Hetero - ngaba elungileyo okanye embi?

Yokulala - ibinzana kuviwa rhoqo kakhulu namhlanje. Chaza uhlobo orientation, ngokunjalo iindlela ezingekho semgangathweni kobudlelwane, kwiimagazini, phezu kwiiforam, thetha imiboniso, kwaye kanye ngexesha zeendibano xa cafe kunye nabahlobo. Ngamanye amazwi, eli binzana ubizwa ngokuba abantu "obuqhelekileyo". Nature unike ngamnye wethu amandla okuzala, yaye ngoko, kuba lo msebenzi, kufuneka abantu ngokwesini ezimbini nathi. Isibini yokulala - babizwa ngokuba "zemveli" yokuqhelaniswa nezifundo. Bonke baqhelile ukubona ehleli kunye kwisitulo kwaye bephuzana amantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe. Heterosexuality emzimbeni esabekwa ngokwemvelo.

Yokulala - aba ngabantu abaye abangazange ndacinga imali ukuzama ezinye iintlobo zobudlelwane. Kubo oku akwamkelekanga kwaye ngokwemvelo. Igama elithi "heterosexuality" iye yaphakanyiswa kule ncwadi Riharda okwakhiwa-Ebing kaThixo "psychopathy Sexual". Iinzululwazi zizibiza eli lizwi wemvelo ngokwemvelo, enjongo - ukukhuthaza ukuzala. Kulungile, umtsalane ngokwesini kubantu besini esahlukileyo ngokwemvelo. Besini - aba ngabantu ukuze lowo ubudlelwane zikaPlato kunye ngesondo kunokwenzeka kuphela ngengqiqo yemveli.

Yokulala - umlinganiselo ukuba ukuziphatha eqhelekileyo, kunye nobudlelwane zemveli. Noko ke, ubufanasini ngoku akukho unxaxho enjalo, loo nto ngokoluvo inkoliso yabantu banamhlanje. Kubonakaliswa yomtsalane kubantu ngesondo yakho iye yaba yinto eqhelekileyo. Namhlanje ngenkuthalo ekulweni izoyikiso ibhekiswe ubudlelwane besini esifanayo kunye imitshato. Ngokuphandle kwimiju- gay, akukho namnye eyeka ukuya bar kwaye kumhlangabeza abantu abanazo ukuba imicimbi, nkqu bancokola ngokukhululekileyo ngale nto. Akukho bade ubhalo ulala rhoqo kunye nonxibelelwano. Li - le ndlela efanayo, kodwa iingcamango ngaphezulu eqhubekayo. Umntu nale iwonga ngokulula imali neentlobano zesini kunye nabameli amadoda namabhinqa.

Amaninzi, lo gama abantu "ngqo" nazo xa bebhalisa sites rhandzana. Kukho bacelwa ukuba ukhethe bokuqhelaniswa nezifundo. Kukho ingcamango: "yindoda nebhinqa ntoni na? Ngaba kanye nokuba zengqondo zemveli ngesondo, okanye mhlawumbi kwakhona eminye ulwalamano imibala evakalala?" Yokulala, ephakathi - olu khetho xa bebhalisa ekhetha nalowo ufuna yintsapho eqhelekileyo. Umthetho akakwaleli ngokuphathelene zobufanasini. Kwelinye icala, loo nto ilungile. Umntu ngamnye angenza into ayithandayo. Kwelinye icala, kusenokwenzeka kuvela iingxaki, ukuba oyifunayo, ulwalamano esemthethweni ezinjalo. Akusoloko ukuya imitshato efanayo-sex lebyinene. Ingakumbi xa kuziwa kwi intsapho ukuba ufuna ukuba nomntwana.

Abantu abaninzi emhlabeni, nto leyo malunga ne-90% ye-basonta yokuqhelwaniswa tye. Sexy Ngaba ngokwaneleyo umntu okhetha unxibelelwano olwenziweyo kumgangatho onjalo? Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuba ngamnye kuthi ubuncinane kanye ebomini bam wacinga ukuba ukuphila ngendlela adventure umdla ummeli besini esifanayo. Enyanisweni, ukucinga - loo nto engeyakwenziwa. Nakuba kunjalo, kukho iqela wangumququzeleli ubudlelwane non-yemveli. Oku kuthiwa "heterosexism." amalungu alo uzama ukubonisa ukuba obufanayo okanye ulala - yinto nje ababonakele, isono kunye ulwaphulo okunxamnye nemvelo.

Yokulala - oku ke kuqhelekile nezendalo. Ezinye, engazi kuthetha ntoni na ixesha, ukuze, emva kokuva kwayo, lungazi busengozini. Ngoko ke, kungenxa yobu isini kuthathwa ukuba zemveli. Heterosexuality eqale luphawulwa ngamnye zabantu. buvamise khuba abaphuhlise ebuntwaneni okanye lokufikisa phantsi kwempembelelo ngenxa yemeko ezisingqongileyo. Ngokufuthi nditsaleleka kubantu besini esahlukileyo sisiphumo trauma okanye lokwaluka enogonyamelo kule ndlela yokuphila.