Abantwana ukuqina: Indlela ukubanceda?

Bonke abantwana yimincili nomdlandla ngaphandle kwesizathu olungileyo kuqwalaselwa. abantwana ukuqina Akukho mogukt ukulawula ukuziphatha kwakhe ngenxa nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo encinci. abantwana ukuqina izinto ngokungxama, azingqinelani, ukuba abakwazi elide into ingqalelo, nje bethe tu, ngenxa yamaSirayeli a nzima.

Ezi abantwana kwisenzeko rhoqo, kunye neentshukumo zabo ingalawuleki unganxibelelananga apha rhoqo. abantwana ukuqina ngokupheleleyo abayazi indlela ukuphulaphula interlocutor. Bathetha kakhulu, rhoqo emlonyeni bexabana kunye nabantu abadala. Kuba abadala kunzima kakhulu ukumelana nawo, kodwa abantwana nomdlandla ukuba akukho lula.

abantwana ukuqina badinga uncedo ziingcali ezininzi. Neuropathologist umisa unyango, ootitshala kunye nootitshala, esebenzisa ubuchule ukukhuthaza, ukufundisa umntwana ukulawula ukuziphatha kwakhe ingqalelo ifihlakale ibonwa ezingaqhelekanga zokuziphatha. Kungcono ukufunda ukulawula indlela yabo ingqalelo kunceda ukuqeqesha umdlalo. Ngethuba leeseshoni nabantwana nomdlandla kufuneka kuthabatha umdlalo kwi kuphuhliso ingqalelo, ukuphumla, ukuyilwa izakhono ummiselo olunamandla-lokuphila kunye nokukwazi ukunxibelelana.

Kuqala kwinto zonke, ukulungisa ukungahlaliseki abantwana, kufuneka indawo ezolileyo, ngentlonipho imini. Umntwana ngethuba leeseshoni okudlala bakwazi ingqalelo umsebenzi, akukho mfuneko ukutsala rhoqo phezulu, kungenjalo zizakucima zilayite ukulawula ukuziphatha kwalo. Zifuna sinikele ingqalelo kuso kuphela emva kwexesha elithile. Umntwana ayikho yimfe kwaye overexcited, udinga ixesha iyahluka imisebenzi yakho yaye okona kubalulekileyo - kwaoko umvuzo wakhe okanye abohlwaye, njengoko umntwana akakwazi ngokwayo ukuvavanya izenzo zabo kwaye kufuneka esweni rhoqo ezivela ngaphandle. Okokuqala, kunye nomntwana kufuneka ukuba kujongwane ngamnye, uze emva koko ngokuthe ngcembe ukuze sizidibanise kule midlalo qela umntwana angene ilungelo esihlanganyelweyo ayikwazi kuba ngenxa angalinganiyo wayo, nto leyo ekhokelela iingxabano phakathi abantwana bedlala.

Oku kuziphatha njengento ngezifo kwi gqira zenkulungwane yamashumi amabini, yaye 80s ukungahlaliseki ebantwaneni ume ngaphandle kwi sisifo esahlukileyo ebizwa ADHD - ingqalelo disorder kunye ukungahlaliseki okanye ingqalelo disorder. Ngokutsho izazinzulu ADHD luchaphazela malunga ne-18% abantwana abasemngciphekweni ukwenzela uphuhliso ithuba imikhuba efana likhoboka iziyobisi okanye utywala. Okubangel 'umdla kukuba, loo ingqalelo intsilelo ukungahlaliseki disorder yamakhwenkwe livela izihlandlo eziliqela kaninzi ngaphezu amantombazana.

Iimpawu zokuqala ADHD maxa wambi ngisho kunyaka wabo wokuqala bezelwe. abantwana abanjalo badla ethe kakhulu kwiintlobo ngeentlobo zizinto zangaphandle, ezifana kukhanya okwenziwe, izandi kunye kakhulu ngakumbi. Balila rhoqo kwaye phezulu, ulale embi kunye Intwana yobuthongo, kusenokubakho abathile ukulibaziseka motor ulwimi nophuhliso, abantwana badla zezenzi, egalelwe kunye neemvakalelo kancinane.
Abazali kule minyaka yokuqala yobomi bomntwana badla abachaphazelekayo malunga inani elikhulu zeentshukumo zakhe, koko, ngokufuthi zingcolile yaye umbhodamo, oogqirha bathi abathile okuthile kunye ubuqhitala bokoyiswa ezi abantwana ezinye iingxaki ngentetho, iintshukumo ezintsonkothileyo ezifana ukutsiba befunda kakhulu kamva.

abaphandi abaninzi ukungahlaliseki kunye nootitshala qaphela ukuba aba bantwana ngakumbi nangakumbi qho ngonyaka. Ngoku uphando kwazo ngoonobangela kule meko, oku ivelisa eziliqela yezizathu, leyo yahlulwe (a engenasizathu nje, kunjalo) ngokwamaqela amakhulu amathathu: yenza isicwangciso yemfuza, okanye ilifa, bemvelo, oko kukuthi, ukonakala kwengqondo ezahlukeneyo ngexesha bekhulelwe okanye ngenxa ekuzalweni lokuthuthuzela amaxhoba kunye nezentlalo-ngokwasengqondweni, eli qela libandakanya abazali butywala okanye ngamakhoboka eziyobisi, imfundo kakuhle kunye / okanye iimeko zokuphila amahlwempu, yaye imozulu usapho esibi.

Iqela lesithathu yezizathu, abaphandi abaninzi cinga ezingundoqo, ngoko ke kupheliswe yezi zizathu, le ingqalelo azithanda umntwana kunye nesakhono ukuze ube ngumhlobo wakhe kunokunceda kakuhle abantwana abaninzi kunye ADHD.