Indlela ukuqonda ukuba umntu uyatshona? Thatha ujongo kwi le qiniseka miqondiso

Xa umntu eqalisa ukutshona, akayi kubeka wendiza iingalo zakhe kwaye ucele uncedo. Ukuba niyazazi ezi miqondiso bathuleyo ukumka namanzi, oko kuthetha ukuba uza kumsindisa na ubomi bomnye umntu.

Ukumka ngoyena nobangela wesibini uqhelekileyo ukufa ngengozi ebantwaneni (ukusuka kunyaka omnye ukuya kwiminyaka eli-14) emva kwiingozi zendlela. Ngokutsho manani ukusuka ku-2004, 90% yabantwana abarhaxwa, baba ngeli xesha phantsi kweliso abadala. Uphando lucebisa ukuba aba bantu nje okomzuzwana buthathaka ingqalelo.

Kodwa, inyaniso kukuba xa abazali bajonge emva kokuba abantwana ngenyameko kakhulu, bona andazi ukuba yintoni oyifunayo, kuba ukumka ayikhangeleki ukuqonda kwethu njengesiqhelo kuyo. Ukuze kuthintelwe ntlekele, de kwaba lixesha, khangela le miqondiso, esithi umntu esengxakini.

Alinako ucele uncedo

Lo mntu kufuneka abe nako ukuphefumla, ukuze ucele uncedo. Kodwa xa urhaxiwe, intloko yakhe iwela ngezantsi uze kwakhona livela ngaphezu phezu kwamanzi. Ngoko ke, akukho ixesha elaneleyo uphefumlela ngaphakathi, siphefumla, kwaye ucele uncedo.

Akayi kuba wendiza iingalo zakhe ukutsala ingqalelo

Uphazamisa ndoda ngethuku lemvelo alitsale izandla umzimba uyayicinizela phantsi ukuphakamisa intloko yakhe umlomo ngaphezu kwamanzi. Umntwana ukuphosa iingalo zakho phambili. Ngoko ke, idle awukwazi ukusebenzisa izandla zabo ukunika iimpawu, ukususa umsindisi okanye nokusukelana izixhobo olungxamisekileyo.

Kuhleli kwindawo nkqo emanzini

Kulo mzekelo, umntu orhaxwa akayi kuhamba imilenze yakhe. Oku uyakwazi ukumelana ukusuka kwimizuzwana eyi-20 ukuya kuma-60 phambi kokuba uye emanzini.

Amehlo akhe glaze phezu

Indoda uphazamisa ayikwazi ingqondo. Kwakhona, zivaliwe amehlo akhe.

Ubuso bendoda orhaxwa kunzima ukubona

Hair inokuzigubungela ebunzi namehlo.

Intloko yayo esezantsi emanzini

Kulo mzekelo, umlomo kunokubonwa kumgangatho wamanzi. Intloko kwakhona itsheke umva umlomo - evulekileyo. Ukuba intloko lomntwana lingehla phambili.

Abantwana benza ngokuzolileyo

Abantwana bedlala emanzini, njalo nengxolo. Ukuba wayeka ngequbuliso umntwana wakho, wena ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka kufuneka ukuba kuyo uze ufumanise ukuba yonke into ILUNGILE.

Anicingi ukuba Usengxakini

Maxa wambi eyona nto ibalulekileyo ukuba umntu lowo usenkathazweni, kukuba akukho umfunela njenge warhaxwa. Ukusuka icala kubonakala ukuba akujonge nje esibhakabhakeni elunxwemeni, ecaleni lechibi kunye nezinto ezilolo hlobo. Ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuba abuze ukuba yonke into ILUNGILE. Ukuba ndikuphendule, ngoko ungakhathazeki. Kodwa ke ukuba umntu akukho jonga engenanto, nibe imizuzwana ngaphantsi kwama-30 ukuya kuyo.