Indlela ukuhlala bonwabile, kwaye okona kubalulekileyo uzive ngayo. Iingcebiso namacebo

Khumbula amazwi kakuhle eyaziwayo ukusuka ebuntwaneni nentsomi: "Ke yena wamanga umthetheli Cinderella, yaye ukususela ngoko ke bahlala ngolonwabo emva"?

Mhlawumbi iminyaka uphazamisekile athile abane nam lo mbuzo: "Eyona nto ngathi - ukuze sihlale ngokonwaba? Kuthetha ntoni oku? "Oko kukuthi, Yintoni i "elide" yaye "kunye" Andikwazanga lula ukuqonda asibambe, kodwa iindidi imeko ulonwabo kwakunzima ngakumbi.

Mna nabazali ibangela, ukuzama uku bana phandle, kodwa impendulo kuphela ndinganayo abantu abadala, le "sikhule, yaye ndiza ukuqonda!"

Kulungile, ndiye sele ibisencinane. Sinokuthi nkqu kunene, ikhule kakhulu phezulu. Ndiyazi ukuba njani ngokwabo, abayi ukutshintsha imigaqo zabo, indlela aphumelele ngayo umsebenzi. Mhlawumbi lifikile ixesha ukujongana kudidi ntsako.

1. Ingcamango ulonwabo.

Ngaphambi kokuba uphendule umbuzo wokuba ungaphila njani bonwabile, makhe sizame ukunika inkcazo loo gama.

Collegiate Dictionary ithi phantsi le meko kufuneka kuqondwe intsingiselo ulwaneliseko liphezulu zangaphakathi kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo ngokupheleleyo zobomi: ekhaya, umsebenzi kubomi bentsapho. Kwakhona kule meko kufuneka ngokuyimfuneko ukuze bazive ngathi ukuzala kunye nentsingiselo ubukho babo.

Ngexesha ubhala eli nqaku kwafuneka aqhelane eninzi iincwadi ezifanelekileyo I. Ndafumanisa ukuba inkoliso yabantu ehlabathini, ezizezi, 51%, - pessimists. ie Ngabo aba bantu, ngokutsho bengqondo, ngokucacileyo engqondweni kutsala ingxaki. Ukuzama, njengoko bathi, ukuze ubomi ngokwabo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba umtshato kakhulu ngakumbi, nomhlaza, babe nesizungu undilibele ebudaleni. Kutheni le nto isenzeka? Eyona nto kukuba iingcamango kuphela eyakhayo eliqaqambileyo usoloko ukuvelisa iziganeko bonwabile.

ie Ndifuna ukuthi, yintoni ukucinga okubi, ulindele ukuba impumelelo nolonwabo efanayo okanye - ngumsebenzi priori lithemba engenamsebenzi

2. Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba wonwabe?

Phambi kokuba uqale ukubhala le nto, ndagqiba ekubeni aqhube encinane vo uluvo. Ngo inye yeenethwekhi zentlalo nje wabuza lo mbuzo ungentla. Ndiyavuma ukuba umphumo kwandenza ndacinga.

Kwindawo abaphenduli kuqala ukubeka loo ubomi jikelele, le yesibini - elungileyo amathamsanqa, kwaye eyesithathu neyesine, ngokulandelelana, ndafumana amava ezomeleleyo evuya nokonwatyelwa iinzuzo aphezulu.

Mhlawumbi, bendiya amalungiselelo zonke ezahlukeneyo kancinane. Nangona mna qaphela ukuba zonke Abaphenduli becala abantu qela lobudala efanayo kunye nesimo ekuhlaleni, ukuze idatha usenokuba njengento kakhulu, ezikhathazayo kakhulu.

3. Indlela ukuhlala bonwabile kwaye nokuba kunokwenzeka ukufunda oku?

Zengqondo bathi abo bafuna ukuphumeza le meko thina, kufuneka nje ukuba amkele ezininzi imigaqo ebalulekileyo.

• Wedwa rhoqo. Ngubani? Zihlobo, nezihlobo, izalamane, babemi khona, reflection zabo esipilini.
• Yonke imihla ukunika okuncoma. Nokuba ngaba buhlungu kakhulu ukufumana amandla nokuba sithathe ucingo nokumkholisa ilizwi elilungileyo, bathi, umhlobo okanye umakhulu zintanda.
• Ukugqama. Kulungile le iresiphi, Kakade ke, kuya kuba amantombazana luncedo. Zama repaint iinwele, isicelo makeup licace, banxibe loluya ngakumbi kunesiqhelo.
• Amava injabulo kwizinto ezincinane.
• Khumbula ukuba imizuzu ulonwabo uphile ilindele amathamsanqa nesimemayo.
• Kaka ngokwabo imibala ukukhanya iingubo kwaye kwigumbi langaphakathi.
• Wehlelwa yinto entsha, funda into. Khulisa, ukufumana ikuba, kukho izinto ezininzi kangaka ehlabathini.
• Ukuzisa ukuze kwelo gumbi kwaye kwi desktop kwi-ofisi. Ngokutsho bengqondo, izinto kakuhle elisongiweyo ukuvelisa ingqiqo ukuzithemba ekuphumezeni iinjongo zethu.
• Ukuze ukuthetha kaninzi ngaphezu ubhale. Kwathi kanti, abantu abonwabileyo zivulelekile ngakumbi nengxoxo, lo gama ibuhlungu - zikholisa kwatshintsha amagama ambalwa kuphela.

Kulungile, apha ke, mhlawumbi, yaye basabela kuzo ekuqaleni kweli nqaku umbuzo wokuba ungaphila njani bonwabile. Nzima? Ndicinga nto. Kubonakala ukuba impumelelo sakhatshwa, kufuneka nje ukuba uthathe inyathelo kuye. Yenza ndincumeze ngokunyanisekileyo.