Autistic - ngubani na? Indlela ukufunda ukuphila nesi sifo?

Esi sifo engaqhelekanga ucula atsho ubomi yonke intsapho. Abazali babengazi yaye akazange aqonde ukuba umntwana wabo, uve isiphelo zeesayikholojisti yengqondo ukuba umntwana wabo - autistic. Ngubani na, ukuba ndikwazi oko sifo nendlela ukufunda ukuhlala kuyo? Ngaphambili, xa ezi ukuphazamiseka kwi umntu ubeka ibala ezingaqhelekanga ngokwasengqondweni. Ngoku, ngakumbi nangakumbi luyenziwa lokwazisa ancedise ekuqeqesheni lonke usapho kunye nomntwana.

Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba esi sifo sichaphazela abantwana kuphela. Noko ke, abantu bakhule, babe abadala. Kwaye ebudaleni umntu onjalo lijongene ezininzi iingxaki kunye nemiqobo. Ngenxa yoko, autistic ... ngubani na? Weirdo? Umntu nge ngumlinganiswa enzima? Abagula ngengqondo? Esi sifo sichaphazela imbono kunye nokuqonda ububanzi zizinto (incentives), evela ngaphandle. Umntu akakwazi ukuthetha ngokwaneleyo, ngokufuthi uthi, akaziphenduli amagama nemvakalelo ubathandayo. Noko ke, badla wabona uvakalelo olwandisiweyo izinto ezahlukeneyo zangaphandle ezifana ukukhanya, ivumba okanye ingxolo. Hayi njalo, Noko ke, umntu lowo kunzima okanye akunakwenzeka ukuba ukunxibelelana, sinokuthi yena autistic. Ngubani na ukuba abahlobo kunye nabo? Kunzima ukuchaza iimvakalelo nokwakha ubuhlobo nabanye abantu. Kungenxa yesi sizathu ukuba abadala abaphethwe Autism, badla ngokuba akukho mkhaya. Abantu abanjalo abakwazi ubajonge naye emehlweni. Ngenxa yoko, iphutha waqonda ukuba akafundanga, indindisholo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, emacaleni ingqalelo ukungabikho impendulo ukungakhathali okanye ukungabi ezivulekileyo, yaye musa ukuza sikhumbule ukuba phambi kwabo autistic. Ngubani na onako ukuma? Indlela yokuphucula imfundo oluntu kunye nentsapho, ukuvumela njani abantu abanjalo ukuba baphile ubomi ngokupheleleyo?

Enye ingxaki ke ezahlukeneyo ukuphazamiseka yokuthetha. Kwaye akukho nje isibakala sokuba abantu bafumana ubunzima kunye nokudityaniswa izandi, amagama okanye amagama.
Abantu abane ASD akakwazi inxaxheba kwincoko nabanye. Le ngxoxo kakhulu isekelwe omnye yesigulane, ngubani akakwazi ukufunda
non-ngamazwi imiqondiso, isigqebelo, iziqhulo nokudelela.

Le program for Autism ijolise kokuvuselelwa nje izakhono zabo nokuziphatha kunye nonxibelelwano, kodwa ukusebenza kunye nosapho. Ngelishwa, njengoko Russia kunye namanye amazwe amaziko ezinokunika uncedo ingcali, logama nje ngokwaneleyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba izifundo nabantwana autistic azifumaneki kuzo zonke iintswelo zeentsapho zabo. Ngoko ke, lo umthwalo iphambili kuyimfuneko ukuthwala abazali. Abantu abadala kunye nale sifo kukuba ngaphambili babhaqiwe kwaye kwafumaniseka ukuba une, waqonda luluntu njengoko "Botany", eccentrics, cranks. Kumazwe amaninzi, iintsapho ukunxibelelanisa ingxaki autism, leyo ziququzelele iziganeko ezizodwa ezijoliswe lokukhulisa ulwazi. Kodwa kodwa alikalufumani iisayikholojisti zobungcali oonontlalontle, ngubani kunika uncedo ingcali. Unyango yokuziphatha umntwana autistic, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, yeyona ndlela isebenzayo ngelo xesha, kodwa abazali abaninzi zange weva ngozi. ootitshala bezikolo, ootitshala bajamelana neengxaki ekujonganeni abantwana abanjalo. Kuyimfuneko ke ngoko njengoko uqeqesho olufanelekileyo kunye nophuhliso lobungcali lootitshala. Nayiphi na imiqathango kufuneka lujoliswe, ukwenzela ukuthintela iyantlukwano autism.