Man - a ukuba entsonkothileyo kakhulu, kunye nenkqubo ephuhliswe kakhulu luvo, waza wawisa umsebenzi engqondweni. Sonke - ukuya ithile enoba kukancinane okanye - kuxhomekeke iimvakalelo. Umsindo, ukuphazamiseka, tearfulness okanye imincili, "uboya-ukuhlanganisa" yaye "wavuka elimbala iiglasi", zilengiswa mood - zonke ezi mpawu ihlabathi lethu izivamvo, umntu abe ngaphandle apho kudala yaba irobhothi-like, isidalwa soulless.
Iinyembezi ukuphendula iimvakalelo kunye dibanisa kunye thabatha imiqondiso
Ziziphi iimvakalelo ubomi esiyifumana kakhulu - HIV okanye embi? Ukuze uphendule lo mbuzo kunzima kakhulu. Ngubani phantsi amandla ukuze ubale ukuba mangaphi amaxesha asizoluli imilebe ibe uncumo, okanye uncwine isiqabu kakhulu kugxekwa wazisulayo iinyembezi amaqhophololo. Oku nje inkosazana Nesmeyana emele bafakwa ngexesha wayenesingqala, njalo kuyo kunye sentsomi! Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba akukho bakhala? Ukusuka benhliziyo, ngokwasemzimbeni, usizi nkqu ngovuyo? Zonke - Yebo hayi! Kwaye kutheni, umzekelo, ukunqanda ngokwabo, ukuba amehlo kwi ndawo olumanzi kwintlanganiso kudala lilindelwe kunye omthandayo, okanye ukuba unayo into kakhulu bahleke nje? Ngokwahlukileyo koko, ezi mvakalelo beze nabo kuphela HIV, yokuhlanjululwa, kunye amathuba liyoyikeka. Kwaye ukuba ufuna ukulila xa ngenene nzima kwaye ezinye iziganeko emibi odakumbileyo ilitye phezu entliziyweni, sezingqondweni aphazamiseka, bedidekile? Iingcali zengqondo ayintsokothanga bathi: phezu koko, kwiimeko ezinjalo, ukukhala ayikho nje kuyimfuneko, kodwa kumele! Kutheni? Ngenxa ngaphakathi konke oko ebila, si- bafumane ukumpompoza ngokwasengqondweni, kwaye nomzimba ukhululekile kuwo uxinezeleko. Ukuba bambamba ezingakhiyo ngokwayo, ukuba cwaka, imvakalelo efumba, qhiwu psyche wethu, kanye njengoko emthonjeni zixinaniswe phantsi koxinzelelo. Kodwa le nkqubo ayikho ongenasiphelo! Kwaye ngenye imini, kulandele-dubulo, isiphumo leyo ibe ukudakumba, nezifo, efuna, kunye nezinye iingxaki ezininzi kakhulu. Abafuna ukuba kuyo nayiphi na imeko na ukukhala? Emva koko ulungele ukuba eyingcali pre-nomonde!
kufuneka ugcine nini ngokwabo
Siye kwakhona imeko apho iinyembezi i kuvamile ibakhusela ephilayo ezenzeka ngaphandle. Nangona kunjalo, naziphi na imvakalelo - oko ikrele kabini mbini. Xa uba Uthando, ie ngokugqithiseleyo ifomu, ngendlela ebaxiweyo, umfanekiso kuqala ukuba imbono lwezonyango, kakhulu. Kwaye apha, eneneni, kufuneka kuqondwe ukuba kwezinye iimeko kubhetele ukuba madolw 'anzima kwaye ukukhala kunokuba ukunyibilikisa ngokwayo yaye nyunit ngalo lonke ixesha. Kwaye ukuba akuyi kusoloko le meko kufuneka ukuvula amazwi iimvakalelo. Ukuba ukhathazeka, ngoko ukubonisa iinyembezi xa umoni - kuthetha ukuba ukubathoba ngokwam ngakumbi, ukubonisa ubuthathaka yabo novakalelo, oko kukuthi, angenise utshaba lwakho esinye isizathu ukuziqhayisa livuye. Kwaye kufuneka oko? Ngoko makhe sicinge malunga nendlela ukufunda ukulila beziko engeyiyo.
Funda ukulawula
Ewe, ibhodi lokuqala izandi ngale ndlela. Phuhlisa ukuzeyisa kunye nokuzeyisa, ukukwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo, ukubonisa mzuzu volitional. wena inkxaso Good malunga noku iya kuba ezahlukeneyo inkuthazo. Eyona ndlela ilula kakhulu efikelelekayo kubo bonke ezolileyo musa ukukhala - izihlandlo eziliqela umoya uze ubale ukuya ... Ngubani ku-10, kwaye ukuba mawuye kubani okanye ngaphezulu. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba emva msebenzi onjalo ungumntu ekhululekile, babambisana ngokwawo, kunye imvakalelo wabuyela indlela eqhelekileyo ngakumbi isidanga. Oko kukuthi, amacebiso iimeko ngokwemiqathango amandla majeure. Kwaye jikelele - umsebenzi elide kwaye nzima phezu ngokwakho!
ubungqina ongafanele
Njani ukuba ukulila xa ndifuna? Esinye isixhobo elungileyo - ukukwazi kujonga isikhundla kancinane ingxaki, xa uyayeka kubonakale yingozi. Geometry - ubungqina ngu ayiphikisani. Indoda waya kwenye? Ewe, kubuhlungu, kunzima, buhlungu, ithemba ... Epithets op kunokuba ongapheliyo. Kwaye Wena uyakwazi ukuhlala phantsi uze uzame ukubonisa ngenye indlela: indawo engcwele akukaze ezingenanto, kunye nokhathalelo "yakhe" - ithemba abahlobo abatsha, ukuzonwabisa, udlale, njalo-njalo. Enye page kuvuliwe ubomi - omnye kuqala. Ukuba unabantwana - ngoko, Kakade ke, imeko inzima kakhulu. Kodwa zemali kunye nezinye uncedo, "yangaphambili" akukho bani izenza! Ngenxa yokuba kufuneka aziphathe ngokungathi 'ubomi wachacha. " Ayikho! Yintoni na ukumbulala thina, esenza somelele - ukuze amkele le ubulumko behlabathi kakhulu, kwaye yena uya kunifundisa na ukuba ukhale indlela ziintlungu, kwaye lokuzithethelela, ihlabathi lakhe ngaphakathi ukusuka inkohlakalo yangaphandle.
uncumo
Iingcali zengqondo badla sincoma: xa beqala bawuphose intliziyo iikati - yiya esipilini kunye ngoncumo. Okokuqala a elula, kwanokuba uncumo lwakho ifana Etsho ngoncumo. Ke kwakhona, kwakhona kwaye kwakhona ... Kude kube ngoko, de uncumo, wena mvuyeleli, ngokunyanisekileyo, nangokusuk 'entliziyweni. Ke kaloku kwehla ngaloo mzuzu uziva ngathi kuba lula, ilula, kwaye utyiwa, uyeke ukuba ibaluleke kangaka. Phinda lo msebenzi rhoqo, ncuma xa reflection yakhe, bonwabele kuhlangana nawe! Ungenile practice: le ndlela ayikho kuphela okulungileyo abo bacinga ukuba ukwenza njani na, ukuze ndikhale. Uya kunceda nabani na ukuba nibe nomxhelo owonwabileyo; ukuze bafumane ubaluleko nokuzithemba. Ngoko ke, ekhumbula amagama adumileyo Baron Munchausen, uncumo, manenekazi, smile!
ukuphazamiseka
Ukuba unomdla kunanini na kukhala, Mna kufuneka kuphoxa kuwe; akukhona kwenzeke. Akukho nto imbongi yathi: "Akazange kunkqangaza, akazange aphile." Kodwa ukunciphisa amava kubuncinane - ungakwazi. Njani? Funda ukuswitsha futhi waphazamiseka. Wena ucinga ukuba i "freewheeling" yaye malunga yayinuka - ukuzama ukubaleka. Umntu uthatha le vacuum cleaner okanye ukuhlamba yangumgubo, abanye ngehlombe scribbling phezu umatshini wokuchwetheza, ukuzama ukubulala "buthelezi" luphawu impahla entsha. Umntu igcina cuisine kunye original iiresiphi, kunye nezinye osusa iinwele zakhe ngaphandle kumgxobhozo Kruchina umculo ngesingqi, iifilim comedy okanye incwadi mlonyeni kakhulu, umthandazo, ukucamngca, izixhobo umthambo nkqu sex ... Zonke iindlela ezilungileyo, ukuba nje ukunika yokumpompoza ayimfuneko ngokwengqondo bakhonza umbane intonga ngempumelelo.
Ukhankanye ukuba ukukhala
Ewe, ukuba uthe kuhlutha iinyembezi, kubalulekile ukuba corny "wakhwaza." Ukukhala sivakalisa kuphela iimvakalelo ezingasetyenziswanga, kodwa ubunzima ngokwasemzimbeni. ngobundlobongela, ngaphandle ukuzeyisa, ilizwi lakhe - Vala egumbini lakhe kwaye zithi qatha engqondweni yonke into. Wena phantse ngequbuliso uzive ngcono, uza kubona. Nangona kunjalo, siya sithethe kunye nabamelwane, hayi kude kwimozulu ... Kodwa ke ibali eyahlukileyo kancinane.
Uxolo lwengqondo - kusezandleni zethu
Uxolo, ukuba uxolo lwengqondo - urhulumente ekhethekileyo ngokuvisisana ngawe, noxolo. Ukwazile bakhethe iindlela zokucinga kunye nokukwazi ukujonga iingxaki zobomi kwiikona ezahlukeneyo.
- Funda "uyabonga ukwamkela" izipho kuphela wekamva, kodwa izifundo zayo ngobulumko kunye nobomi.
- Khangela ngeenxa zonke kuwe ulwazi "yonke into andikwazi" kunokuba "Mna lixhoba."
- Funda ukuba ulinde utshintsho: yonke inomvandedwa na, uMhlaba uzijikeleze ixesha liyabaleka phambili.
- Musa akufunekanga bajije self! Musa ukuzama ukubeka imeko elibi nikholwe kuzo. Kunoko, nomfanekiso eyakhayo, imifanekiso eqaqambileyo, iphupha ngesibindi yaye bavuya kakhulu. Wendalo yonke uya kukuphulaphula!
- Ngoko ke umgaqo ilandelayo: musa ubomi ngaphambili! Ukuba akuzange kube yimpumelelo, musa kwakhona kwaye kwakhona hlafuna ngokwabo - luyancipha amandla akho, baya, abazi lutho. Ukuba uphumelele xenga kule - nguwe "nibanqunqe" kwaye abazange lelinika ukuphumla.
- Musa ukumthethisa wena rhoqo. Kodwa musa nasizi ngawo onke amaxesha. Love wena, uxolele, kodwa hayi bayakhohlwa esemagqabini.
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