Imitshato ye-Yezidi: inimitable kunye ekhanyayo

U-Yezidis maxa wambi uzibiza ngokuthi ezdi. Ngokutsho kwentloko yeYezidis yehlabathi, i-Mir Takhshin Said-bega, eli qela le-ethnoconfessional lingamaKardi. Ilizwe lakwa-Yezidis liphondo lase-Iraq laseMosul, apho bahlala khona emhlabeni jikelele emva kweMfazwe Yehlabathi Yeyokuqala. Namhlanje bahlala eTurkey, eArmenia, eGeorgia naseRashiya.

Abantu abalungileyo kunye abanetalente banamathele ngokunyanisekileyo amasiko abo. Zonke iinkonzo ze-Ezdi zikhangeleka kakhulu, kodwa, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ezona zizodwa kwaye zimibalabala imitshato ye-Yezidi.

Isigqibo somtshato senziwa ngabazali baselula. I-Beshkertum isithethe apho nabantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa banokuba "baceba". Namhlanje, umkhosi othandwa kakhulu yi-Shirani rite. Ngokuya kuye, abazali baya endlwini yomtshakazi ngezipho ezicebileyo zokubuza abazali bakhe ngezandla zakhe. Ukuhlengwa komtshakazi (i-Halim) namhlanje akusadingeki.

Kwiiveki ezimbalwa emva koko, izalamane zomyeni zihambele indlu yomtshakazi kwakhona zibone izipho ezicebileyo.

Umtshato we-Yazidi uqala kusasa ekuseni kwindlu yomyeni. Vala izihlobo, iingoma, abahlobo baqokelele. Ngokusondele kwantoni, iindwendwe zithunyelwa kwindlu yomtshakazi, apho zilindele elincinci, kodwa zigqutywa yiyo yonke imithetho yetafile.

Imitshato ye-Yezidi yinkimbinkimbi yokungahlekiyo kunye nezithethe, ngoko uhambo luhamba ngesitalato kunye nezingoma, umculo wesizwe, udaniso. Abasetyhini baphakamileyo ngaphezu kwentloko (wonke umntu ubonakala) ethwele izipho kumfazikazi (Sany), ehamba kunye neengoma zomculo zesizwe. Iitekethi kufuneka zingabi ngaphantsi kweetlanu, ziyakwazi ukujikeleza kuphela. Ngowokuqala-i-shawl ebomvu ebomvu uHaley kunye nesambatho somtshato.

Kwezinye iiteyiphu - iipeseyile, iwayini, izipho. Umtshato we-Yezidi uhlala ucebile: zilungiselelwe ukusuka kumzuzwana wokuzalwa komntwana kwaye uzama ukwenza konke ukuze bathethe ngeeholide ixesha elide.

Xa izalamane zomyeni zizama ukuphatha abazali bomtshakazi, baqala ukugqoka umtshakazi. Ngeengoma zesithethe, phantsi komculo wesizwe, baqala ukuthatha iingubo zakhe kwintombazana (ngokumhlolisisa ngento yokungahambi kakuhle kwezinto eziphathekayo).

Emva koko bembatha ingubo yomtshato. Ngeli xesha, amantombazana athile anika izipho kumyeni kwaye abonise izipho zakhe kwiindwendwe, udada lwakhe. Umcamelo womtshakazi kufuneka uhlawulelwe. Umtshato we-Yezidi uqhubeka endlwini yomyeni.

Kukholelwa ukuba ukususela kuloo mzuzu umtshakazi uphendukela kwintsapho yomyeni. Ukudibanisa imanyano yabo, uHaley obomvu kunye ne-shawl endala yomtshakazi bahlanganiswe ndawonye. Umtshakazi nomyeni baya kubhiyozela kunye neendwendwe, kwaye i-dowry iwalandela ngomculo.

Kakade, oku akuyona inkcazo epheleleyo yemicimbi yomtshato yeJezidis. Kukho imigaqo yabazalwana kunye nabazali.

Kunzima ukugcina amasiko, ngokukodwa ulutsha lwanamhlanje: kukho ubuninzi bobuqili bokuqonda.

Nangona kunjalo, kwiidolophu ezininzi, oogqirha abazazi zonke iinkcukacha zezithethe zikulungele ukubanceda. Ngokomzekelo, iMitshato ye-Yezidi eTambov, iRostov-on-Don inokuhlelwa yi-arhente yomtshato okanye i-toastmaster. Baya kunceda ekufumaneni konke okufunekayo kumtshato wesizwe, ukufumana izixhobo zomculo, nokuthatha indawo yokubhiyozela.