Isibindi - na ukungabikho uloyiko, okanye ukukwazi ukuzilawula?

Ngamanye amaxesha soyika kulinganiswa wabugwala, kodwa ayikho. Yena livela ngokuzimeleyo ngokuthanda komntu kwaye iba sisithintelo ekufuneka koyiswa (ukuthatha ulawulo), ukwenza iintshukumo ngqindilili. Ukukwazi ukulawula ukothuka yakhe kubalulekile ukuba wonke umntu hayi mlilo nje, oogqirha kunye abo msebenzi inxulumene ngqo ngokubonakala inkalipho kunye nokuzeyisa.

Isibindi angesabi

Okuvunyelwana jikelele nokuqonda nesibindi ezinxulumene iimpawu ezifana nesibindi, isibindi, ubuqhawe, anobukroti kunye nesibindi. Zengqondo ukuchaza isibindi njengoko akwaziyo ukwenza ngokukhawuleza xa iimeko eziyingozi (ukuba zombini ubomi kunye nempilo) ukuze kuphunyezwe le njongo.

Inkalipho - uphawu onesimo esihle, nto leyo eyenza abantu bafanelwe yintlonelo. Utshaba isibindi ukoyika ukungaphumeleli, ubulolo, ukuhlazeka, impumelelo, nokuthetha esidlangalaleni. Kwaye ukuze ugcine urhulumente wabo ngokwasengqondweni zilingana kunye neemeko kakhulu, kufuneka ube nako ukumelana uloyiko.

wengqondo eSoviet KK Platonov, ezichongiweyo iintlobo 3 nikhaliphe: nesibindi, nesibindi. iqhawe ukuze kuphunyezwe iziphumo kuyo nayiphi na imeko, uyalwa ecinga zonke iingozi yayo. Ngaphandle eyenzekayo amadoda anamandla; banawo ingozi nokuxinezeleka ngokweemvakalelo. Ke yona indoda elikroti, ngoko, ngokutsho kwenkcazo wengqondo Soviet, ukuba umntu onjalo nemvo emsebenzini ngaphezu uloyiko.

Angesabi kunye nesibindi - ke antipodes ukoyika ukuba i undinyusele impumelelo kunye uloyiso. Kube nokuqodwa nenkalipho njengoko uyakwazi ukulawula ukuziphatha xa imvakalelo yoloyiko.

Ukuqeqesha isibindi

Umzimba womntu ibonisa iimvakalelo zakhe engaphakathi. Lo mfanekiso umntu oneentloni edidekile: iqinelwa ngezwi elingaqondakaliyo, ukungabikho izimbo zomzimba xa ethetha, ndithobe kwaye jonga esehlisa. Ngoko ke, kuqeqeshwe ngokwakho ukuba boyise ukoyika xa kuyimfuneko kungekuphela nje ukufezekisa iinjongo, kodwa ukuze kwakhiwe umzimba ezintle.

Uqeqesho luqala nge ukoyisa uloyiko ezincinane. Kukho ukoyika yokuthetha esidlangalaleni? Emva koko ukuqala nge ubugagu phambi abahlobo. Xa oku lula ifunyenwe, babutha iqela ngaphezu, umzekelo, abantu-20, yaye uthethe phambi kwabo logama ude siqhelane ukuba ungoyiki.

Ukuba kukho yokothuka kunxibelelwano Abandaziyo kunye namantombazana, qala ukuqala incoko nooninakhulu okanye uzame ukuncuma esitratweni uthanda umntu.

Uqeqesho lokuqala abafundi abaselula babe umzekeliso inkalipho eya kunceda umntu oselula ukuba ukumelana yombhodamo yokuqala. Nantsi eminye imizekelo: "Ngubani na ukuya phambili, nokuthi ungankwantyi akuthathi"; "Ngubani nesibindi, yaye injongo"; "Esi sixeko Kufuneka isibindi," kunye nabanye.

angesabi ifomula

Isibindi - ke akwaziyo ukwenza nangona yokoyika, ukuze soyise apho kuyimfuneko ukuba iimpawu ezithile:

1. Nokuzeyisa - ukukwazi ukucinezela iimvakalelo eziphazamisayo kwaye asebenze ngokufanelekileyo.
2. Ingqondo nokubalwa. Ezi mpawu zinceda ukufumana imeko kangangoko kusombululo yayo kwaye uqaphele zonke iinkcukacha iimeko.
3. Vivo - ukufumaneka kwezibonelelo zangaphakathi kunye yamanzi kweziveliso ze-eneji ukuba kuliwe, inkalipho, inkalipho.
4. Confidence - Ukukwazi nokungoyiki kwaye ndaqonda ukuba yonke into kweli hlabathi isonjululwe, yonke imiqobo inokoyiswa kwaye nto yakoyika.

Inkalipho ngaphandle koloyiko - ukungaphili

Ukoyika kuvavanyo iimeko engakhuselekanga eziqhelekileyo kubo bonke abantu abanengqondo. Kuyinto yokusabela ukuzithethelela ukuba kwenzeka kwimeko eziyingozi odala ukudubuleka ngokweemvakalelo, ethumela amaza ubuchopho imfuneko ukunqanda ingozi. Uloyiko luya ungenwe intando, usenza sibe ababuthathaka abakwazi ukumelana.

Akukho bantu enesibindi. Khumbula ubuncinane comedy film "moya UV" xa umlinganiswa, engavumi ukuya kungena ebuhlanti ukuya ezizingelayo - ingwe, wathi: "Andinguye. Xi lavaka, kodwa Ndiyoyika"

A iqhawe - nakuba hayi advance ngokungesabi venturesome esazi ingozi ngokupheleleyo le meko. Kodwa ikhono woyisa uloyiko kunye noloyiko kwaye igqalwa nobuganga obukwanjalo.

Ngenxa yoko, nesibindi - oku ke ukungabikho yokoyika, kodwa ukukwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo, ukuba nokuzilawula bona buqu, izenzo zabo, imvakalelo alarm amanyathelo.