Le elivisayo akafuni ukufunda. Yintoni ukwenza ntoni? Tips for abazali

Lidla ngokufuthi iintsapho kugqobhoka ukubethabethana kweemfuno abazali nabantwana, ingakumbi xa yokugqibela niwele umqobo yobudala engama-12. Njengoko umthetho, ukufunda isihloko uba sisikhubekiso ukuqonda phakathi elivisayo noyise nonina. Yaye bayaqala ingaze ukuba impendulo yalo mbuzo: "Umntwana wethu nonyana (okanye intombi) akafuni ukufunda. Kufuneka wenze ntoni ukuze ibe njani? "

abasabela ngayo ukuziphatha abantwana ke ukuba zikwimeko yokungabi zabo kwaye ubuze elililo kwimibandela zemfundo. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana akafuni ukuba ufunde ntoni kulo mzekelo, Bendingazi, yaye ngoko, umntwana zange ukuhlangabezana nokulindelweyo. Oku kungqina ukuba iimpazamo ezinkulu zenziwa kwimfundo.

Ezilindelekileyo abazali baqonde, ngokuba banikela umzamo omkhulu kangaka namandla ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wabo iyabanjwa ebomini. Bafuna kuye imbuyekezo bade esisiseko egumbini lakhe wayesoloko icocekile kwaye bekhululekile, ukuze kuncediswa izindlu, ngoko ke ekugqibeleni nemihlali bakumabakala kakuhle esikolweni. Noko ke, kukho isiphumo umva, yaye ngoko nangoko abazali ukuphakuzela, engakwazi ukufumana impendulo mbuzo: "? A elivisayo akafuni ukuba bafunde - oko ukwenza"

Kakade ke, into yokuqala efika engqondweni kukusebenzisa umgaqo ezaziwayo-kakuhle ezingenamandla ze "awufuni - ukwenza". Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba silumke ungayibaxi le ndlela. Ukusebenzisa isixhobo ikhankanywe ngasentla zokufundisa, ufuna ukusebenzisa iminqathe kunye neentonga. Ukuze uphumelele - ukukhuthaza, kunye neziphene - lokohlwaya. Emva kwexesha elithile, ukuba abadala ngakumbi, umntwana yedwa oya isigqibo umsebenzi ukukhetha kuyo, yaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba uya kuba nombulelo ngenxa yokuba abalibali sivumelane nazo zakhe caprices.

Ukuqwalasela lo mbuzo: "A elivisayo akafuni ukuba bafunde - oko ukwenza" - kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqinisekisa nobangela ukuba kutheni akafuni ukuba ahlale khona desika esikolweni. Mhlawumbi nje yena akayi kubona nayiphi ingqiqo, ngokuba abezindaba ukubaxa umbuzo indlela ekunzima ngayo ngoku ukufumana umsebenzi okukhethekile wabo, nendlela ephantsi nemivuzo iyafana abanini of izidanga eyunivesithi. Kaloku, inyaniso lo mbono apho. Noko ke, oku akuthethi ukuba ukufumana imfundo ephakamileyo ayikho imfuneko.

Cacisela ingane ukuba kwikholeji okanye iyunivesiti kumnceda andise zexa yakhe baze bafunde into entsha ngokwakho - oko kusoloko kuyingenelo.

Ukuba umntwana akafuni ukufunda, kunokwenzeka ukuba akanamdla. Ngokufuthi umntu bagcine umfanekiso xa mihla umntwana unesithukuthezi ehleli edesikeni, ndiphulaphule kwisifundo esithile esikolweni samabanga aphakamileyo. Uyazi umbandela, ngoko akanamdla, utitshala angasebenzisa indlela ngamnye ngamnye, ukunikela ingqalelo kubo bonke abafundi.

Kwimeko enjalo ke linokudlulisela ukudala umntwana isiseko onesiphiwo elilelona kuphuhliso wayo ozakube usaqhutywa, ukuba umthume kwiziko lemfundo ezizodwa, ukukhuphela inxaxheba yakhe quizzes ezahlukeneyo nokhuphiswano.

Umbuzo kutheni abantu abatsha abafuni ukufunda, anokuba isisombululo olukhulu. Iingcali azilukhuthazi uxinzelelo kakhulu phezu komntwana, ekhutshwe yi-el lokufuna ukuba bafune ulwazi ukutshintshela ukusuka kwesinye isikolo ukuya kwesinye. Kuqala ungumntu, kungekhona yimbonakaliso amabhongo zakho.

Ekugqibeleni, osesikolweni indima echazwe kakuhle ebomini bomntu. Xa ukhetha umsebenzi wabo elizayo umntwana kufuneka bakhokelwe oko kakhulu uthanda ukwenza.