Indlela lahla izakhiwo? Kunzima, kodwa ngokwenene

Phantse bonke abantu, nkqu amahle kakhulu kwaye unempumelelo, uyazi nezakhiwo ezithile. Nje abambalwa bayakwazi ukuqaphela ukuba ezi kwizakhiwo nokuba kufuneka besilwa, ngoxa abanye ukuba izakhiwo zazo yamzekela zibulawa. Oku kakhulu kuphazamisa uxolo lwangaphakathi, kwaye rhoqo ngokwenene ukwazi ukuba kunjani ubomi kuphazamisa. Indlela ukuba balahle izakhiwo?

Izakhiwo asinyanzele ukuba siqonde ngokwabo ngendlela egqwethekileyo, kwaye bacinga ukuba ngendlela efanayo ziqondeka abanye abantu. Phantsi kwezi njengokungathi rhoqo akukho emhlabeni ubhalo, kodwa yokuzifumana nzima. Ngaphandle ngokwenene zange afune yaye ayizange iqalise ukusebenza kulo.

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukuqonda izizathu lweenkqubo zabo kwaye uzame ukuqonda oko kuchaphazela solid "jam" yayo zabo entlokweni yethu. Emva izakhiwo, enyanisweni, enkulu kakhulu. Ukuze abe naso okanye privytymi khathalela abanye. Ngako oko, izinto zazo, ngakumbi. Ngoko ke, ukuba banike iingcebiso onke amaxesha, Kakade ke, kunzima. Noko ke, kwengqondo ziye kwakuthe iikhrayitheriya iindlela jikelele ukuba ndithi kuni indlela balahle izakhiwo.

Ubuchule 'ngokungenisa' of izakhiwo zazo

  Makhe ukuvula ngasese. Akukho mntu ubakhathalele izakhiwo abanye abantu. Kholwani ndim, ukuba nzulu ngoku ndiyaqonda le ngxelo, kuye lo nto inye kuphela kukunceda ukuba uphile kunye umthwalo ngaphantsi kakhulu ngenxa amaxhala malunga iimpazamo zabo.

Ngoko ke, inyaniso namnye kuthi phantse azange. Ngamnye kuthi swi kwizakhiwo. Kuba uninzi kula mava ibuhlungu kakhulu, yaye nakuphi na ukukhankanywa nabo bangaphandle (okanye kufutshane) uba ahlabe ibe inxeba elivulekileyo. Kwaye, yintoni eyona uphawu kumawaka iimeko ezifanayo - ezinjalo umoni "jabs" isebenzisa, mhlawumbi ukulaya, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokungazi, aze alibale ukuba kuthi. Njengoko siqala ukukhula njengoko nengqumbo, asimele sigqibe iimvakalelo ezingentle ngoko weva. imenyu lama yityhefu uqalisa nezikhukula ngokukhawuleza thina ocean okukruqulayo. Thina ke, ngokubanzi, ukuba abo titshala ityhefa ubomi bakho kwaye vzleleivaem nenqala ehlabathini liphela.

Siya kuzama ukuba njongo. Ewe, iziphene ezithile kuthi. Mhlawumbi ezinye iimpawu imbonakalo, mhlawumbi ukungabi kokuzimisela. Kodwa ke kuqhelekile. Ngokuqinisekileyo idelno abantu apho. Kuphela ngokunxulumene kwabanye, kukuphangalala thina. Kodwa ekulungele 'kudla ubomi. " Indlela lokuyigxotha le yanto? Akukho mfuneko ukuba babathiye iintsilelo zabo ukuba ndigungxule onke amandla ezinokuvela, isibakala sokuba baye kuzimela ehlabathini. Kufuneka siqonde ukuba azikho ezi ntsilelo - oko kukuthi, kwakanye ngenxa yonke le nto.

Susa i "umkhusane intsimbi 'ukusuka kwizakhiwo zazo banokufunda kuphela ukuthetha kubo, kwaye ukhululekile, xa unako, eqhula. Iinzame ukufihla kwizakhiwo zazo likhulu kuphela. Thetha malunga kwizakhiwo okokuqala iya kuba nzima kunene. Ukuze sikwazi nazo. Xesha ngalinye, kuya kuba lula ukuyenza. Le ndlela inceda ngokwenene ukuqonda ukuba ayibulale njani na izakhiwo kunye buthathaka isiqingatha sabo. Oku kakhulu, japan elihle kunene.

Izakhiwo endaweni Technique

Kancinane izakhiwo umphefumlo, kufuneka uzame ukuba bazalise kwindawo kufudukwa kuyo into enye. e iingcali psychology sincoma usebenzisa le ndlela. Cinga ngale (okanye ke), yintoni obungathanda ukubona wena ezifanelekileyo. Free, ezintle, lube izakhiwo kunye neemvakalelo ngenxa yabo. Olu qeqesho luhlobo isizukulwana iinjongo ebomini. Uya ukudala umfanekiso, nto leyo eza kulandelwa. Le ndlela ivumela ukuba balahle imbonakalo nezakhiwo.

Jonga kudingeka nje ukuba phambili. Ukumalela wena njengoko climbers bandijonga (ithetha ukuba bacinge malunga isakhiwo), ukwenzela ukuba aphule. Uyakholelwa kwisiqu sakho. Ngena sisaci, "Ukuba mna, ngoko ngubani?" Kwaye niphila isekelwe kwinto yokuba bonke amathuba alinganayo ebomini. Kwaye kufuneka ukuba uhlobo umntu oya kuba nako ukuthatha ithuba ithuba lakhe, kodwa aziyi kuhlala ebomini, ukuhlala bengasebenzi ngenxa uloyiko engenanto yaye ngokufuthi sizathu.

Indlela ukuba balahle izakhiwo? Asimele soyike izimvo zabanye. Zama ukucinga oko abantu baya kuthi ngawe. Ubukhulu becala, kuxhomekeke kuwe awuna ishishini, kwakunye nezakhiwo zakho. Ngaphandle, owathi ukuba ezi Sudachan ezingqongileyo ngokubukekayo, ngcono okanye baphiwe ngaphezu ilungelo kunigweba. Ngoko ke, alahle iintloko ndibano. Qubeka njengoko ubona kufanelekile. Mabukhweleliswe kuni bonke siqonde ukuba uyazi ukunandipha ubomi. Yaye asinabuganga sikhwele kuwe ngeengcebiso kunye nezimvo, kwaye ngakumbi ke ukunikhumbuza iintsilelo zakho kunye nezakhiwo. Hi ndlela leyi, phawula: i abahlalutyi abaninzi vociferous, kakhulu, ubunzima evela izakhiwo kunye kanye njengokuba wayesoyika ukuhlekwa kuwe. Ukuba bayinyama, nabantu bonke. Ngoko kutheni besoyika?

izakhiwo ukulwa kufuneka baqinisekise ukuba abasekho ukuphazamisa ukuba wenze into ofuna. Hi ndlela leyi, yintoni uyakwazi ukubona iintsilelo zabo - ukuba a plus. Yiba sigxeke ngokwakho ikuvumela ukuba afune iindlela zokuphucula indawo yabo, abalinganiswa kunye nenkangeleko. Ukukwazi ukubona iliso lakho - ukuba inkuthazo ukuze inkqubela yakho. Yinto nje ukukunceda bana phandle ukuba balahle njani kwizakhiwo.

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekulweni izakhiwo - kukho inkolelo kubo, amandla abo kunye izakhono, kwakunye umnqweno ukuya phambili.