Indlela ukuthetha kakuhle: Tips

Sonke sizame ukwenza abanye abantu babe nesimilo esihle, kodwa wonke umntu uyazi ukuba uvavanyo umntu abunjwe ngamacandelwana ezine? Ezi ziquka imbonakalo, izenzo, yaye, enyanisweni, nentetho yethu. Kulo mzekelo, into ebalulekileyo nje kuphela into esiyithethayo kodwa indlela yokuyenza.

Funda ukuthetha kakuhle

Ngokuqinisekileyo uyazi umntu omnye ubuncinane Inkathazo yokunxibelelana. Isibakala sokuba kufuneka ukwazi ukuthetha nje kuphela indlela ngokuzithemba, kodwa ngobuchule ukuveza umbono wabo.

Makhe sithethe iingongoma eziphambili kwintetho yethu, ngenxa yokuba akukho mntu bafundiswa ukuthetha ngayo, yaye ngoko, ezinye iingcebiso ziya kuba luncedo kakhulu.

Okokuqala, simele sinikele ingqalelo isigama. Kufuneka ufunde ngakumbi, kuba maxa wambi nje ndiphelelwe ngamazwi ukuvakalisa, ukuqulunqa iimbono zabo. Intetho yethu inokuba ulwimi-esile libotshelelwe, oko uyakwazi ukuhlangabezana ekuthiwa-lizwi-ukhula kunye nezinye iziphene.

Ngoku kubalulekile ukunikela ingqalelo uxinezeleko ukuba wenze ngamagama. Ukuze ke abanobuchule, kuyimfuneko ukwazi ukubiza amagama ngendlela eyiyo. Kulo mzekelo, esi sichazi-magama siza kunceda pronunciation oluchanekileyo, funda amagama zixhaphakileyo, kodwa ukuba ethandabuza ukugxininisa ngcono azise ntonye, okanye angaphosi.

Amaxesha amaninzi kwintetho yethu sithanda ukusebenzisa amagama chatha ningathwali nentsingiselo ekhethekileyo. Umzekelo: "Ngokubanzi, Ndakubhala amaphepha nezinto zonke anazo," "Kulungile, mna, wawubeka phaya phandle ngenxa, yintoni uhlobo isipha yamaphepha". Kuphela iiveki ezimbini zoqeqesho, kunye nentetho yakho iya kuba "cleaner" kakhulu kwaye abe nobuhle zoncwadi.

Sicinga ukuba ukuthetha kakuhle, asifanele silibale malunga nethoni, ethi ichaphazele umqondo ngoko kuye utshilo. Imveliso ilula: unako ubhale ilizwi lakho kwi tape wandule ucazulule kuyo, ungenza zingadityaniswa kule nkqubo, amaqabane, ukuze ndinixelele into azikuthandi yakho incoko.

Maxa wambi sisebenzisa kwintetho yethu kunzima kakhulu ukuqonda amazwi kwabanye. Khumbula iminyaka ekholejini, xa ngenene ungaweviyo ngundaba uprofesa, ukanti kwabonakala kuye ukuba uthetha kakhulu ezifikelelekayo. Inyaniso kukuba sonke thina sinokuthi ngolwimi olulula, uqondakale wonke ngokukhetha amagama. Zama ukuba ugcine intetho yakho akuzange ziqulathe amagama Akukwazi ukuba nomhlobo wakho, uze ke konke uya kweyela ndawo.

Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuthetha ngayo, kufuneka ukulibala ngokupheleleyo malunga ngokusebenzisa intetho engcolileyo, isitsotsi kunye nejagoni. Alithandabuzeki elokuba, umhlobo wakho uya kuqonda kakuhle ukuba nithi kuye: "Yaba Soul Plane Party, ngoko zikroboka kakhulu yaba motion kwi dance floor!". Kodwa akukho mfuneko ngomoya ofanayo ukuxelela umntu omdala malunga nendlela kwakuhlwa yakho ngeCawa. Kufuneka ukucoca intetho yakho uze ucinge ngoko zokuthetha ngaye.

Kutshanje, ethandwa kakhulu kubantu abathetha ulwimi lwasemzini, kwaba ukusetyenziswa intetho yakhe, amagama eelwimi zasemzini. Ukuxuba iilwimi nantoni na elungileyo uya kubakhokela, ayikho nje ugly, kodwa akucaci ukuba abanye abantu, nokuba bathe bazi ulwimi apho udla la mazwi.

Mhlawumbi wena kancinane wothuka, kodwa ukwazi ukuthetha ngayo, kufuneka uyazi ukumamela. Akuthandeki ukuba uya kuba lokuxoxa elungileyo, ukuba usoloko uphazamis umchasi yakho uze ungamniki ukuba aveze umbono wakhe.

Kulo mzekelo, oku akuthethi ukuba ngokubonakalayo kakhulu ukubuza imibuzo, kungenjalo incoko yakho ayiyi ungathanda ukuthetha, kodwa awayencinwa ngokwenene.

Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ulawulo segolide lokuxoxa okulungileyo: Musa ukubaphazamisa. Ukukwazi ukunika ilizwi kuthakazelelwa kakhulu kunene. Ngelo xesha, xa ilithuba lakho ukuthetha, awufuni i "elephuza amagwebu 'ukungqina ukuba umsulwa. Le ngxoxo kufuneka zifane impikiswano yepolitiki, apho wonke umntu ufuna ukuba akhusele ngombono wakhe kunye ukuthethelela izenzo zabo. Kufuneka ube nako ukuvula ingxoxo yakho kwincoko emnandi nje.