A abanovakalelo lwenkululeko, okanye xa umntwana eqalisa ukuba ukukhasa

Ngamanye amaxesha, abazali abatsha kunzima kakhulu ukuqonda inani elikhulu zezincomo bekhulisa kunye nophuhliso lo mntwana. Akumangalisi oku, kuba kubo evela kumacala ahlukeneyo "ifuthe" ebangela amava intlonipho oomama elihloniphekileyo ezinzulu oomakhulu, elinegunya isikhokelo udokotela, umnikelo ngenkalipho ezinobuchule abahlobo abatsha-intanethi, kwakunye ngokokubona uMakazi ingqondo ukusuka kumgangatho we-6 kunye eziqhelekileyo kwisibhedlele sokubelekela , nto leyo nayo angena kubethwa ngoyaba. Ukuba on ngamaxesha ebalulekileyo kubomi kwiimvuthuluka njengoko uncumo yokuqala, ukukwazi ukubamba entloko okanye bahlale, yonke, ufanelwe trust, uluntu sibuye kwezinye ukulalanisa, ngoko nqanaba xa umntwana eqalisa ukuba ukukhasa, umama kunye notata kuya kufuneka ukuba ukumelana ngokwabo. Yintoni umahluko ezinokuvela ngokuphathelele iintshukumo aba bantwana zibonakala lula ngayo? Kwaye, enyanisweni, kwi ezayo. Abaninzi abazali namhlanje sinelunda bathi ukuba umntwana wabo akabi ukukhasa, yaye ngoku, umzekelo, ahamba, kamsinya nje uye wafunda ukuba bahlale, waya bade babaleka. Ukongeza, uphando lubonisa ukuba abantwana ukugaqa ixesha elide kwaye iziyolo, kakhulu kamva kuvuka imilenze okanye ukwala ukuya. Kodwa musani ukuyeka iimvuthuluka ezirhubuluzayo!

Ngoko ke, ukukhasa okanye ukukhasa? Lo ngowona mbuzo.

Okokuqala, makhe ukuchaza: Xa umntwana eqalisa ukuba ukukhasa? Kwi-avareji, oko kwenzeka phakathi kweenyanga ezi-5 no-6 zobomi baby. Ngu iinyanga 7-8 - a pipsqueak bafudukela ngale ndlela sele kakhulu nentembelo. Ngaphezu koko, encane ngamnye yobukhokeli ethile gaqa yayo; ngasemva, emacaleni, idiagonally, khaba - yokwahluka ubunzima. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba umntwana wakho kule zokukhula ukhetha kulala ebhedini okanye bahlale kwindawo highchair? Kutheni umntwana ukugaqa? bafuna nje ukuba uqaphele ukuba akukho sizathu sokuba ukothuka. Mhlawumbi amathambo usana dystrophy nangoku ngokwaneleyo kuphuhliswa. Apha uze ziyabanceda ikhosi elikhethekileyo imithambo nokuphulula. Kwaye mhlawumbi sawo bafune ezolileyo has a mixture nakusukelo ngaphantsi esebenzayo. Enoba kunjalo, kokubonisana umntu ofanelekileyo akayi buhlungu.

Okulandelayo, kufuneka ugqibe ukuba uza kufundisa ngokukhethekileyo usana ukukhasa? Kakade ke, abazali kufuneka benze isigqibo. Kodwa mhlawumbi zibakala zilandelayo othulula kakhulu intsalela ngakwicala "ewe". Njengezinambuzane - indlela egqibeleleyo ukomeleza amathambo dystrophy, kakuhle ukuphuhlisa nibhinqe egxalabeni kweqondo eliphezulu. Oku kuthetha ukuba umzimba lo sana, nako ukukhasa, uya ekhalipha kumcacele kakhulu. Ukongeza, ngeli thuba kwenzeka kunye nophuhliso lwemimandla ezithile zobuchopho. Oko kukuthi, ukuba uyakwazi ukususa ukukhasa ukungaqheleki ingqondo encinane ezinxulumene kwasekuzalweni. Strange kodwa yinyani: Impumelelo yesikolo kwiimvuthuluka zakho zixhomekeke ngqo kwi ixesha xa umntwana eqalisa ukuba yokukhasa. Ngapha koko, it ikuvumela ukuba yokukhasa enyelisa lasekunene-lesandla elungele kakhulu kuphuhliso lwezakhono motor entle. Oku kuthetha ukuba kaligrafi nokupeyinta evela kwinzala yakho akayi kuba naziphi na iingxaki. Normal ulungelelwaniso injini, kuqhelaniswa isithuba, uphuhliso izixhobo vestibular kunye nokuzithemba - iziphumo ezifanayo ezintle enyakanyakeni.

Ngenxa yoko, iqonga yophuhliso, xa umntwana iqala ukukhasa, kubalulekile kakhulu, kunye neziphumo yalo encedayo angqiniweyo ngokwezenzululwazi. Ukulungiselela olu sana thuba, oogqirha babantwana ukucebisa kaninzi kangakanani kuzalwa zingasasazwa kwi esiswini, yaye kwiinyanga-4 ukwenza imithambo ezithile. Umzekelo, umama lungisa ngokwalo nezibambo nemiqhathane neentungo, ukuxhasa ngesandla phantsi ibele. Enye indlela - ukugcina lwakukhula ukuze nemilenze yakhe ningayichukumisi umphezulu, incopho - khosi ngokutsha ukwenzela ukuba "aba."

Indlela yokunceda umntwana wakho gaqa? Ufuna ukudala iimeko ekunene: indawo ephakathi ezithambileyo elikhusela usana evela yokwenzakala, ukhululekile, ecocekileyo, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, indawo ekhuselekileyo ukugaqa itshatshazi, ushukumisa zokudlala ingqalelo, nto leyo kukhonza kakuhle nje kwanokuvuselela ukuhamba.

Yaba ngeli xesha intombi okanye unyana wakho Usihlube zexa ezintsha ngokupheleleyo yaye, ke ngoko, ngaphezu ngonaphakade imfuneko yokuba uthando lwakho, ukhuthazo kunye nenkxaso. Kaloku, sicaca?