Ikati ekhaya: eyona nto ibalulekileyo yentuthuzelo kunye nokushisa kwekhaya

Indoda kunye nekati baye bahlala ndawonye ixesha elide. Izilwanyana zasendlini kumntu umntu akaqhelekanga ngexesha lethu. Phantse yonke intsapho ifumana isilwanyana kwihostela. Kodwa abaninzi bayavuma ukuba ikati yendlu ingumfundi ofanelekileyo. Ezi zidalwa ezimnandi zazifakwe kwiindawo ezimalunga namawaka ambalwa edlulileyo, kodwa ngoku zihlala ziyimfihlelo kuthi. Iikati ziziqhenyce, izilwanyana ezingaziwayo. Bakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwethu, ngaphandle kokuthetha nomntu. Kodwa oku akunakutshiwo ngabantu. Kwixesha lethu loxinzelelo kunye nokugqithisa kakhulu kunzima ukuhlala ngaphandle kwesilwanyana esinjalo, kwaye umntu-kwaye akunakwenzeka.

Iiplathi ezivela kwinqwelo yelifuyo njengekati, ikhaya liya kuthiwa likhulu. Ubungcali obuphambili ba oogqirha abafanelekileyo kunye nabangcolileyo beengqondo. Siyakuthanda kwaye sithande amakati kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ubaxolele zonke iimpazamo kwaye ungabaxhamli ixesha elide. Ekuphenduleni oku, iilwanyana zethu zisinika ukufudumala nokuthandana. Ukujonga amehlo enkatha engenanto, sivakalelwa njani indlela evakalelwa ngayo kunye nokuphazamiseka komzimba. Izilwanyana zisinika inkxaso yemoya, zinika uthando, zinceda ekunciphiseni ukuxhatshazwa, zivuyisa. Bakwazi ukusiphulaphula kunye nokuvalelwa ngethuba elimnandi: ikati iya kukunika ingqungquthela, iya kusula iinyembezi ebusweni bakho, ize ihlale phantsi kwakho okanye emadolweni, ukwazise ukuba ayinandaba. Ngenxa yoko, ukusetyenziswa kwekati endlwini kungenakukhutshwa. Siyabulela ezi zidalwa ezimangalisayo, ukuxinezeleka kwethu kuhamba ngokwawo, kwaye ngokukhawuleza sikhohlwe ukulimala okwenziwe kuthi, ukuhlambalaza ebusweni, kunye nokungaqondani nabantu abasondeleyo. Ikati iya kukuvumela ukuthululela umphefumlo wakhe owonzakeleyo, ukhangela nawe ngamehlo akhe, khawuphulaphule, mhlawumbi, uphakamise isandla sakho. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza ihlabathi elijikelezayo libonakala libonakala licacileyo kwaye linethemba. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ikati yendlu yinto ebalulekileyo yokufudumala nokuthuthuzela. Intaba yeengxaki eziqokelelweyo zinyamalalala ngokukhawuleza, ngokungathi azizange zibe khona.

Kukhona inguqulelo enjalo ukuba ukusebenza ngokuqhelekileyo kweekati kuyimfuneko ngezikhathi ezithile ukufumana isabelo samandla ambi. Akukho nto abayithandayo ukulala emathelevishini, ii-laptops kunye nezinye izixhobo ezikhupha amaza angenakwi-electromagnetic waves. Ngokubhekiselele kumntu, ngokuchaseneyo, ukuziva ulungile, kuyimfuneko ukulahla amandla angenamandla. Xa ikati ifumana indawo enobungozi kumzimba womnini wayo kwaye iwele kuyo, inceda yona kunye nomntu. Ngoko ikati yendlu iyimfuneko kakhulu, yinto enqabileyo ngaphezu kwanoma yimuphi ugqirha.

Izilwanyana zethu zihlala ziyamkela ukubuyela ekhaya. Ngokungafani nabantu abasondeleyo, abayi kudibana nathi ngemibuzo enomsindo malunga nokuba sele side kangakanani. Amakati aya kuvuyiswa ngokusibona, ngoko nangoko uqale ukuxubha ngeenyawo kunye ne-purr.

Umbuzo wokuba unako ukugcina amakati ekhaya, xa kukho abantwana abancinci endlwini, nabo banenkxalabo kubazali abaninzi. Ukuba ngexesha lokuzalwa komntwana kwintsapho yakho sele inomhlobo ongekho mfuneko, musa ukulibala malunga noxanduva lwezinto eziphilayo ezincinci kwaye ngokukhawuleza uzilahle.
Kwanele kuphela ukulandela imithetho ethile. Okokuqala, thabatha ikati yakho kwizilwanyana ukuze uqinisekise ukuba akanalo izifo, kubandakanya ubukho beempethu okanye iifere. Ngoko ukuba iimpukane aziqali ekhaya, ungashiyi isilwanyana sakho kwisitya ixesha elide. Kwakhona, qiniseka ukuba ikati lakho alihlali linye kunye nosana, ngelixa elincinci kwaye engayiqondi indlela yokuphatha izilwanyana. Ukukhula, umntwana kufuneka afunde indlela yokuphatha isilwanyana. Tshela umntwana ukuba ubambe njani, intsimbi, udlale nayo. Ungakulibali ukuba ikati iyidalwa ephilayo, idinga uthando kunye nokunyamekela. Yaye ukuba uhlala ukhumbule lo mgaqo, isilwanyana esingenayo i-mustachioed ayiyi kuba yingxaki, kodwa iya kuba ngumhlobo omhle.