunayo, ngokukhetha ngokubhekiselele kwinqanaba okanye ngokukhawuleza-isipho esihle kakhulu, kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu ekhaya. Musa nje ukubanika umfokazi, ingakumbi umfazi, unokuthatha njengento yokuthi akapheki, okanye akwenzi kakuhle. Apha kuyimfuneko ukuba usebenzise ingqiqo.

Kodwa oko akunakwenzeka ukuba uthi: "Awukwazi ukunika amangqungquthela" - ngoko ke malunga nezixhobo ezibandayo. Kwiindawo, iingqungquthela, iinkemba, iinkemba, iingqungquthela, lo mqondiso awusebenzi nhlobo. Wonke umntu, nokuba ngubani ongakhubekisi iimpukane, ufuna ukuba ngumnini wale nto. Emva koko, kubonakala kugxininisa ubukhulu bakhe. Njengomthetho, bathengiswa kwisitolo sesipho okanye ivenkile zamadoda. Kwi-hilt, i-blade okanye i-handle, ungenza ukuzinikezela, kuya kubonakala kukuhle.

Umbuzo wakho: "Ngaba ndiyakunikela iimpawu zokutyelela?" - impendulo yile: "Unako." Ngokomzekelo, ukuba wena kunye nomhlobo wakho ninyathele ngaphezu kweyodwa ibini lezitebe emikhondweni yeentaba okanye kwimikhwa yehlathi, akufanele ucinge ngako apha: simnika umnikelo onjalo wokuzalwa kwakhe. Okukhethiweyo kufuneka kwenziwe ngokufanelekileyo, kunokuba iindleko eziphezulu. Ummese ufanele ukulala esesandleni sakho, bukhali, ikhonkco inamathela kuyo nayiphi na into, kuba isela, njengalowo nantoni na encinci, inomhlaba wokulahleka ngexesha elibi kakhulu. Unokuqiniseka ukuba isipho esinjalo siya kukukholisa nayiphi na ityelelo. Ngaloo mkhwa kuphela kufuneka ukhethe kunye nenkwenkwe yokuzalwa, okanye ushiye isheke kwivenkile, ngoko ukuba, unokutshintshisa.

Ngelinye igama, umbuzo othi "Kutheni unganiki amaqhina?" Uya kuthathwa njengengalunganga, kuba le nto ingcinga. Ukholi loloyisa uyakholelwa kule nkolelo? Emva koko makamnike i-ruble ngomxhaka wakhe. Eyona nqabileyo!