Mnandi kangakanani ukuthumela Man: A Practical Guide

Maxa wambi, abafazi abaninzi ujamelene nengxaki: ukuthumela njani guy elihle? Kwaye igama isitshixo apha 'elihle "kuba ukuthumela ekrwada kunye Man abangekaphuhli - lula. Kodwa kutheni na oko? Yonke ingasombululwa ngendlela oluphucukileyo, kwaye komsipha yonxulumano kubandakanywa. Noko ke, maxa wambi kuyimfuneko ukuthumela Man yenkcubeko, ubudlelwane nabo wayengekho, kodwa yena kubo kangako. Eli nqaku - isikhokelo asebenzayo endlela ukuthumela kakuhle lo mfo.

Ngoko ke, xa ulwalamano hlobo, ukuba a guy wayengekho, kodwa gqolo wabonisa uvelwano kunye namacebo ukuba kuza kuba mnandi ukuya nolwalamano olusenyongweni ngakumbi, libe lichanekile ukucacisa ukuba ulwalamano ayikwazi ukuba enye yezi ndlela zilandelayo.

Xa umntu kungqina ngalo binzana ilandelayo: "Wena a kakhulu indoda elungileyo, Uqinisekile bazakuyivuyela enye intombazana. Nje ukuba - hayi umntu wam ".. Le ndlela efanelekileyo xa umntu ngokubanzi, ziphathe ngokunengqiqo, kodwa bengaqondi ukuba imizamo yakhe nkathazo.

Ukuba umfana akaqondi ngamabinzana ezichanekileyo kwaye ukuba siziphathe ngendlela ngokwaneleyo, ngoko ungenza isicelo wayengekafiki iindlela 'umdla ". Ngokomzekelo, abanjalo.

• Musa ukuphendula ifowuni yakhe, uze ubuye ngelixa lesithathu lobusuku, phezu ukuqeshwa musa ukuza, okanye eze kakhulu emva kwexesha iiyure ezimbini, kwaye nkqu nehlazo kumxholo oko wakhetha kumkhawulela indawo embi enjalo apho akakwazanga ukufumana.
• Unga kwakhona kufuna nezipho nene ngokucacileyo ungenayo imali, umzekelo, sweet yahtochku encinane!
• Ungakwazi umeme nene okukruqulayo iindwendwe zakhe, kwaye uninzi ndiyemka, eshiya ngasemva iqela angamantombazana, ngubani na oya kuzama acacisele lowo uselula isimo sakho kuwo.
• Ziphatheni ku admirer yaba shame kuni: umzekelo, ehleli itafile cafe, phezulu kuvuthela impumlo yakhe ekhohlela. Kodwa ke kuphela ukuba ngaba ukoyika ngenxa igama lakhe.
• Kuzo zonke indlela ukubonisa ubukho iimfumba abalandeli ukuba aniwa lumilisele ngayo ulwalamano: naye ukubabiza ngokuthi, uthumele iSMS, unako nokuba iingcebiso Cavalier ezingemnandi: "Ngaba ucinga ukuba sifanele sibe ivazi ukuba kakhulu ndifuna, okanye into ofuna kakhulu - kunene - ngokwenene? Kwaye yintoni Peta ukubhala? ".
• Ngomhla, uyakwazi ukuza kunye nomakhulu.
• Unako uxoxe kunye ngokwakho Knight, njengoko intle ukuthumela mfo, ze aqale ukusebenzisa iziqhamo "Ibhunga" xa kusenziwa ngendlela efanayo.

Apha ukuthumela indlela guy elihle! Liyinyaniso elokuba, igama elithi "elihle" kumele ukucatshuliweyo! Kungenzeka, ezinye zezi ndlela iya kusebenza, kwaye nene kukushiya wedwa.

Nzima xa ulwalamano sele apho, kodwa ngumthwalo kuni, yaye kufuneka yaphulwe. Apha, Kakade ke, simele senze ngokwezozakuzo sokurhuqa ngakumbi kwimeko yokuqala. Kubalulekile ukuba isigqibo ngokwakho - nokuba ufuna ukushiya kanye nokuba bonke ukuba baqhubeke ukugcina akukho ulwalamano okanye ufuna ukuzama ukugcina ubudlelwane obuhle lobuhlobo. Ukuba kukho umnqweno anxibelelane ngakumbi, ukwahlulwa kufuneka uzame kangangoko kunokwenzeka nokunciphisa okanye uthumele Man nenkcubeko. Kukho ezinye bokuqonda ekufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo phambi kokuthumela guy ezintle.

1) Pre-kuyimfuneko ukungayiqheliseli amagama, ukubaphulaphula ngokungathi evela ngaphandle.

2) Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukhethe indawo elungele incoko isigqibo. Le nto yenziwa intsimi "cala". Umzekelo, kwi cafe (kodwa hayi oko ezinxulumene zihlandlo zothando), okanye epakini. Ukuqhuba incoko ekhaya okanye ekhaya wakhe, kwakunye ngayo emsebenzini.

3) Wathi abe nobulungisa kakhulu. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ukuba usixelele ukuba awanelisekanga nayo, kodwa bathi ukuba ugqibelele, yaye loo nto nguwe kuba zililize ekungekho nzuzo ngayo. Unakho, umzekelo, bathi ulwalamano lwakho ayisekho "umlilo," omdala okanye ukuba awukwazi ukunika umntu oselula iimvakalelo kunye zengqondo, leyo ufanelwe, kunye ubunzima.

Ukuba mfana nangoku namnikelo ucinga kwaye musa kubuqhawula ubudlelwane, kwaye ucinge likhankanya ukuba akafuni, ngathi akukho nto aqinisekisayo naye, ngoko sinokuthi ibinzana, nto leyo kanye azikhuthazi umnqweno Cavalier ukuqhubeka ubudlelwane ", ndaqonda ukuba ukho ke, ngathi ex-isoka. " Kakade ke, mnandi, kodwa olusebenzayo.