Abantu-daffodils: ukwahlula njani phakathi, ngezizathu ntoni? Narcissism - isifo okanye ngenxa yemfundo?

Kwiintsomi zamaGrike, kukho intsomi encinane narcissistic unyana lomlambo uthixo Narcissus, owayezama okusemandleni akhe ukuba ukwala imvakalelo emangalisayo, ezifana nothando. Oku waqaphela isithixokazi uthando waza wagqiba ukuba simelane naye. Ngenye imini Narcissus wabona ukubonakaliswa yakhe komlambo ngokwenene wamthanda, ngenxa yoko, akazange nakancinane akaba ukushiya ukubonakaliswa yakhe, waza ke wafa yokufa kabuhlungu ngenxa yendlala.

Kakade ke, eli bali kuphela intsomi, kodwa, ngelishwa, yaye kuya kusanda ngokwanda aba bantu abangengabo abazimisele ukwamkela abanye kuba yintoni na kwihlabathi lanamhlanje. Kubo, akukho kuphela ngokuzinikela kwabo, "Mna", nto leyo mntu nje akwazi kuyaphula. Ingxaki efanayo kuba indoda mihla nanjengokwesimo, ngoxa umguli zengqondo kunye indawo yokugcina kumagqirha umlinganiswa ngokukhuselekileyo kunganxulunyaniswa lokufunyaniswa "utyekelo narcissistic." Makhe sithethe ngoko ke ezibangela Narcissism, kwakunye ukuphendula eminye yale mibuzo ibalulekileyo malunga noku kutenxa kokumiselweyo.

1. Ingaba Narcissism sisifo?
2. Nokuba umntu a narcissist ngenxa yemfundo?
3. Ezinye izigulane unesifo unyango "Narcissism" acetyiswa bengqondo abafanelekayo?

Umntu nokwenzekayo narcissistic

Okokuqala, simele sinikele wena ukuba ichaze ingcamango "Narcissism." Abantu, daffodils, njengoko umthetho, kukho incorrigible lokuzingca, narcissistic kunye fixated kuphela ngokwabo kunye neengxaki zabo. Abanye badla ke lula kwaye zifuna ukuba isigxina obubonakala ubomi ngokumthanda kwabo. ithoni Mandative nentloko ngokoyikiswa ngabo lo phawu ephambili, nangona kaninzi ke eneneni awonwabanga ngokwenene. Self-ukuzithemba yindlela hypertrophied nokuzixabisa. Ngapha koko, enyanisweni, kuye ngamnye wethu ohleli rose, ngoko umntu kuphela bale ukuba njani off yaye, njengoko umntu kusekho kulingana kuThixo. Ukongezelela, abantu-daffodils akanako ukuma nokugxekwa, ngoxa bona ngokwabo bakulungele ukuvakalisa ukungoneliseki kwabo kwewotshi.

Narcissism njenge sifo

Abantu utyekelo narcissistic zinjalo abathwali zokugula engqondweni ukuba uyasijika ubuntu babo. Ezi abantu rhoqo abalwela efanelekileyo ulungisa impazamo yomzimba wakhe ngokusebenzisa iindlela ngeendlela. Ngoko ke, ngenxa yoko, abe 'abanini' ukudla, ukudandatheka kunye nokuba likhoboka lazo. Abantu-daffodils kuba phawu omnye unique - ngaphambili gyrus yabo ingqondo iyasebenza kakhulu, ngoko abanakukwazi ukujonga ukuziphatha zabo phezu inxalenye, nangengqwalasela nokuhlola abanye. abantu abanjalo ukwazi ukuhlola ingcinga ephilileyo ukuziphatha yabo, kwaye ke ngoko bakholelwa ukuba ukuziphatha kuluhlu yesiqhelo.

Iimpawu Narcissism

Ukuze uncede umntu abakhubazeke ngengqondo, kuyimfuneko kuqala ukuqwalasela iimpawu Narcissism. Ngazo siza kuthetha ngakumbi.

Person uziva bengento yanto

Abantu abaninzi bachaza urhulumente daffodil-njengoko enkulu emngxunyeni omnyama ngaphakathi oko kufuna rhoqo ukugcwaliswa. Ngenxa yoku, kungenzeka ukuba kungekudala emva koko, baye babhenele kotywala kunye neziyobisi. Into kuphela ukuba ngenene ukunceda - ukuba imvakalelo lokoyisa lokwenene. Ukuze ukuva incasa uloyiso, umntu abakhubazekileyo ilungele zonke, nkqu izenzo zikhohlakeleyo.

Uqikelelo enye kunye nokuthelekisa nabo

daffodil Man (in nature) kusetyenziswa ukuvavanya abanye abantu uze uzithelekise kunye inyanzelekile, akunamsebenzi, oku kuya kugqibeka zinxulumene njani inkangeleko okanye isimilo. Ukuba umntu othile uziva ukusuka ukuqatshelwa nothando abanye kwidilesi yakhe, uye asondele kuwela uxinezeleko, nto leyo inokukhokelela kwiziyobisi uthando kunye notywala.

ngamacala amabini ingqekembe

Umntu onesimilo narcissistic Ajongeka kumazwe amaninzi ngexesha elinye. Kwelinye icala, oko aya entle, entle unique, yaye enye - ukuba sine- ingamonwabisiyo. Njengoko umthetho, urhulumente lokuqala uyawongamela ngexesha banconywa jikelele nokubonakalaliswa olukhulu uthando, kwaye eyesibini - ngexesha ukulahlwa nokudelelwa. Enyanisweni, ngamnye wethu umele ukhumbule kwi ubukho amazwi ezinjalo, kodwa kukho umahluko omkhulu phakathi daffodil kunye umntu eqhelekileyo. Okokuqala kukuba lokuqala azithanga zahlule elula phakathi "ezilungileyo" "nezingalunganga", konke okanye "eyoyikekayo" okanye "mkhulu de andabikho zingqondweni."

Emva kokuhlolisisa iimpawu, oko kunokwenziwa isigqibo sokuba Narcissism - sisifo ezisongela ngokwenene phambili uphuhliso lwabasebenzi, nto leyo eyenza kube nzima ukuhlala ngoxolo kwaye uzive umntu ngokwenene.

Narcissism nemfundo

Sonke siyazi ukuba ubuntu yomntwana esakhiwe emfundo abazali. iisayikholojisti abafanelekayo kakhulu ukusuka kwixesha wokuqala eqingqwe omdala njengoko kubhaliwe kuvuswa nendlela wahlawula ingqalelo njengomntwana. Narcissism nothando lwabazali ezinxulumene ngqo.

Okokuqala, isimo sengqondo uyise nonina kusana inokuba negalelo eqhuba, ukumqumbisa sifo, yaye okwesibini, ngamanye amaxesha ngenxa elinye ibinzana engalunganga oluvakaliswe umntwana iqala ngendlela eyahlukileyo ukubona kwaye namava ihlabathi. Man-Narcisse badla ukuvavanya ukuzithelekisa kubantu ngeenxa zonke kuye, yaye oku ezinxulumene ngqo emfundo abazali. Kodwa kanye bazama kukhumbuza itakane elo afunda esikolweni kungcono ukufunda, kwaye abafana ukusuka ekugqibeleni ejimini ngokukhawuleza. Bathi bathanda intle, sasicinga ukuba ngenxa iingxelo wembewu yabo iya bangaxhomekeki kakhulu nempumelelo kwaye iphumelele isiphumo esahlukileyo. Ungabuza: "Bekutheni?" Impendulo elula. Ngapha koko, le ngxaki iza kuxhomekeka kukuba uyise nonina akazange ukunika unyana okanye intombi yakhe, ithuba lokuba yamzekela njengoko akayi unikwa ithuba lokuba bafunde iimpawu kunye nobuchule babo. Ke kaloku umntwana, ndayihluthwa buqu "Mna" ndiya kuba ubomi bam bonke ukuba bajonge abanye abantu baze bathelekise impumelelo yabo kunye nempumelelo wesininzi, yaye ngenxa yokuba abazali basoloko wamkhumbuza ukuba kwihlabathi kukho abantu abangcono, unalungelo lini na ngokucacileyo kwicala lakhe.

Iimvakalelo isoloko umntu amava-daffodil

Kukho iintlobo ezininzi iimvakalelo badla bazive indoda-Narcisse phantse yonke imihla:

1. Imvakalelo shame. Olu didi lwabantu badla makangaziva eneentloni, leyo ngobuqili Elizifihla ngaphakathi ngokwayo. Ngenxa imvakalelo embi osenyanyeni, yanto, daffodils angathethekiyo ukuze ningaweli kuphela udandathekile, kodwa ube nemvo ihlazo ngenxa ngokwakhe, ngokunjalo ukuba abaninzi kubo uzithi eyingcali phantse ayinakwenzeka; kuba kwi-ofisi ka Narcissus iya ijongene yakhe shame.
2. Unetyala. Woman nokuba kwabakwaNarkiso oyindoda - baziva ityala bonke ubomi bakhe ngabazali bakhe, ngenxa yokuba bengakwazi ukuba bafezekise izinto endandilindele ukuba zabo, ukongeza, ukuba kujoliswe ekufikelelwa olinganiselwa iwayini sitsala ngokupheleleyo kwabakwaNarkiso. kunqabile kakhulu, kuphela xa umntu onjalo ngokwenene wadinwa self-ityala, ibango lakhe ukuba watshintshela kwi ezibonisa esipilini kwabanye.
3. Ixhala. njengokungathi efanayo ihambe oluntu-Narcissus phantse lonke, oko ngqo enxulumene yokuba ulindele ukusilela okanye imeko engekho solvable kuye. Kuyanikhubekisa ukoyika endleleni yakho ngayo ukuphila kwenye ukunyanzela Narcissus ukufadalala ube ukwimeko ixhala elingunaphakade kubo.

Nceda umntu nokuphazamiseka narcissistic

Ukuba ufumanisa ngemiqondiso zakho kuthandwa Narcissism wena, u ngokuyimfuneko kufuneka ukuba amncede. uncedo enjalo Injongo kukuba ukukhuthaza abantu ukuba bafumane ngabanye zabo "Mna", lo gama acandacanda ixhala, ihlazo kunye nemvakalelo rhoqo ityala. Yonke zeetheraphisti bakholelwa ukuba kwiimeko ezinjalo ubuhlobo kuphela ixesha elide nomntu omthandayo. Kukholelwa ukuba lo msebenzi phantse ayinakwenzeka, kuba ungasebenzisa inkxaso ukuba zenze umntu kuxinezeleko kunye lotywala, unako ukuba, ndayihluthwa iimvakalelo yakhe ihlazo, ixhala kunye wetyala, kodwa ukuba ukuyithanda - ukuba umsebenzi ibingakholeleki. Ngoko ke, ukuchacha nenkululeko yomntu evela yayinjengentuthumbo Narcissism kuxhomekeke kuphela kuye. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - khumbula ukuba rose-umntu kufuneka sidlule ukuba kuzo zonke izigaba unyango: ukusuka 'eloyikekayo' ukuya 'entle. "

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